posted August 13, 2019 07:54 PM            

I also wonder what aspects the planet ruling your 7th, as well as your own natal saturn where making to other planets in transit, when you had those particular experiences.

posted August 21, 2019 03:36 PM            

Kept on entering all kinds of years to find out when exactly the saturn return happened for him and voila...

2008 is the year of his saturn return.

In 2008 he married his wife that he does not have a real connection with... Just for the sake of the good company/good people they are. They have been together for years before marrying but were not official.

The story:

When he first met her years before 2008 he realized that they werent a match 3 months after dating. But he didnt give up on her because he kept hoping she will truly be like he wished. Turns out she wasnt.

Kept being together and in 2008 she started to force him to marry. He didnt want to because he wished to remain away from his family. He wanted to marry without a wedding because of his family. She insisted and asked him daily if he still loves her and why doesnt he want to marry her. Every day he explained that it would bring him harm. She insisted. He gave up and married in 2008 and returned to his parents home like she wanted and since then its been hell for him.

He remained married with her but had other relationships and is currently dating someone else for a long time seriously.

posted August 21, 2019 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
I wonder about the saturn return experiences of those of you who have natal saturn in your 7th.

I also wonder what aspects the planet ruling your 7th, as well as your own natal saturn where making to other planets in transit, when you had those particular experiences.

Thank you in advance for your reply.

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Natal:
Saturn in 7th house in virgo
Conjunct north node
Opposite sun
Opposite mars
Square neptune
Square MC

Ruler of 7th in pisces
Conjunct mars
Opposite saturn
Sextile chiron
Square MC

posted August 22, 2019 05:21 AM            

a bit off topic, but may I ask your mercury sign and house placement and the aspects it makes to other planets in your chart?

posted August 22, 2019 06:50 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
thanks a lot ilunatique!

a bit off topic, but may I ask your mercury sign and house placement and the aspects it makes to other planets in your chart?

I'm intrigued by the way you write!

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Hi, youre welcome. I hope it helped. Thanks to you i also realized that my best friends both have saturn in 7th (but they didnt have their return yet.) i got 7th north node and i probably attract similar energies

I remember someone commenting on the way i write some time ago. I dont know what about it made you be intrigued because it seems normal to me. People comment on my voice more because its really low and calm. Note that english is not my first language

Mercury in scorpio in 10th house
Its part of my fixed cross..
Square moon
Opposite saturn
Square Uranus
Sextile ASC
Conjunct MC

posted August 22, 2019 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
@Aries23

sorry to hear that your experiences were unpleasant, but I bet you came back wiser and deeper after your saturn return passed

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Would love to say that this is true. But I certainly am not "wiser" nor "stronger". Just bruised.

I felt stunted and stunned all at once during my return. I don't think Saturn "rewards" hard work, it tends to make conditions austere instead. It is the "cut off" mark to be sure.

Jupiter is growth-not Sat. Saturn is indeed limitations. Its with Saturn transits that there is an increased loneliness within me.An increase in feelings of cynicism

Perhaps there is a reason that Jupiter is not too far behind Saturn in transit? Jupiter lifts what Saturn has broken down.

I still don't know what I am supposed to learn from Saturn transits really. There is Trans Saturn Aqua squaring Venus coming in the upcoming years. I expect the same ol' same ol'.

This reminds me of the story of the Grasshopper & the ant.The Ant worked in summer so he could feed through the winter.

The Grasshopper(on the other hand) played in summer only to starve in winter.Taking for granted the given abundance that nature provided and never worked to save up on.

I always thought myself the ant.But i realised after the Sat transits that it didn't matter whether I was the ant or the grasshopper, I didn't have enough to eat in the winter regardless.