posted June 27, 2019 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
For me
Sun trine Sun, Sun sextile Sun, Sun conjunct Sun

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posted July 05, 2019 12:08 PM            

My best friend's Mars tightly sextiles my Sun
My Mars tightly trines his Sun.

His Moon tightly sextile to my Sun.

The orbs must be tight though i.e under a 3 degree orb.

Mars is guts & actions(how one actually acts or asserts oneself). How do you treat each other when under pressure and not in your "best" moments.

Jupiter is morality or ethical outlook. How you two grow with each other over time etc. Will this association extend beyond this context? Years tend to tighten the Jupiter bond when other planets loosen it.

Sun is authenticity or self expression.The person will always be expressing this nature "as is". Do you like it? Or will you be intent on changing it? Sun expression gets stronger as we age.

Moon is inner motives or the inner intent. This is what is not always obvious and beneath the surface. Why do they act like this within their interaction with you.Do you like how they support you? Do you feel cared for?

Moon-Jupiter easy tight aspects for instance means the two agree with each others motives and ethical outlook (barring other contradicting aspects). I really like this aspect in relationship as well as a public working relationship. Great support for each other.

Moon cares for Jupiter and likes listening to their far out ideals.Jupiter gains an "audience" with Moon and loves the reception they get.

Mars/Moon easy tight aspects keep the relationship warm and arousal levels hot without the added tension of a possible (and equally flammable)fallout that the square, conjunction and opposition can present. Great for intimacy.

Mars excites the Moon and to the Moon, Mars could.be wearing an old sack of potatoes and still get to hit it

Moons receptive nature harnesses and embalms the otherwise aggressive and sometimes self-alienating traits of Mars. This is a relationship that doesn't threaten their need to be themselves. Moon forgives a lot of Mars' instinctive impulses.

Mars/Sun easy tight aspects is attraction that is not "in your face". The two compete with each other but with no hard feelings. One helps to motivate the other to do better. Great for a productive and warm friendship.

Mars 'dares' the Sun to come out and show itself more. The complacent Sun can act with more vigour and self expression with Mars goading them on.

Mars admires the Sun's approach to not try to "prove" anything to anyone. That confidence in self is hella sexy to highly spirited Mars.

Jupiter on Sun tends to increase pride within the association. The two like the positive energy generated by being together. Very good for business ventures or anything that puts the two out into the public sphere.

Jupiter expands the Sun's reach and gives the Sun a bigger platform. Sometimes serving as counsel and other times as friend.

posted July 05, 2019 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
Thanks Aries23 for the great info.
I'm thinking about NN(developed one) conjunct Sun.

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posted July 05, 2019 10:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Easy Jupiter/Sun and Mars aspects between the two people.

My best friend's Mars tightly sextiles my Sun
My Mars tightly trines his Sun.

His Moon tightly sextile to my Sun.

The orbs must be tight though i.e under a 3 degree orb.

Mars is guts & actions(how one actually acts or asserts oneself). How do you treat each other when under pressure and not in your "best" moments.

Jupiter is morality or ethical outlook. How you two grow with each other over time etc. Will this association extend beyond this context? Years tend to tighten the Jupiter bond when other planets loosen it.

Sun is authenticity or self expression.The person will always be expressing this nature "as is". Do you like it? Or will you be intent on changing it? Sun expression gets stronger as we age.

Moon is inner motives or the inner intent. This is what is not always obvious and beneath the surface. Why do they act like this within their interaction with you.Do you like how they support you? Do you feel cared for?

Moon-Jupiter easy tight aspects for instance means the two agree with each others motives and ethical outlook (barring other contradicting aspects). I really like this aspect in relationship as well as a public working relationship. Great support for each other.

Moon cares for Jupiter and likes listening to their far out ideals.Jupiter gains an "audience" with Moon and loves the reception they get.

Mars/Moon easy tight aspects keep the relationship warm and arousal levels hot without the added tension of a possible (and equally flammable)fallout that the square, conjunction and opposition can present. Great for intimacy.

Mars excites the Moon and to the Moon, Mars could.be wearing an old sack of potatoes and still get to hit it

Moons receptive nature harnesses and embalms the otherwise aggressive and sometimes self-alienating traits of Mars. This is a relationship that doesn't threaten their need to be themselves. Moon forgives a lot of Mars' instinctive impulses.

