posted July 27, 2019 12:51 AM            

that being said, it's an intense and hard thing to be around, though in her case i can't just blame scorpio venus because a lot of her chart is difficult

that whole "it hurts me to hurt you" thing though is ******** , because you can't really tell someone it hurts you more that you're hurting them than it does for them to be hurt by you

that's just selfishly putting your own feelings on a pedestal

i'm sure it does hurt to sabotage things and be destructive because scorpio placements are often damaging to both others and themselves and it's not a clear cut thing where there's only one side to it

i get that, but that logic of "i hurt more when i do hurtful things than the people i hurt do" doesn't work when you apply it to real people and real situations and actually extend some empathy towards their pain

and honestly it doesn't even matter who's "more hurt" because life isn't a competition like that, it doesn't matter who feels more of something if you hurt someone they're hurt and all your feelings of pain don't outweigh the hurt that's caused by you

even if you're more upset than they are somehow, it doesn't change the fact that there wouldn't be any issue if not for your actions you get me?

i get that scorpio placements and heavy pluto in general tend to have insecurities and deep emotions and be scared of how vulnerable they really are, and i feel for them i really do it must be hard to deal with all that ****

definitely looks it and i've known plenty of people with scorpio placements i tend to attract them, so i get it that **** 's difficult, still doesn't change the end result in many situations

that being said i prefer scorpio venus to scorpio mars, i dated one scorpio mars and that went to hell and i hooked up with another scorpio mars and that was an even worse idea

posted July 27, 2019 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Kekerina:
I mean i read looot's of post saying how difficult is to have a partner with scorpio in venus and i'm gonna talk about it because i am scorpio in venus, sorry if people with this hurt you...but we don't do that because we are mean...we are not bad persons is just insecurities in us, we are growing with life, it's not easy and if i ever hurt someone it hurts more on me, don't hate scorpio on venus people, we love with our souls!

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posted July 27, 2019 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
Big fan of you Venus Scorps! I love the depth of emotion, os understanding people and relating. IMO Scorpio Venus has the maturity to cut to the chase and say what needs to be said. While others may not like this, it only provides the opprortunity for a relationship to become deeper and more meaningful. If your into just rose petals and butterflies and don't care about substance this is not the person for you. I'll take substance over bs any day.

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"cut to the chase and say what needs to be said" that does not sound like venus in scorpio, that directness is a masculine fire thing, if anything they tend to be private and fear giving you too much information about themselves and when you read them super well it blows their mind, every time I do an astrological reading for venus in scorpio folks they are super impressed but also it can freak them out like you know too much about them now. What you are saying sounds more like sag and aries energy which I also have in my chart and I definitely do that.