posted October 21, 2019 04:48 AM            

Another issue.. Venus square Pluto... I read descriptions of this aspect but I really don't relate to it, however it indicates I will attract very dangerous or passionate relationships. I don't want that kind of relationship I want a sweet relationship.. oh lord

Also Lilith in the 7th house... says I will also attract dangerous partners...

So many other bad placement I have that indicate me ending up with a bad guy or the type of guy that isn't of my dreams.
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I always fantasize about me being with a guy of my dreams (cliche I know) and to think that I will end up with a guy tha is practically the opposite of that... Im wondering if I should ever even get into a relationship. I feel like I'd rather be single.

Does this mean that I should ignore any type of guy Im interested if he doesn't have any indicators of Leo like traits or a bad boy, because I have no destiny with this guy? Right now I like this Pisces dominant Sag guy, I suppose he isn't someone I will end up marrying because he's opposite of those traits?

So does this mean I will have bad luck in relationships?
My mom is going to be sad, she doesn't want me to end up with a guy who will take advantage of me or not treat me right.

I don't know if Im wrong ( I hope I am) or if it's true. Please someone let me know. Because Im really considering staying single if it is true. Besides I can do it, probably be a monk (can women be monks? idk )or something with my 12th house stellium. I don't have much problems with solitude. I might just use animals as something to love instead.

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Is that much wiser.
The fool who thinks he is wise
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posted October 21, 2019 09:38 AM            

Look, my parents both have horrible birth chart in sinastry, composite and yet they have been married for 30 years, without any serious fights in between.

Relax, no matter how much you see your birth chart, you will never know what you will end up with. Also if this were true, you still have your own will to know the person and if something goes wrong, end. Change that thought to something positive, after all if you obsess with your negative aspects of your natal chart, you will create a mental state in which you will only see the bad, and when the good appears you will see it difficult to believe.

posted October 21, 2019 12:41 PM            

In Synastry oppositions are often a good thing, as oppositions represent relationships, strong attraction, and the seeking of balance. I always see opposite Signs between different symbols in charts of people that are very close.

It's good to have some squares. Relationships are often meant to sometimes be a challenge to the personality/ego level of us. Without some friction and challenge, we don't grow as much.

I know the following is going to sound arrogant to say, but I feel it should be said. I haven't come across too many people that are consistently adept at reading Natal charts more accurately than not.

Synastric chart comparisons contain even MUCH more information than a single Natal. It's A LOT of information, and while plenty of people are adept at looking at singular patterns one at a time, it's not so easy to see the full holistic gestalt, and the larger forest and all the trees individually at the same time. (I haven't mastered it either, which is why I often direct others inward to their own internal guidance system).

Sometimes it's better to go with the flow and just experience life without worrying too much about the astrology. In any case, life is not about avoiding difficult and challenging relationships, or relationships that may end in pain.

posted October 21, 2019 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
I'm a Leo. We are opposite the zodiac from you. But that is only the Sun and tight planets like Mercury and Venus that follow it closely. For example, my Jupiter is in Aqua and my Saturn is in Capricorn. Not all Leos are textbook.

Leos are heart centered. I can sense a heart from a mile away.

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Like SecretGeek said in the above, Leo rules the heart. Some folks with very strong Leo are very heart centered.

They can be a good balance for folks with a strong Aquarius indication. Aquarius can sometimes be a little over stuck in their heads.

My partner has Sun, Venus, and South Node in Aquarius. Her late Capricorn Rising is cusping it also.

I have Leo Rising. We help to balance each other out. I was a big part as a catalyst in helping to open up and heal her heart more. She grew up in a very cold and unaffectionate home. Because of her lifelong home/childhood conditions, she disconnected a lot from her heart.

A month after we moved in together, she had a dream about a black and red caterpillar that went into a cocoon state and emerged as a brightly, deeply, and clearly colored blue and purple butterfly.

The missing ingredient was opening up her heart more. I helped her with this through a combo of loving and accepting her unconditionally, giving her lots of affection and attention but also space and independence to be herself, and being an example of that kind of heart centered energy.

