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Moonbeth
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posted November 13, 2019 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think I have found my transit.
I usually never allow myself to give full credit to transits about how I feel because I always assume it's a plurality of factors and the transits, even the heaviest most impressive ones, are only a part of the equation.
Last spring/summer I had a Uranus transit I could distinctively feel though (was a tad annoying cause I couldn't act on it, but otherwise fine), but recently I have met my match. I have felt so strongly I was urged to check my transits and when I saw it, it was obvious, of course it was what it was.
It felt like how I'm supposed to feel.
I think I'm in love 😍

Do you have any such transit? or just simply favourites?
Sharesies? ^^

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posted November 13, 2019 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooh, how nice.

I like the usual Venus and Jupiter transits (Venus is being kind to me right now - mood-wise, I've been depressed but okay the last few days, I woke up feeling happy yesterday, and I got a really good deal on something I needed to replace), but also love a nice Saturn trine or sextile.

I don't know if I have one favourite, I appreciate them when they come along, and I realize what I'm feeling could be a transit. I also wish that dentists had "black friday sales". That would be perfect.

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posted November 13, 2019 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
I appreciate them when they come along, and I realize what I'm feeling could be a transit.

Exactly that, wonderfully put

Ah, yes, Venus/Jupiter sounds amazing, I imagine it'd make my work days particularly pleasant (more so than usual, but given the amount of relationshipping there), though I'd be afraid to overeat (sensitive stomach lol).
Speaking of, treated myself to a lovely cream tea a fortnight ago while visiting the UK and thought of you

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posted November 13, 2019 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon, but what was your transit, you teaser

And what ruler of what house was under its spell?

also, I ( and others on here) noticed that with some long term transits, we attract people in our lives who has that transit aspect in their natal chart
For example, with Neptune transiting your Venus, during that period you may attract people who have Venus-Neptune natal aspect

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posted November 13, 2019 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Moon, but what was your transit, you teaser
And what ruler of what house was under its spell?
also, I ( and others on here) noticed that with some long term transits, we attract people in our lives who has that transit aspect in their natal chart
For example, with Neptune transiting your Venus, during that period you may attract people who have Venus-Neptune natal aspect

😝 I know Orange, I'm so sorry lol I want to tell the world and I also want to keep it hidden at the same time 🙈
I'll give you this, it's a brief one that bewitched one of my watery houses.
If only!!! lol I actually have that aspect in synastry with my latest interest (he does not have the natal aspect though, but both planets are in the same sign and make contacts with mine) and let him go to focus on work (something I partially though very bitterly regret), if only the transit could have lasted long enough to bring him back... *yearning* 😊

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posted November 13, 2019 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon, gotcha

from romantic perspective, usually the work of the planets transiting in the sky is to bring two people together, to create the window of opportunity, to create the spark and then from there on the synastry comes into play, as well as the progressions to make the two people stick along or run

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posted November 14, 2019 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I get super horny with transit moon in scorpio at 20 degrees and it comes with this intense I am in love feeling and desire to completely surrender.

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posted November 14, 2019 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have never understood why I feel so intensely alive and willing to risk it all to feel to the depth of my soul at this degree but I just looked up the sabian symbol for it and WOW it sums it up extremely well:

20th degree of Scorpio (19° - 20°)

A woman draws away two dark curtains closing the entrance to a sacred pathway

Daring

The soul is courageous and free, its essence-stuff is the spirit of daring.

The vitality of human life is centered in the understanding that there is no ultimate reward to be found until we cross the threshold of common limitation. Animal behaviors are insufficient to inspire us – we need more to feel alive than keeping the species going by creating offspring whom we feed and house.

The enduring values that describe our species go deeper than the facade of the daily round; it is simply not enough to go to work to get paid to buy the shopping and pay the rent.

Our desire-nature, the passionate queen of all feelings, is directional. It is pointing us to whatever is the most exciting way to penetrate deeper into the mystery.

In the image, a woman has courage to risk penetrating through darkness. The twin veils of ignorance and fear have to be put aside if we are to be free.

The soul is indeed essentially courageous and free, its essence-stuff is the spirit of daring. If we feel this – and only when we feel this – we are aligning with the soul, and its eternal life-purpose to have unending adventures.

There is a psychological indomitability with which human spirit plunges ahead into every new adventure of accomplishment. We have appetite to do more, and reach out beyond what is safe and assured.

There is the need for balance – passion and reason each cooperatively engaged because taken to a level of foolishness, this quality of daring can be distorted into silly exhibitionism and crass recklessness.

Yet without some risk of foolishness we are constrained to be less than we could be. Our very life is not our own unless we grasp the moment at hand and gamble on the probability of our unassailable continuance.

^^I connect with the essence of this degree deeply, it conjuncts my Psyche in scorpio at 24 degrees and my Kaali in scorpio at 15 degrees, is basically activating the midpoint of my Psyche and Kaali while it trines my Moon which is my 8H ruler.