Mars/Sun easy tight aspects is attraction that is not "in your face". The two compete with each other but with no hard feelings. One helps to motivate the other to do better. Great for a productive and warm friendship.

Mars 'dares' the Sun to come out and show itself more. The complacent Sun can act with more vigour and self expression with Mars goading them on.

Mars admires the Sun's approach to not try to "prove" anything to anyone. That confidence in self is hella sexy to highly spirited Mars.

Jupiter on Sun tends to increase pride within the association. The two like the positive energy generated by being together. Very good for business ventures or anything that puts the two out into the public sphere.

Jupiter expands the Sun's reach and gives the Sun a bigger platform. Sometimes serving as counsel and other times as friend.

Sun brings out Jupiter's more "hands on" approach to far reaching ideals. When centred in the here and now with the Sun, Jupiter's grandiose visions find real-life tangible outcomes.Much like how the drama teacher (Jupiter) encourages & grows studens to a point where they one day see their learners become movie stars (Sun).

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posted July 06, 2019 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
Thanks Aries23 for the great info.
I'm thinking about NN(developed one) conjunct Sun.

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Absolutey agree with NN contacts too. Forgot to mention those. As they amplify the applying or separating energy planet. But the orbs must be tight.

I just have a problem with the intense feelings that a conjunction,square and opposition can manifest(this especially when really intense planets like Pluto/Mars are involved).

In that I take the word "respect" to be more long-term focused etc. Even in the event of disagreements. So that the two can still maintain civility with each other. Move from passionate arguing to going out for a beer later etc.

The easy aspects allow for forgiveness(ime) time and again. There is more flexibility in that connection. The square,conjunction and opposition increase very "involved" feelings(for good or ill). If both of you can handle those extremes maturely, you can handle the square, opposition and conjunction.

When Pluto/Mars is involved the fallout when two people have them interacting with Nodes,can be absolute,devastating and irrecoverable(at worst).

It feels so intense,so personal etc. that there is no point of neutral ground or "return" etc.Really strong momentum there.

I prefer sextile/trine aspects to Mars/Pluto connection and even Neptune(so that one is not completely "taken in" and mystified). But people tend to overlook or think sextile/trine aspects involving those two planets aren't "hot" enough etc.

In my view, Mars/Pluto are "hot" enough by themselves and one does not need the added drama that conj,square and opp aspects can bring.Lol

The rest I don't mind whether they are conjunctions or sextiles(Jupiter however can also be problematic with the conj, square or opp). As they are not(to me) as likely to harbour grudges and hurt feelings of a longer term.

Come to think of it, I had a very strong sexual affair with someone that had their Venus trine my Mars close to exact.

When they were away,I didn't obsess on who they were with and whether they were "cheating" etc. We enjoyed each other in the moment and just let it be.

Even as "platonic" as we are now, he greets me with a peck on the lips. Its comfortable for me. I am not confused about where we are, wanting to "label" anything or expecting "more" because of it.

Also worthy to mention however is that my Uranus forms a trine aspect with his Sun. So there.

posted July 06, 2019 02:58 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Thank you Aries23degrees for all of this helpful info. I could see where mars synastry is a part of respect. Its always very noticeable when I have compatible Mars’s with someone or easy mars aspects. Do you think these aspects you listed also applies to composite?

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I would say yes. But i think with composite, it would be the only place I would allow for conjunctions from ALL planets. As the composite underlines the overall themes of the relationship in question.

My best friend and I share a Venus/Mars tight conjunction in Sag. And this particular aspect describes our friendship aptly.

Does it mean we are sexual with each other? Not necessarily. But it does mean we tend to infuse and generate a lot of heat(Mars) from each other(Venus) .

How do we do this? We share a lot of ideas(Sag) & philosophies.

If the attraction was more physical, we'd be married But no such attraction exists between us.

Mars contacts are great for heat.
Venus contacts are great for being in each other's company.

I share composite Venus-Sun conj in Cap with a guy I was romantically interested in.And even though its Venus-Sun, we struggled to be on the same page. There were constant obstacles between us(Saturn ruled Cap) and he felt "cold" to me.

Cap bonds typically need more maturity from the two people concerned.So perhaps we will connect again when we are both older and wiser? Can't say.