posted September 17, 2019 10:00 AM            

I have a question for women with these placements.
I’m aware it’s a complex combination to deal with, it’s going to be a long journey for sure, but I really like her.

How do you show you like someone?
And how do you like someone to show they like you?

For the record - I’m a Cancer Sun male with Libra Moon, Leo Venus and Pisces rising. My Moon is in conjunct with Pluto, I feel a lot of strong Scorpio traits/energy trying to take over sometimes.

We work at the same place.
This is how she acts:

- Deep long stares at me with smiles included, but not always smiles.
- Tells me personal issues about her life.
- Told me the issues she had with her ex-boyfriend.
- Vents about work but only if I ask her.
- When she sees me talking to other girls she gives me a “killer” stare.
- Once she followed me while I went for a walk outside the office. I’ve noticed her, so we ended up talking.
- She doesn’t talk to me when we are in a group of people, she almost ignores me, she only talks to me whenever we’re alone.
- Never initiates conversations.
- Always has a “don’t care” attitude towards me.
- Treats me differently than other people. She smiles, laughs and talks to them, but with me it’s like she is scared or embarrassed to interact, specially in public. When we are alone things are different tho.
- She never asks me personal questions unless I ask first.

We've met 5 months ago.
I usually can read people well, and I can feel that she is in such emotional pain inside, outside she is very calm and relaxed but I can feel that inside there's a lot of things going on, like bombs exploding.

When I stare at her eyes it makes me want to go deeper inside and never come back.

I want to tell her that I want her, but I need a green light first.
My Cancer Sun thinks she likes me, but my Libra Moon is not so sure… (obviously)

That’s all

posted September 17, 2019 11:00 AM            

I don't ask questions that much, because I feel rude/intrusive, but I occasionally make the effort, so that people don't think that I'm not interested in them - I am, but it's up to them if they want to share or not. I don't like to be put on the spot, and feel like I'm doing that to someone, if I'm too curious.

Venting about issues with her ex, could be kind of showing you what you would be getting into, with her. She might be testing the waters there, or letting you know that if you're like him in any way, don't do that to her. I might just be projecting, because I did that with one guy. Some people are more iffy about work complaints, in case they get back to people who could fire them, but she also might not want to complain too much, and seem like a whiner. But that could be a way to establish some kind of emotional connection.

A former member of this site was a Cappy Venus, and she would talk about getting to know men well, before she dated them. She was a Scorpio ascendant, and Mercury conjunct Uranus, from what I remember. Very smart woman, very kind, too. Pisces Mars (like me). I also have a Scorpio ascendant, but none of the placements you mention. One of my high school best friends was a Scorpio Moon, and she was more closed off than others, until you got to know her well. I have another Scorpio Moon friend who isn't so closed off, she's more likely to show interest, but she has that lovely warm Leo Venus.

posted September 17, 2019 03:31 PM            

Yes she doesn't like to bother people, she is a very quiet person, gets inside her own universe. I'm a little bit the same in a different way.

I have the impression she tests me sometimes.
She is very reserved, but not shy.
I'm reserved too but I operate differently.
It seems our personality is similar, the only difference is that we express it in different ways. It's like I'm taking a plane and she is taking a train, but we both arrive at the same destination.