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posted November 14, 2019 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
Moon, gotcha

from romantic perspective, usually the work of the planets transiting in the sky is to bring two people together, to create the window of opportunity, to create the spark and then from there on the synastry comes into play, as well as the progressions to make the two people stick along or run


That's where I blundered. The context was so upsetting and the timing so poor, I fled from the situation, not him because the practical aspects of meeting again demanded some huge action that I would never have the guts to perform. I'm more of a don't-brush-your-teeth-or-hair-for-weeks,-burp-and-fart-and-let-your-skin-go-bad-while-on-a-depression-after-having-lost-your-minimum-wage-job-with-the-mortgage-coming-for-your-roo f-and-if-they-love-you-like-this-they're-the-one kind of girl, than a chaser ^^. I could never have done what it took to allow the possibility of another meeting and it was all in my hands as he had no way of making another one happen, so now I do regret and also wonder, what if the roles had been reversed, would he have done anything?
But anyway, maybe that transit reminded me of him. Thing is it's not what I would have imagined it to be, I can certainly see the classic interpretations for it in how I felt, but mostly it had a specific flavour, something almost magical, but in a 'me' way, I just loved it.

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posted November 14, 2019 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I have never understood why I feel so intensely alive and willing to risk it all to feel to the depth of my soul at this degree but I just looked up the sabian symbol for it and WOW it sums it up extremely well:

20th degree of Scorpio (19° - 20°)



Whoa, I relate a lot to that, thank you so much Hypatia my mars is 16° degrees Scorpio which seems close enough , and it sextiles my moon which is my 8th house ruler
The astrodienst report also comes up with something deep and dark about my femininity which I'm honestly too shy and modest to share here lol but, it can at least explain why these so-called dark impulses and mysteries feel like home to me and why I don't conceive of intensity as an excess but as the beginning of real confrontation to the self and to life.

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posted November 14, 2019 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Whoa, I relate a lot to that, thank you so much Hypatia my mars is 16° degrees Scorpio which seems close enough , and it sextiles my moon which is my 8th house ruler
The astrodienst report also comes up with something deep and dark about my femininity which I'm honestly too shy and modest to share here lol but, it can at least explain why these so-called dark impulses and mysteries feel like home to me and why I don't conceive of intensity as an excess but as the beginning of real confrontation to the self and to life.

Deep and dark hahaha I like it...

Loved: "these so-called dark impulses and mysteries feel like home to me and why I don't conceive of intensity as an excess but as the beginning of real confrontation to the self and to life."

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posted November 14, 2019 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Deep and dark hahaha I like it...

Loved: "these so-called dark impulses and mysteries feel like home to me and why I don't conceive of intensity as an excess but as the beginning of real confrontation to the self and to life."



Can't say I'm surprised you do

As I've said, I do relate and it is me in terms of it makes sense to me and I value it way more than say femme fatale or ingenue or any other incarnation of femininity, but because of how I look at it, it's difficult to associate too. I'm fairly not sure I exude any such aura or have that kind of depth and mystical core power as a woman, but I do feel the energies so... maybe one day I let someone who does too close enough to confirm that theory or not, ...and the world will never know lol

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posted November 14, 2019 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I get super horny with transit moon in scorpio at 20 degrees and it comes with this intense I am in love feeling and desire to completely surrender.

That's when your Moon, ruler of the 8th, starts to square the 8th House Leo Venus/Mars conjunction. That would most likely relate to the pattern pretty strongly.

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posted November 15, 2019 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
That's when your Moon, ruler of the 8th, starts to square the 8th House Leo Venus/Mars conjunction. That would most likely relate to the pattern pretty strongly.


Perhaps yes, I have thought about that before but I don't feel the same energy with Taurus or Aquarius at 19-20 degrees even though I am attracted to Aquarius and Taurus 3rd decan definitely but this specific energy I am talking about does not get triggered with the other fixed signs just Scorpio at that specific degree and the sabian really hits home.

I know that in esoteric astrology Pluto rules Pisces and in exoteric astrology Neptune rules Pisces so there is this powerful connection that compounds according to evolution astrology when the two rulers or signs connect energetically. In this case my moon in pisces is trine tr moon in scorpio so this explosion of a soul based longing to merge physically and spiritually with another arises with this transit for me.

I just bought a laptop so will probably be more detailed in my responses now.
http://www.mermaid-uk.net/Esotericrulerships.htm

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posted November 15, 2019 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:

Can't say I'm surprised you do

As I've said, I do relate and it is me in terms of it makes sense to me and I value it way more than say femme fatale or ingenue or any other incarnation of femininity, but because of how I look at it, it's difficult to associate too. I'm fairly not sure I exude any such aura or have that kind of depth and mystical core power as a woman, but I do feel the energies so... maybe one day I let someone who does too close enough to confirm that theory or not, ...and the world will never know lol


It would not surprise me at all if you exude that energy girl, I bet you do LOL.

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posted November 15, 2019 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Neither Taurus nor Aquarius rule the sex glands like Scorpio, so it kind of makes sense to me that it gets most highlighted during that particular cycle, especially in combo with the Mars and Leo. The two Signs that correspond most to sexual energy are Leo and Scorpio.

