posted August 30, 2019 02:57 AM            

tUranus is going through my friend's 7th house now and squaring her nVenus. She finally initiated the divorce she has been mulling over.

When my friend and her husband separated, tUranus was squaring their cSun/Mercury/Venus. In fact, when she found out about his infidelity, tUranus was exactly squaring their cSun/Venus.

So I checked other charts...

Another friend whose marriage isn't doing well will have tUranus square his nVenus/Saturn soon, during which tSaturn will also join the square.

Yet another friend who just started a r/s will also have tUranus squaring her nVenus (triggering her natal Uranus-Venus square).

posted August 30, 2019 01:54 PM            

As endings are also "beginnings" reversed. In that we change the status qou in both.

When we get married. It is not only a new beginning but an ending to our former bachelorette/bachelor selves.

When we divorce, its also a new beginning to our singlehood but an ending to our married selves etc.

All of life works in circles really. Uranus can bring about change and not necessarily always a separation i.e one can get married during a Uranus transit for instance in as much as they can get divorced in one.

Trans Saturn tends to also bring about changes. But these changes are often accompanied by a sober pill laced with heaps of gravity.

The difference between a Uranus change and a Saturn change is that the former starts off by feeling very empowering. Whilst tha latter feels like a ton of weights dropped on your shoulders.

For example-when getting married during a Uranus transit, its typically all about love. One feels they have found a "soulmate" etc. Butterflies everywhere and the decision to marry is usually quite spontaneous-usually after a whirlwind romance.

When getting married during a Saturn transit, its typically because you are of "age" or you and your mate have long considered it. You may not be madly inlove with each other(atleast not in the bouncy spring chicken sense of the word). But you two do feel very "right" about each other (as close to love as either of you will ever feel)and that the marriage between you two will endure.

Getting divorced during a Uranus transit feels so easy. You rush through things and are more willing to give stuff away than being embroiled in long drawn-out court battles. Typically speaking you are ready to close that chapter in your life.

Getting divorced during a Saturn transit feels like your leg is being amputated very slowly without painkillers. The process is long and arduous, there are postponements/delays that happen and there are feelings of bitterness/resentment that typically flood in now and then to make the process of separation even longer.

Saturn tends to bind. So even after the divorce you may find that you still need to share something with your mate i.e custody, the dog, the business etc.So there is still partnership and behaving "civil" with each other that is required.