In turn she helped me to balance out certain aspects and patterns as well.

posted October 21, 2019 01:51 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
This has been something that has worried me greatly. In my chart there are so many things that point to me being in a bad relationship. Im terrified. For one, my descendent being in Leo, tells me Im going to end up marrying a man that has Leo traits? I don't like those traits though.. the type of guy I end up with is so important to me, and I don't want or desire a guy with Leo traits 😫 (no offense to Leo guys)...
Also my Mars in the 7th house, says the guy I marry will also be aggressive ... yikes.. I really don't want that...
OR it could mean I will be aggressive which I definitely don't want.

Another issue.. Venus square Pluto... I read descriptions of this aspect but I really don't relate to it, however it indicates I will attract very dangerous or passionate relationships. I don't want that kind of relationship I want a sweet relationship.. oh lord

Also Lilith in the 7th house... says I will also attract dangerous partners...

So many other bad placement I have that indicate me ending up with a bad guy or the type of guy that isn't of my dreams.
'
I always fantasize about me being with a guy of my dreams (cliche I know) and to think that I will end up with a guy tha is practically the opposite of that... Im wondering if I should ever even get into a relationship. I feel like I'd rather be single.

Does this mean that I should ignore any type of guy Im interested if he doesn't have any indicators of Leo like traits or a bad boy, because I have no destiny with this guy? Right now I like this Pisces dominant Sag guy, I suppose he isn't someone I will end up marrying because he's opposite of those traits?

So does this mean I will have bad luck in relationships?
My mom is going to be sad, she doesn't want me to end up with a guy who will take advantage of me or not treat me right.

I don't know if Im wrong ( I hope I am) or if it's true. Please someone let me know. Because Im really considering staying single if it is true. Besides I can do it, probably be a monk (can women be monks? idk )or something with my 12th house stellium. I don't have much problems with solitude. I might just use animals as something to love instead.

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This made me giggle I think you are a fantastic soul

First off, the interpretations are not exhaustive.No matter how many you read. So don't tie yourself to ones that scare you or are grossly inapplicable to you.

Leo Dsc doesn't necessarily mean you will marry a Leo as much as my Libra Dsc doesn't mean I will marry a Libra.But this is more metaphoric than literal(even though it can literally happen that others with Leo Asc marry Leos)

Sun rules Leo and so with Leo Dsc, you may be drawn to someone who has the Sun strong in their chart i.e they play the mentor, the advisor to you, you look to them for guidance and support,they provide counsel, they serve as an example of character,they provide leadership, they conduct themselves with dignity and class, have a certain "fixed" dependable aura about them, are principled, loyal and slow to change.

Mars there suggests that they are likely going to be demonstrative,ardent and "heart on sleeve" types of people. Physical affection may be important, banter within the relationship and random acts of romance are welcomed.

As the 7th is also about you, it suggests how YOU behave within a relationship.So you may enjoy attracting attention and having someone put you at the centre of attention(Leo).

You attract people to you and they buzz around you as bees do to honey.You prefer this i.e to attract than to pursue.

You prefer a relationship that's "ready made" instead of the tedious task of dating and the awkward uncertainty that goes with it. Trust is slowly earned with fixed Dsc people and they are SLOW to open up as well as leave a relationship(no matter how stagnant it gets).

Venus square Pluto supports this. There is a lot of momentum(Pluto) invested in relationships(Venus).So much so that it can be "all or nothing".Be careful of this as that 12house stellium can have you walk into situations completely blindsided-only to wake when in DEEP.

It is good to loving.But it is also best to love in a manner that is not harming to the loving

posted October 21, 2019 01:52 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
This has been something that has worried me greatly. In my chart there are so many things that point to me being in a bad relationship. Im terrified. For one, my descendent being in Leo, tells me Im going to end up marrying a man that has Leo traits? I don't like those traits though.. the type of guy I end up with is so important to me, and I don't want or desire a guy with Leo traits 😫 (no offense to Leo guys)...
Also my Mars in the 7th house, says the guy I marry will also be aggressive ... yikes.. I really don't want that...
OR it could mean I will be aggressive which I definitely don't want.

