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Topic: Postpartum depression
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Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted October 13, 2019 08:55 PM
My sister had this pretty bad after her middle son was born. Her chart is heavy in air and fire so she's always had a hard time really connecting to begin with so it didn't surprise me when she got "the baby blues". I was a little offended that our family said they expected me to be the one to become depressed after my son was born (my chart is heavy in water and earth) given that my sis was so happy go lucky all of the time. So I looked up transits about a month after his birthday and tr Saturn was crossing her vertex exactly opposite tr uranus on her anti-vertex. That's a huge transit! I think that Saturn and uranus combo over her vertex anti-vertex coupled with an already disconnected chart going through a life changing experience (she went through hell that year) would get anyone down and depressed.Have you noticed any aspects that would make someone prone to this? IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12234 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 13, 2019 10:42 PM
I dont think her having a lot of fire or air in her chart has anything to do with her getting post partum depression. This type of depression is completely a hormonal imbalance thing so women who are more sensitive to hormonal changes are perhaps more prone to it but it can happen to any woman regardless of her chart. Venus rules female hormones so long lasting transits affecting a women's natal Venus during pregnancy perhaps can trigger this. IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted October 13, 2019 11:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: I dont think her having a lot of fire or air in her chart has anything to do with her getting post partum depression. This type of depression is completely a hormonal imbalance thing so women who are more sensitive to hormonal changes are perhaps more prone to it but it can happen to any woman regardless of her chart. Venus rules female hormones so long lasting transits affecting a women's natal Venus during pregnancy perhaps can trigger this.
I know that it's a hormonal imbalance and it can happen to anyone. I'm asking if you can see it in astrology. There are aspects that have the potential to make the chart holder more prone to certain conditions like depression, saturn conjunct Mars for example. Or a heavy water chart without a lot of air to be able to disconnect themselves from what's bringing them down. My sister has never been one to deeply connect with another person. She has sun, venus, mercury, and Jupiter in Aquarius 11H opposite her Leo moon in the 5th. So, her being "the butterfly" as we nicknamed her and not having a lot of grounding in herself, I think leant itself to the depression she went through during that time. Like I said, it was an awful year for her and after seeing her transits I understand why. There were no major transits to her venus, sun, or moon. We don't have an exact birth time but we know within a couple of hours of the time so I'm not 100% sure of her ascendant but I'm thinking pisces and Pluto was on her Neptune that year in the 10H. Her chart, I'm pretty confident with her ascendant in Pisces and her sun in the 11H. Fits her to a T IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12234 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 13, 2019 11:44 PM
Like I said Venus rules female hormones and she has venus in aquarius in hard aspect to the moon so since aquarius disrupts what it touches, in this case her venus, and her Venus to top it off forms a hard aspect to her moon which is connected to our monthly cycle/rhythm this all supports she is very sensitive to hormonal changes in her body. However her being a loner has nothing to do with her issues with post partum depression, this is a hormonal issue.IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 12:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Like I said Venus rules female hormones and she has venus in aquarius in hard aspect to the moon so since aquarius disrupts what it touches, in this case her venus, and her Venus to top it off forms a hard aspect to her moon which is connected to our monthly cycle/rhythm this all supports she is very sensitive to hormonal changes in her body. However her being a loner has nothing to do with her issues with post partum depression, this is a hormonal issue.
She's not a loner, and I'm not disputing the fact that it's hormonal but you kind of just proved my point in a way. Her astrological make up makes her more susceptible to postpartum depression by what you described with her Aquarius venus opposite moon. She was already an emotionally distant person to begin with, then adding the tr Saturn on her vertex opposite uranus and she had a very hard time dealing with not just a new baby, but a lot of other life changing circumstances. Shes also a social butterfly that doesn't make very deep connections. It's more of a friendship than a deep commitment, even the way she raises her children. She's their friend first, mom second and she'll tell you this. She's had 3 kids and only suffered with the depression with her middle child. That's why I was looking at her transits during that particular time. She's always had an Aquarius stellium opposite her moon and has handled it well her whole life but something changed in her when she had her 2nd son. IP: Logged |
Graham Knowflake Posts: 316 From: Registered: Apr 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 02:14 AM
It is a complicated astrological conundrum though ... particularly if the actual birthtime does produce those natal chart interceptions and duplications.By progression (to 8Pisces25 on 25 April 2010) ... natal Venus does "promise" a potential depression - by forming a Tsquare with the natal (and progressed) Saturn-Chiron opposition. So ... astrologically, it was the Saturn-Chiron issue that was being addressed (by experiencing the depression) - but hormones may indeed have been the physical cause of the problem. IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 09:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by Graham:
It is a complicated astrological conundrum though ... particularly if the actual birthtime does produce those natal chart interceptions and duplications.By progression (to 8Pisces25 on 25 April 2010) ... natal Venus does "promise" a potential depression - by forming a Tsquare with the natal (and progressed) Saturn-Chiron opposition. So ... astrologically, it [b]was the Saturn-Chiron issue that was being addressed (by experiencing the depression) - but hormones may indeed have been the physical cause of the problem. [/B]
I forgot all about progressions when looking at her chart. She's asked me before to look at certain times to see what was going on in her chart with transits and such. It is difficult to do that work without an exact birth time but I've narrowed her ascendant down to later degrees pisces with moon in the 5th and sun 11th and we do know at least within a couple of hours of the exact time.
