posted October 07, 2019 11:03 PM            

Just watch his action. If he is serious, he won't get "bored" or ghost you.

If he isn't, give it another few weeks, when a new target is on his radar, he'll disappear.

posted October 08, 2019 02:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Soulsjourney:
Always trust your gut.

Just watch his action. If he is serious, he won't get "bored" or ghost you.

If he isn't, give it another few weeks, when a new target is on his radar, he'll disappear.

Any guys who disappear (eg. no contact for month at a time) is a f**kboi.

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posted October 08, 2019 07:41 AM            

But the rest of the letter is the same, and I can say that we are obsessive people ... we are of that kind of people that if any woman gives us a sign of interest, we are already imagining the future with this woman.

Sometimes I think we are like children, they need to keep us motivated since that mars in Retro gemini, we get bored easily of everything (even relationships)

posted October 08, 2019 08:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Franco:
I was born a few days before. Evidently the ASC and the moon changes (including oppositions) can change these aspects a lot since personal planets are involved.

But the rest of the letter is the same, and I can say that we are obsessive people ... we are of that kind of people that if any woman gives us a sign of interest, we are already imagining the future with this woman.

Sometimes I think we are like children, they need to keep us motivated since that mars in Retro gemini, we get bored easily of everything (even relationships)

pd:I also recommend you to go slowly, we get carried away by the emotions of the moment.

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Thanks for your input I have Mars in Gemini too. So I can relate somewhat but mine isn’t in retrograde. Once he told me he was obsessed with me. We haven’t met in person yet but he wants to pay for me to come see him. I have Moon in Aquarius and he says I’m hot and cold. I honestly do like him but I do talk to other men.

This is my chart

posted October 08, 2019 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Hierophantom:
Well, you should calculate his Juno. That is about serious relationships.

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He has Juno in the first house conjunct the ASC.

posted October 08, 2019 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
He has Juno in the first house conjunct the ASC.

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Well, Juno in Sag. are not the most traditional men. They prefer their freedom more than the commitment. These guys function well in long distance relationship, so he has his freedom. If you want to have a nice home family life and live happily ever after, don't pick him. He won't be easy to fence in. And his Juno is in 1th house...so...it is probably all about him. These men can also be prone to cheating.

posted October 08, 2019 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Hierophantom:
Well, Juno in Sag. are not the most traditional men. They prefer their freedom more than the commitment. These guys function well in long distance relationship, so he has his freedom. If you want to have a nice home family life and live happily ever after, don't pick him. He won't be easy to fence in. And his Juno is in 1th house...so...it is probably all about him. These men can also be prone to cheating.

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So I should just ignore the fact that he said he wants something serious? I've told him that I thought he just wants to hookup. But he says no and that he wants it to be serious. It would be long-distance actually I told him that I didn't know how this could work. And he said he could make it work. I don't know what to think he has a lot of Scorpio and with Scorpio Venus I've read that they don't like superficial relationships. That people with this Venus tends to take relationships seriously.

posted October 08, 2019 10:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Soulsjourney:
Always trust your gut.

Just watch his action. If he is serious, he won't get "bored" or ghost you.

If he isn't, give it another few weeks, when a new target is on his radar, he'll disappear.

Any guys who disappear (eg. no contact for month at a time) is a f**kboi.

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posted October 08, 2019 11:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Hierophantom:
Girl, I don't know how old you are, but take it from a 20-years-experience field researcher (lol) don't take anything from anyone if you haven't met him i.r.l. yet. You have to trust your gut instinct on this one and if anyone says he wants to do anyting for you, says he is obsessed over you, even pay the trip, and all the smooth talk, my mossad-technology alarm system just goes tilt. A real serious grown up takes things slowly and knows how to be realistic and has patience. Please be very careful, he probably knows how to smoothtalk you and before you know it, you are being raped and burried in the woods. Please be verrrrry careful and realistic. 5 hours away...how is it EVER gonna work? How many girls does he have? In every state another sweetheart? The things you said about him, is just eery. And if you do go through with it and you decide to break up because he is too intense, I bet you won't get rid of him either.... stalking material....
Besides, if you already have doubts....you will always have doubts...trust me. Your instinct is telling you something. If it was all okay, you would not have started this thread.

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posted October 08, 2019 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
We’ve been talking for months though this isn’t something that’s been going on overnight lol. If things were to actually get serious one of us would end up moving closer obviously. But you are assuming things about him and you don’t even know him. I’ll never really know for sure until I actually meet him in person. I was just wanting to know what kind of person he would be in a relationship thanks.

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Okay, sorry for jumping into conclusions. For a minute I was really worried.