Another issue.. Venus square Pluto... I read descriptions of this aspect but I really don't relate to it, however it indicates I will attract very dangerous or passionate relationships. I don't want that kind of relationship I want a sweet relationship.. oh lord

Also Lilith in the 7th house... says I will also attract dangerous partners...

So many other bad placement I have that indicate me ending up with a bad guy or the type of guy that isn't of my dreams.
'
I always fantasize about me being with a guy of my dreams (cliche I know) and to think that I will end up with a guy tha is practically the opposite of that... Im wondering if I should ever even get into a relationship. I feel like I'd rather be single.

Does this mean that I should ignore any type of guy Im interested if he doesn't have any indicators of Leo like traits or a bad boy, because I have no destiny with this guy? Right now I like this Pisces dominant Sag guy, I suppose he isn't someone I will end up marrying because he's opposite of those traits?

So does this mean I will have bad luck in relationships?
My mom is going to be sad, she doesn't want me to end up with a guy who will take advantage of me or not treat me right.

I don't know if Im wrong ( I hope I am) or if it's true. Please someone let me know. Because Im really considering staying single if it is true. Besides I can do it, probably be a monk (can women be monks? idk )or something with my 12th house stellium. I don't have much problems with solitude. I might just use animals as something to love instead.

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This made me giggle I think you are a fantastic soul

First off, the interpretations are not exhaustive.No matter how many you read. So don't tie yourself to ones that scare you or are grossly inapplicable to you.

Leo Dsc doesn't necessarily mean you will marry a Leo as much as my Libra Dsc doesn't mean I will marry a Libra.But this is more metaphoric than literal(even though it can literally happen that others with Leo Asc marry Leos)

Sun rules Leo and so with Leo Dsc, you may be drawn to someone who has the Sun strong in their chart i.e they play the mentor, the advisor to you, you look to them for guidance,support and counsel.

They serve as an example of character,they provide leadership,they conduct themselves with dignity and class, have a certain "fixed" dependable aura about them, are principled, loyal and slow to change.

Mars there suggests that they are likely going to be demonstrative,ardent and "heart on sleeve" types of people. Physical affection may be important, banter within the relationship and random acts of romance are welcomed.

As the 7th is also about you, it suggests how YOU behave within a relationship.So you may enjoy attracting attention and having someone put you at the centre of attention(Leo).

You attract people to you and they buzz around you as bees do to honey.You prefer this i.e to attract than to pursue.

You prefer a relationship that's "ready made" instead of the tedious task of dating and the awkward uncertainty that goes with it.

Trust is slowly earned with fixed Dsc people and they are SLOW to open up as well as leave a relationship(no matter how stagnant it gets).

Venus square Pluto supports this. There is a lot of momentum(Pluto) invested in relationships(Venus).So much so that it can be "all or nothing".

Be careful of this as that 12th-house stellium can have you walk into situations completely blindsided-only to wake when in DEEP.

posted October 22, 2019 02:30 PM            

Every one of us has power within us to envision and create satisfactory outcomes in every area of our lives. If astrology is not helping you with that, but is obstructing that, then it has become detrimental.

Almost anything that is not kept in balance and proportion can be taken over by a fear-based mindset that turns it detrimental. No tool's potential good can bring us anything so long as it gets colored that way.

Break up with astrology for the foreseeable future and build a sense of empowerment within yourself.

posted October 22, 2019 10:46 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
I hope I didn't double post, my initial post hasn't shown up but I want to offer another perspective dear Soul. The 7th house can offer a view in what we need or are looking for to balance out our own selves to become whole. Leo is about self-actualizing and appreciating yourself. Maybe the hard aspects in your chart are directing you to how you can show yourself better self-love so there is no need to secure that from another person. This would balance out the Aquarius energy of love for the humanitarian/group and direct you to authentically have that for yourself not just give it away to others. For myself, I have been guilty of seeking stability (of Taurus) in the men in my life. I'm no expert just thought this is an interesting perspective.

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+1 (Well put)

posted October 23, 2019 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Franco:
Hello!

Look, my parents both have horrible birth chart in sinastry, composite and yet they have been married for 30 years, without any serious fights in between.

