posted October 05, 2019 02:23 AM
....Run. 
No seriously...run.Most like the chase.And keep running even when dating or married.Never let them think they've "conquered" you or else they'll be bored.And many tend to be into sports or working out/gym rats.
Keep their heart racing-whether mountain climbing or talking on the phone with you etc. As they won't be able to differentiate whether their heart is beating fast because of being next to you OR because of the adrenaline attached to what they are doing?
Either way,its all good to them as they like heat. The hotter it gets between you two,the better.Keep them intrigued and be the swashbuckling partner whom is their equal mentally and physically-as Aries likes to compete.
Their approach to sex and sexuality may be direct i.e they may grab you and kiss you or strip to their birthday suit and say "lets get it on". Typically they get aroused quickly and want to do something about that there and then.So don't expect much pomp and ceremony-a spontaneous roll in the grass is right up their alley.
Whatever you do, keep it simple, be positive, show enthusiasm, have an opinion and be ready for flare ups now and again-Aries is hot tempered and can say/do the most infuriating things that they later regret.
They will not apologize outright but one can tell from their dejected facial expression and woeful eyes that they really didn't mean it and are sorry.They can behave like little boys put in the "naughty" corner when at odds with you because of their actions.
Active females/males need apply.Those who can take the often spirited energy of these people(coz its a lot) and be able to meet them toe to toe.They will love that.
If you happen to have a hot body or look good in gym gear, you are likely to make it to the top of the list. These men are pretty visual and typically are always thinking about "mounting" someone in one form or the another. So your image in shorty shorts, can accelerate those imaginnings tremendously.
All in all, they are looking for an equal or someone who reflects back on their own positive image(Libra solar 7th)
For females...get to the point.They have less patience for playing niceties or endless flirting.Just get their attention by saying "I want you.You want me?If so,let's do this".
Show them differing places to awaken their sense of adventure or inspire them. Like Aries males, they like to have their heart skip a beat at the thought of another outing with you.
Things may progress quickly with these women as they want to get to the source(crux) of whatever they are into quickly. Not because they want to move on to the next best thing(like Aries males) but because they are excited to be part of the ride and may enthusiastically unwrap their gifts before Christmas.So keep the gifts coming in succession lol.
Females with Aries personal placements I find, don't have time to play mind games or weird subtle mating rituals.Call them the following day or even the same night after getting their phone number and they are cool with that.
Whatever your strategy, get to the point..fast.They'll respect you for taking the initiative(which to them is tantamount to taking the lead) but don't try to dominate or "lead" them(there is a big difference).
The other thing is that if you are the type who expects them to act a certain way as "famles" or contain their emotional expression-whether public displays of affection or anger etc. Play very far and don't get close. These resrestrictions stifle their spirit and depress them.You dont want to kill their passion.
They may seem like they are "bossy", this is not necessarily so as they know what they want and will take initiatives if you are self doubting or inhibited.
Sometimes anger gets the best of them but stay cool and don't try to "match them". They need a soothing stream of reason(typically after the storm) and not more gasoline on the inferno.
When they shout and scream,stand back but self assured. This is frustration and temper tantrums on display(Mars fury) and don't take it to heart as Aries shouts....a lot.Mostly because they feel easily frustrated or passionate about something.
Sexually there must be no "roles" in bed. She at times feels the pulls of feminine and masculine in her approach, so don't introduce power struggles in bed(its not sexy) nor expect her to come at you the same way all the time.
Those who are calm and centred or slow to anger should apply.As well as those who see the humour in most things as they'll need this outlook when in deep here.
Above all, be sincere and heartfelt.She doesn't care for much formality and so be at ease to be yourself (whatever that is) as well as a gentle(Libra solar Dsc) but do it in unexpected ways i.e. Take a real interest in her passions and encourage her ambitious drive(not get in the way of it).
Lindaland
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posted October 05, 2019 12:07 AM
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