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Graham Knowflake Posts: 316 From: Registered: Apr 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 11:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dons2angelss: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Graham: [b] It is a complicated astrological conundrum though ... particularly if the actual birthtime does produce those natal chart interceptions and duplications.By progression (to 8Pisces25 on 25 April 2010) ... natal Venus does "promise" a potential depression - by forming a Tsquare with the natal (and progressed) Saturn-Chiron opposition. So ... astrologically, it [b]was the Saturn-Chiron issue that was being addressed (by experiencing the depression) - but hormones may indeed have been the physical cause of the problem. [/B]
I forgot all about progressions when looking at her chart. She's asked me before to look at certain times to see what was going on in her chart with transits and such. It is difficult to do that work without an exact birth time but I've narrowed her ascendant down to later degrees pisces with moon in the 5th and sun 11th and we do know at least within a couple of hours of the exact time. [/B][/QUOTE] A Pisces Ascendant between 20deg00 and 29deg59.59 gives a birthtime window of 09:22 to 09:47 (using a "best guess" place of birth). ... And, within that window, the interceptions and duplications do not change from those in your posted natal chart. If those interceptions and duplications are valid ... a never-questioned childhood belief (concerning the 3rd and 9th houses) would be adversely affecting the 4th and 10th houses, in a way which prevents the positive Aries+Libra qualities from being used effectively. So ... astrologically ... it may not be a co-incidence that your sister's 9th house Saturn is exactly 13degs20mins from Uranus (thus making an exact 27th harmonic aspect) - and opposing a 3rd house Chiron (with an orb of 1deg20, which is an exact 270th harmonic aspect). The 27th harmonic aspect (27H) = the 3H (ease in doing something) x 9H (joy in doing something) = complacency. The 270H = the 27H (complacency) x 10H (intellectually striving to make sense of something) = questioning one's complacency? Natal Uranus is exactly 168 degrees from natal Chiron - which is an exact 30th harmonic aspect (30H). ... The 30H = 3H (ease) x 10H (striving to make sense). This Saturn-Chiron-Uranus natal figure ("questioning of something that one has never questioned before") was activated by the progression of Venus to the natal+progressed Saturn-Chiron opposition. AND ... it will have been activated again by the progression of Venus to natal Uranus - which began in mid-June 2019, when progressed Venus reached 19Pisces51.
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Graham Knowflake Posts: 316 From: Registered: Apr 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 11:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dons2angelss: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Graham: [b] It is a complicated astrological conundrum though ... particularly if the actual birthtime does produce those natal chart interceptions and duplications.By progression (to 8Pisces25 on 25 April 2010) ... natal Venus does "promise" a potential depression - by forming a Tsquare with the natal (and progressed) Saturn-Chiron opposition. So ... astrologically, it [b]was the Saturn-Chiron issue that was being addressed (by experiencing the depression) - but hormones may indeed have been the physical cause of the problem. [/B]
I forgot all about progressions when looking at her chart. She's asked me before to look at certain times to see what was going on in her chart with transits and such. It is difficult to do that work without an exact birth time but I've narrowed her ascendant down to later degrees pisces with moon in the 5th and sun 11th and we do know at least within a couple of hours of the exact time. [/B][/QUOTE] A Pisces Ascendant between 20deg00 and 29deg59.59 gives a birthtime window of 09:22 to 09:47 (using a "best guess" place of birth). ... And, within that window, the interceptions and duplications do not change from those in your posted natal chart. If those interceptions and duplications are valid ... a never-questioned childhood belief (concerning the 3rd and 9th houses) would be adversely affecting the 4th and 10th houses, in a way which prevents the positive Aries+Libra qualities from being used effectively. So ... astrologically ... it may not be a co-incidence that your sister's 9th house Saturn is exactly 13degs20mins from Uranus (thus making an exact 27th harmonic aspect) - and opposing a 3rd house Chiron (with an orb of 1deg20, which is an exact 270th harmonic aspect). The 27th harmonic aspect (27H) = the 3H (ease in doing something) x 9H (joy in doing something) = complacency. The 270H = the 27H (complacency) x 10H (intellectually striving to make sense of something) = questioning one's complacency? Natal Uranus is exactly 168 degrees from natal Chiron - which is an exact 30th harmonic aspect (30H). ... The 30H = 3H (ease) x 10H (striving to make sense). This Saturn-Chiron-Uranus natal figure ("questioning of something that one has never questioned before") was activated by the progression of Venus to the natal+progressed Saturn-Chiron opposition. AND ... it will have been activated again by the progression of Venus to natal Uranus - which began in mid-June 2019, when progressed Venus reached 19Pisces51.