Relax, no matter how much you see your birth chart, you will never know what you will end up with. Also if this were true, you still have your own will to know the person and if something goes wrong, end. Change that thought to something positive, after all if you obsess with your negative aspects of your natal chart, you will create a mental state in which you will only see the bad, and when the good appears you will see it difficult to believe.

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posted October 23, 2019 12:22 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
I'm a Leo. We are opposite the zodiac from you. But that is only the Sun and tight planets like Mercury and Venus that follow it closely. For example, my Jupiter is in Aqua and my Saturn is in Capricorn. Not all Leos are textbook.

Leos are heart centered. I can sense a heart from a mile away.

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posted October 23, 2019 12:32 AM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
This made me giggle I think you are a fantastic soul

First off, the interpretations are not exhaustive.No matter how many you read. So don't tie yourself to ones that scare you or are grossly inapplicable to you.

Leo Dsc doesn't necessarily mean you will marry a Leo as much as my Libra Dsc doesn't mean I will marry a Libra.But this is more metaphoric than literal(even though it can literally happen that others with Leo Asc marry Leos)

Sun rules Leo and so with Leo Dsc, you may be drawn to someone who has the Sun strong in their chart i.e they play the mentor, the advisor to you, you look to them for guidance and support,they provide counsel, they serve as an example of character,they provide leadership, they conduct themselves with dignity and class, have a certain "fixed" dependable aura about them, are principled, loyal and slow to change.

Mars there suggests that they are likely going to be demonstrative,ardent and "heart on sleeve" types of people. Physical affection may be important, banter within the relationship and random acts of romance are welcomed.

As the 7th is also about you, it suggests how YOU behave within a relationship.So you may enjoy attracting attention and having someone put you at the centre of attention(Leo).

You attract people to you and they buzz around you as bees do to honey.You prefer this i.e to attract than to pursue.

You prefer a relationship that's "ready made" instead of the tedious task of dating and the awkward uncertainty that goes with it. Trust is slowly earned with fixed Dsc people and they are SLOW to open up as well as leave a relationship(no matter how stagnant it gets).

Venus square Pluto supports this. There is a lot of momentum(Pluto) invested in relationships(Venus).So much so that it can be "all or nothing".Be careful of this as that 12house stellium can have you walk into situations completely blindsided-only to wake when in DEEP.

It is good to loving.But it is also best to love in a manner that is not harming to the loving

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Thank you 25degreesAries! You always give an interesting point of view, you see charts in a different perspective than I would have. I rely a lot on what I read or computer generated chart readings, but sometimes I think it's better to get an interpretation from a person. You put this in a different way thank you for your perspective it put a little more at ease (:

posted October 23, 2019 12:37 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
All signs have negative and positive manifestations. Leo is a beautiful sign that has many strengths, if your Sun is not afflicted you are more likely to attract people who manifest the positive traits of leo even if they have ZERO leo placements but maybe they have Sun trine Jupiter or Sun in the 5th etc...

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posted October 23, 2019 12:40 AM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
Another way of looking at the 7th house is what you, not lack but what you need to develop to contribute to the whole of yourself. The 7th house is opposite your ascendant so it makes sense, at least it does for me with my chart. Leo is also about self actualizing the individual, in a healthy way. This makes sense balancing out the energy of Aquarius that (so I'm told is more humanitarian and thinks in a more global/group level. I know I tend to seek in others the traits I admire or want to have in myself. Maybe your squares and "negative" aspects are pointing to areas where self growth would serve you best in becoming a more whole person, rather than indicating with whom you will spend the rest of your life with.

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posted October 23, 2019 12:45 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
I barely look at asteroids at all. All the [b]important and major stuff is found in the Planets and Signs.

In Synastry oppositions are often a good thing, as oppositions represent relationships, strong attraction, and the seeking of balance. I always see opposite Signs between different symbols in charts of people that are very close.

It's good to have some squares. Relationships are often meant to sometimes be a challenge to the personality/ego level of us. Without some friction and challenge, we don't grow as much.

I know the following is going to sound arrogant to say, but I feel it should be said. I haven't come across too many people that are consistently adept at reading Natal charts more accurately than not.

