posted September 27, 2019 10:39 AM            

What about you?

The detailed celebrity examples, that this blogger used, to support her statements on the 5th House ruling one’s sexual identity, are phenomenal. http://muminspeaks.blogspot.com/2006/01/5th-house-sexual-identity_14.html?m=1

posted September 27, 2019 11:32 AM            

I feel as though sex and love-making are two very different acts and to place sex on a pedestal as this magical soul fulfilling act is to set one self for disappointment.

Now don't get me wrong, I do respect the decision of individuals who want to wait it out and have sex with that special someone in their life. Its an admirable choice . However, I just don't want people hanging over an exaggerated idea of what sex should be and then left disappointed when they don't find that "special someone" in their life or they do find them and then have to deal with the fact that sex ain't all that sacred . What I don't want them doing is blaming society for this issue.

Sex is fun and it can exist on a purely carnal basis devoid of deeper emotional involvement. However, love making happens when deeper emotions are involved and I do agree that its a fulfilling and wonderful experience.

posted September 27, 2019 03:46 PM            

So for instance the 5th house dictates 'I am "female" '.But what does that mean in this time/space reality? Do I identify with being "female"? What restrictions or freedoms are there in being "female"?

The 5th house is the discovery that you have a penis/vagina.That you dress differently from boys/girls & perhaps even have different preferences in what you find "recreational".

The 5th house is dating to discover about oneself I.e trying what's out there and not focusing on the other more than you are focused on what the self is all about.

This means answering questions of what it means to get a "reaction " from the same sex or opposite sex? What does being heterosexual / gay/bisexual mean for me?

Does my external expression of my sexual orientation enhance me or does inhibit me? Do I emphasize my "feminine/masculine" qualities in my identity? The 5th house is very much about sexuality and curiosity in terms of identity.

So it is always unfolding,always being re-awakened and revisited.Much like the identity,it is always never "done".

With that being said however,the expression or active connection of this energy is the 8th i.e "So I am gay female(5th connection with self) ,what does that mean in terms of desires /wants & needs for connection with others?" (8th connection with others)

This is why the coming out to self (whether gay or otherwise ) is important to establish first.As this is 5th house of self.And it is through this coming out to self(5th) that then results in clarity of connection with others and sharing oneself with others (8th).

The 8th house is heavier & more serious in essence because the question here is "Is there anyone out there just like me?" And if we do find them, we hope to attain consummate intimacy with them (8th).

The square nature between the two means that if there is a discomfort in accepting oneself
from the core (5th), there will always be problems in getting intimate with others (8th) because you will reject them too through rejecting of yourself first.

Now that the lecture is out of the way lol.I have Sun conjunct Neptune,Sun sextile Pluto and Sun conjunct Jupiter.

And so my expression of my sexual identity is going to be embalmed in all those aspects (not to mention declinat
Neptune in aspect to my Sun tends to lend a "neutral" effect to my sex identity as a male. So I come across more sensitive than most males.

I'm also aware of the male "privilege" bestowed upon me & have often wondered when growing up,why there had to be distinctions between "males" & "females".

A male with Saturn/Sun or Mars/Sun,wouldn't question these distinctions and even see them as "necessary".But because Neptune is androgynous energy,it'll find the distinctions "restrictive" or even "confining".

I love clothes that drape over me instead of tight pants. Clothes that are "suggestive" I.e boxer shorts or bum shorts more than "blatant" ones i.e briefs or speedos (as Neptune likes to conceal).

So for the male with Mars/Sun,the showing off of the "package" is natural for them. They see themselves as sexual beings.I see myself as a spiritual being who is inclined to sexual feelings.

posted September 27, 2019 08:59 PM            

I have mega drive which can turn into anger if I do not have any form of outlets, Mars square Jupiter.

posted September 27, 2019 09:36 PM            

I'm very uninhibited but have a weak sex drive. I experimented more out of curiosity. There was some caution (which at least one time I attributed to an asteroid), that is no random hookups, but sometimes there is freedom in a stranger that one can't actually know with an intimate, especially if one just wants to experiment out of curiosity without being committed to anyone or anything.

I find it strange that I have such a weak sex drive but am less hung up over it than a great many people obsessed with it (which shows in their choice of content and which ads work on them even if they say otherwise), but then maybe because it's not such an overwhelming force it doesn't scare me as much as it does others (though as I get older, strangely enough, I can have moments of extreme horniness, which some told me would happen, and it's not psychological as I suspected--that is growing out of caring what others thought and inhibitions--it's just my body changing).

I think the Mars-Uranus contributes to some gender bending I've done in the past (and my attraction to it in both males and females) but isn't the entire explanation for it.

I do think childhood experiences, both physical and mental, can imprint upon a psyche, and sometimes how one is oriented romantically is different, even incompatible, with how one is oriented erotically. To put it diplomatically, it creates an "interesting" society, and it's too bad not enough study is done on this (and on death) despite how core it is to the human experience and also how obsessed the vast majority are with it all (even if they're ranting against it). I know I diverge a lot, and I can look back and see where I was imprinted, though there are other factors, including medical ones, involved.

On a side note, I was once in a class with an astro-twin (born hours after me in the same hospital) and she hated me. I looked her up as an adult (with the help of a friend) and found that my 5H is her 12H, and I think that's why she hated me so much. I was everything she was repressing about her preppy little self.

posted September 29, 2019 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Venus in Pisces in 5th here, I'm up for "most" things , I mean a Pisces gotta love everyone right? in my case girls.

I have mega drive which can turn into anger if I do not have any form of outlets, Mars square Jupiter.

I do not really view sex as anything more or less, if I'm horny then I'm bloody horny LOL.

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