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12234 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 14, 2019 12:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dons2angelss: She's not a loner, and I'm not disputing the fact that it's hormonal but you kind of just proved my point in a way. Her astrological make up makes her more susceptible to postpartum depression by what you described with her Aquarius venus opposite moon. She was already an emotionally distant person to begin with, then adding the tr Saturn on her vertex opposite uranus and she had a very hard time dealing with not just a new baby, but a lot of other life changing circumstances. Shes also a social butterfly that doesn't make very deep connections. It's more of a friendship than a deep commitment, even the way she raises her children. She's their friend first, mom second and she'll tell you this. She's had 3 kids and only suffered with the depression with her middle child. That's why I was looking at her transits during that particular time. She's always had an Aquarius stellium opposite her moon and has handled it well her whole life but something changed in her when she had her 2nd son.
I hear you girl, I get what you are trying to explain now. Yes I figured she had something going on with her venus. Is April 25th the birth of her middle child? If so I will look again at the transits for that day tonight. IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 01:11 PM
No, actually he was born on March 25th but she didn't start feeling so bad until about a month later. That's also when he life started to basically crumble apart. She hasn't really been the same since. She's no longer the happy go lucky, social butterfly. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12234 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 14, 2019 02:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dons2angelss: No, actually he was born on March 25th but she didn't start feeling so bad until about a month later. That's also when he life started to basically crumble apart. She hasn't really been the same since. She's no longer the happy go lucky, social butterfly.
Well TR Saturn was conjuncting her DC and opposing her AC during the time her middle son was born plus Tr Jupiter was squaring her IC. Tr saturn also during that year after her middle son was born formed a grand trine between her venus in aquarius stellium and CHIRON in Gemini, actually it activated a kite if we include her moon. But this was in 2010, she is still depressed?
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Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 04:06 PM
Yes, it's lasted for a very long time. It started with the postpartum depression and has just never really left. She's seen doctors and nothing helps. She's asked me to look deeper into her chart to find some kind of guidance. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73360 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 14, 2019 04:11 PM
Some Moons seem to be more suited to motherhood, pregnancy etc. It is more natural to some. I am a Cancer Moon. I loved it all. I see how Aqua women seem to find it hard. Also, Libra Moon women seem to, as well. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12234 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 14, 2019 04:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dons2angelss: Yes, it's lasted for a very long time. It started with the postpartum depression and has just never really left. She's seen doctors and nothing helps. She's asked me to look deeper into her chart to find some kind of guidance.
I mean ongoing major depression is something that needs to be targeted with supplements/herbs and diet that are both tailored to her brain and body type to address underlying issues in her brain and avoid foods that do not support her mind and mental health. It also would require her to see a therapist and she would have to be open minded and stick to the therapy for a long time and find a therapist that is a good fit for her and she needs to be willing to work hard daily on restructuring how she copes and thinks ect, its like teaching your brain a new language, it takes time and ongoing effort. She also needs to figure out her values and how to build a life that is meaningful for her and be willing to make the changes necessary to honor that! and I can go on.........its hard work to get out of major depression and it is a daily thing and it needs to be targeted and addressed from many different angles. Astrology won't help truly with this, is a change in lifestyle, mind set and feeding your mind and body with the right stuff and knowing the art of practicing coping skills and what kind of coping skills your mind/body needs depending on how you feel etc...etc...etc... IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 05:21 PM
Hypatia I fully agree and have tried to help her with these changes and seeking professional help. She has an interest in astrology and wants to know the lessons at hand but like I mentioned, she has a really hard time taking it to the soul and really digging deep into herself to apply that to her life. Graham that makes perfect sense and describes her very well. This past summer has also been a particularly hard one too but she also recieved a promotion in June and a nice raise in her career but it's been super stressful. Ami I agree completely. I've seen some mothers who just couldn't connect to their baby for anything. Not from depression, just flat out did not want to be a mother. I hated being pregnant and had 2 high risk pregnancies but thankfully 2 healthy boys and I truly love being their mom. With that said, I actually don't really care to be around children 😂. I absolutely love mine and enjoy who they are as people and knowing I'm helping them on their paths but I could never imagine myself in a career field that involves kids lol.