Synastric chart comparisons contain even MUCH more information than a single Natal. It's A LOT of information, and while plenty of people are adept at looking at singular patterns one at a time, it's not so easy to see the full holistic gestalt, and the larger forest and all the trees individually at the same time. (I haven't mastered it either, which is why I often direct others inward to their own internal guidance system).

Sometimes it's better to go with the flow and just experience life without worrying too much about the astrology. In any case, life is not about avoiding difficult and challenging relationships, or relationships that may end in pain.

On a deeper Soul level, we are often nudged into these for either lessons, gaining strength through challenge, and/or karmic reasons. [/B]

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posted October 23, 2019 04:29 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Thank you 25degreesAries! You always give an interesting point of view, you see charts in a different perspective than I would have. I rely a lot on what I read or computer generated chart readings, but sometimes I think it's better to get an interpretation from a person. You put this in a different way thank you for your perspective it put a little more at ease (:

I agree, I definelty am not the type to pursue, I have this awful habit (which Im trying to work on) of acting like Im not interested in the guy I like I don't know why! It's like an instinct for me to act like I don't notice him but hoping he notices me. Ugh I don't know why Im like that. Im trying to change that, but it's also hard for me to show I like someone because I can't make eye contact I get too nervous and shy around the guy I like 😩 I gotta learn the guy I like isn't going to magically come to me.

Venus square Pluto I don't relate to the descriptions Ive read online, but what you said about that aspect I feel rings true for me. I kind of feel like I want a more "deeper" connection in romance and tend to either want all or nothing. So what you said I do relate.
Thanks for your interesting perspective!

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The tendency to feign indifference to people you like or refuse to give anything away etc. sounds like a Saturn/Uranus influence to me. Hmmm..

Wait .You have the Asc in Aqua.That's the link. Its tough for you to put yourself out there without feeling "silly" or "ridiculous". Do you also have some Cap? Coz that adds to it.

posted October 23, 2019 02:11 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
This has been something that has worried me greatly. In my chart there are so many things that point to me being in a bad relationship. Im terrified. For one, my descendent being in Leo, tells me Im going to end up marrying a man that has Leo traits? I don't like those traits though.. the type of guy I end up with is so important to me, and I don't want or desire a guy with Leo traits 😫 (no offense to Leo guys)...
Also my Mars in the 7th house, says the guy I marry will also be aggressive ... yikes.. I really don't want that...
OR it could mean I will be aggressive which I definitely don't want.

Another issue.. Venus square Pluto... I read descriptions of this aspect but I really don't relate to it, however it indicates I will attract very dangerous or passionate relationships. I don't want that kind of relationship I want a sweet relationship.. oh lord

Also Lilith in the 7th house... says I will also attract dangerous partners...

So many other bad placement I have that indicate me ending up with a bad guy or the type of guy that isn't of my dreams.
'
I always fantasize about me being with a guy of my dreams (cliche I know) and to think that I will end up with a guy tha is practically the opposite of that... Im wondering if I should ever even get into a relationship. I feel like I'd rather be single.

Does this mean that I should ignore any type of guy Im interested if he doesn't have any indicators of Leo like traits or a bad boy, because I have no destiny with this guy? Right now I like this Pisces dominant Sag guy, I suppose he isn't someone I will end up marrying because he's opposite of those traits?

So does this mean I will have bad luck in relationships?
My mom is going to be sad, she doesn't want me to end up with a guy who will take advantage of me or not treat me right.

I don't know if Im wrong ( I hope I am) or if it's true. Please someone let me know. Because Im really considering staying single if it is true. Besides I can do it, probably be a monk (can women be monks? idk )or something with my 12th house stellium. I don't have much problems with solitude. I might just use animals as something to love instead.

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posted October 23, 2019 04:25 PM            

To do so you need to check your natal chart, midpoints, transits, solar arc and return, progressions and combine them all to get the right message. At least that's what the person who made multiple times accurate predictions (for me and others) did. So good luck with that. He achieved that result by reading lots of books and making lots of predictions for others.

I'm very disappointed by professional astrologers (no personal experiences) who make generic and wrong predictions.
I guess it's quite hard to do it right but I know it is possible.