posted August 04, 2019 11:15 AM            

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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
Why do Virgo’s get annoyed when they start to like someone?

Do they also give you a very intense look in their eyes that literally goes through you? It’s like a mixture of intense but very soft at the same time. Lol

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I think that's just the way we look at lol

posted August 05, 2019 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
Why do Virgo’s get annoyed when they start to like someone?

Do they also give you a very intense look in their eyes that literally goes through you? It’s like a mixture of intense but very soft at the same time. Lol

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I don't get annoyed but I always tell my friends that if I like you, I'm going to pester you and tease you. If I don't like you, I will probably ignore you and make a point to avoid you.

posted August 06, 2019 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I don't get annoyed but I always tell my friends that if I like you, I'm going to pester you and tease you. If I don't like you, I will probably ignore you and make a point to avoid you.

Eh, we're trying to read you. Or maybe we're just interested in what you're saying.

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haha, he seems to pester me and he's teased me before like pointed out to like 60 people in a meeting where i was and was like AND THAT GIRL OVER THERE a few times. i turned beat red LOL

he's pretended he didn't see me before which is a guess a form of ignoring? one time i was walking and he just so happen to be there in front of me. he ran away, and i saw it. but then a minute later, he circled back coz i was walking back to where i was and we walked past each other, and he said hello lol

posted August 06, 2019 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
It sounds like he got nervous during his first attempt to talk to you. I think a lot of the more self-conscious Virgos let their nerves get the best of them and therefore let social opportunities pass them by. They need a lot of reassurance.

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he does get nervous. he won't make eye contact, he's always fidgeting on something. we rarely get to speak with each other because we don't see each other alot. the most times we speak is through email, and he's been super critical about the little'st things with me on there.

how can i reassure him?

posted August 07, 2019 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
he does get nervous. he won't make eye contact, he's always fidgeting on something. we rarely get to speak with each other because we don't see each other alot. the most times we speak is through email, and he's been super critical about the little'st things with me on there.

how can i reassure him?

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I'm not great at interpreting synastry charts, and tbh if we go into too much detail on synastry, there's a good chance your thread will be moved to that sub-forum. But I can give you some general advice on Virgos.

posted August 07, 2019 10:16 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I'm not great at interpreting synastry charts, and tbh if we go into too much detail on synastry, there's a good chance your thread will be moved to that sub-forum. But I can give you some general advice on Virgos.

It takes a long time to gain our trust. Any successful friendship or relationship that I've ever had has been based on patience and plenty of time (for the other person). We don't really pay very close attention to words, so saying something like "You can trust me" doesn't go very far. Everybody says that, but very few actually mean it. I'm more likely to respond better if I can observe that person on a day-to-day basis and learn that they're stable, consistent with their actions, and trustworthy. Once I'm confident that they have good intentions, I feel more confident and assured - that's when I feel free to talk more and make my time more available to them. But it takes a while to get a Virgo to let their guard down, and once it's down, their insecurity can run amok if their partner can't deal with it.

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i see. so perhaps, him being critical/nitpicky is him trying to subconsciously 'groom' me?

posted August 07, 2019 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I don't get annoyed but I always tell my friends that if I like you, I'm going to pester you and tease you. If I don't like you, I will probably ignore you and make a point to avoid you.

Eh, we're trying to read you. Or maybe we're just interested in what you're saying.

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posted August 07, 2019 10:28 AM            

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Originally posted by mercmercy99:
I don't really have much Virgo energy in my chart (other than moon in the 6th and 8th house cusp in Virgo), but damn if this isn't me. If I like someone, it's not like I'm deliberately trying to pester them. I'm just holding them to a higher standard than what they might exhibit in their choices lol. The idealized version of them in my head would never do anything dumb or have a moronic opinion. So when they show something like that, I tease and might come off as too sarcastic.

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that seems to be like him too lol. i asked my other friend if he's normally like this with others, she said no he's not.