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AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 762 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 14, 2019 05:26 PM
The transit can probably vary from person to person when it comes to postpartum depression. In my case, I’ve been through Pluto and Saturn trnasits square my natal Aries stellium in the 8th house. It’s been really hard, all the exhaustion, sleep deprivation, criticism and lack of support and understanding. You may say that Aries are not too suitable for motherhood, I’m an introverted individual and the lack of time to be alone wih my thoughts has been hard. But I do love my child dearly, it’s been the best thing happened and my little treasure. There are no words to describe.But my hormones may also went crazy. I even got a condition where I used to feel a momentary anxiety whenever I breastfeed, which is due to hormonal changes. Everything including my relationship with my husband and issues with my family affected me a lot. I still tried to be strong, being an Aries and all. Then after a few years I found help. I started taking antidepressant and it made a big difference on my mood. Also started therapy and I’m making progress. There are lots of fsctors thst can influence without having to do with being a better mom or not by Moon sign. Some women may have wanted it all the time but a traumatic labor experience can ruin i all. In the end, seeking help is really important and can make a difference. Sometimes we also have to find a few ones before finding the one tha works. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12234 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 14, 2019 05:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by AriesLilith: The transit can probably vary from person to person when it comes to postpartum depression. In my case, I’ve been through Pluto and Saturn transits square my natal Aries stellium in the 8th house. It’s been really hard, all the exhaustion, sleep deprivation, criticism and lack of support and understanding.
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Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 533 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted October 14, 2019 06:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by AriesLilith: The transit can probably vary from person to person when it comes to postpartum depression. In my case, I’ve been through Pluto and Saturn trnasits square my natal Aries stellium in the 8th house. It’s been really hard, all the exhaustion, sleep deprivation, criticism and lack of support and understanding. You may say that Aries are not too suitable for motherhood, I’m an introverted individual and the lack of time to be alone wih my thoughts has been hard. But I do love my child dearly, it’s been the best thing happened and my little treasure. There are no words to describe.But my hormones may also went crazy. I even got a condition where I used to feel a momentary anxiety whenever I breastfeed, which is due to hormonal changes. Everything including my relationship with my husband and issues with my family affected me a lot. I still tried to be strong, being an Aries and all. Then after a few years I found help. I started taking antidepressant and it made a big difference on my mood. Also started therapy and I’m making progress. There are lots of fsctors thst can influence without having to do with being a better mom or not by Moon sign. Some women may have wanted it all the time but a traumatic labor experience can ruin i all. In the end, seeking help is really important and can make a difference. Sometimes we also have to find a few ones before finding the one tha works.
I'm so glad you made it through and got the help you need ❤️❤️❤️ IP: Logged |
Graham Knowflake Posts: 316 From: Registered: Apr 2019
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posted October 15, 2019 11:11 AM
quote: Graham that makes perfect sense and describes her very well. This past summer has also been a particularly hard one too but she also recieved a promotion in June and a nice raise in her career but it's been super stressful.
Do you know how her Chiron wound was inflicted during childhood? ... And have you looked at her First Saturn Return Chart*? ... Does the Sun-Moon-Saturn family dynamics of the natal chart change in the Saturn Return Chart? [*30th November 2015?) _____________________________________________________________ quote: No, actually her middle son was born on March 25th 2010
With his natal Jupiter sitting forevermore on top of her natal Chiron? ... (Staring across at her natal Saturn and silently asking "why can't a woman be more like a man?") http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Doz5w2W-jAY With natal Uranus forever asking natal Saturn "why can't a woman be as free as a man?" ... And Saturn Return Moon (now) replying "because I am a mother". IP: Logged |