Moon, interestingly, corresponds to the 2nd Center, which connects some with sexual energy, though a lot of the raw, physical-animal part of the energy is more so connected to the 1st Center.

I have noticed when the Moon is really strong in a person's chart, especially natally, and to a lesser extent progression wise, coral pink often is strong in the aura.

Congrats on the new laptop.

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posted November 15, 2019 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:

Neither Taurus nor Aquarius rule the sex glands like Scorpio, so it kind of makes sense to me that it gets most highlighted during that particular cycle, especially in combo with the Mars and Leo. The two Signs that correspond most to sexual energy are Leo and Scorpio.

Moon, interestingly, corresponds to the 2nd Center, which connects some with sexual energy, though a lot of the raw, physical-animal part of the energy is more so connected to the 1st Center.

I have noticed when the Moon is really strong in a person's chart, especially natally, and to a lesser extent progression wise, coral pink often is strong in the aura.

Congrats on the new laptop.


Really good point.

Interesting observation on the moon and linking it to the aura been coral pink; pink is the color of forgiveness and unconditional love in the world of gemstones.

Thanks, I am loving it and the price was great.

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posted November 16, 2019 06:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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It would not surprise me at all if you exude that energy girl, I bet you do LOL.

I imagine mars in Scorpio is enough to give the idea/impression 😜

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posted November 16, 2019 11:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I imagine mars in Scorpio is enough to give the idea/impression 😜

Definitely. I feel they have sex appeal even if they are not that sexual themselves. I feel with Mars in scorpio depending on house placement and aspects the sex drive can vary a lot but regardless there is something sexy about them usually that they exude yes and this can be reinforced further or soften depending on house placement and aspects

I like mars in scorpio, I am actually helping a couple right now and both have mars in scorpio but one has mars aspect jupiter and the other has mars aspect saturn, one has high sex drive and the other low sex drive so they have issues bc of this, one craves more intimacy and connection and other feels everything is perfect lol but I like them both a lot, they have this very obvious yin yan thing going even though their charts have some very obvious similarities so you are like wow yet they are soooo different and then you are like the house placements and aspects alter a lot.

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posted November 16, 2019 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Definitely. I feel they have sex appeal even if they are not that sexual themselves. I feel with Mars in scorpio depending on house placement and aspects the sex drive can vary a lot but regardless there is something sexy about them usually that they exude yes and this can be reinforced further or soften depending on house placement and aspects

I like mars in scorpio, I am actually helping a couple right now and both have mars in scorpio but one has mars aspect jupiter and the other has mars aspect saturn, one has high sex drive and the other low sex drive so they have issues bc of this, one craves more intimacy and connection and other feels everything is perfect lol but I like them both a lot, they have this very obvious yin yan thing going even though their charts have some very obvious similarities so you are like wow yet they are soooo different and then you are like the house placements and aspects alter a lot.


This always puzzles me because I have both extremes, I've had people tell me horrendous things about that such as "I can see how naughty you are " or "you have the eyes of lust" (including by other women when I was but a girl !) and I also have my share of men thinking I flirt and allowing themselves to come on really strong because they think they are invited when they're not; but on the other hand I've also had men I was dying for be entirely oblivious to it and I have a quite strong unwillingness to discuss my sexuality (outside my partners). I think it's one of the strongest expressions of my mars-Venus square. That Leo Venus wants to tell the world and talk, and the curious Virgo is always up for analysis, especially with you! lol but mars is holding me back, mars says "NO, this is private, we don't expose it, we let it thrive in the shadows" and that's how I end up with that ridiculous dichotomy of speaking with awful equivoque so that even if the person gets exactly what I meant I still have a way out in the way I worded things, just in case I feel I need to be private Most of the time I talk around the issues or plain lie, I don't even have a problem with expressing the thoughts/emotions, it just regularly feels to me that my sexuality should be discussed with the people I experience it with, none other lol
Because of that I cannot comment on the sex drive portion or add much, and yet I want to for the richness of the conversation, but it just feels too personal lol Maybe because my mars is in the 4th too, well, end of 3rd, but I was taught to read it in the 4th and for many reasons it makes a lot more sense to me, even if I feel flavours of the 3rd, the bulk of my mars energy is very 4th house. It's also sextile my moon which is my 8th house ruler as I've said, so I don't know how softened or stressed you'd consider it but to me it's a good mars lol I mean, I really love my mars, it's one of the things I relate to the most in my chart, I just struggle with having it out, whether in conversations or with others because I feel the energy is deeply intimate.
It's really nice to read you love us though, we way too often get reduced to BDSM aficionados and people treat us like the emotionless perv around the corner as if we had to have so much sex we bore our genitals out and were ready for it every minute of the day. It's just way more complicated than "anything with a pulse" ^^
I have come to think that mars in Scorpio is the right mars for mars in Scorpio in relationships, at least mine I can see how your couple would be so different and yet so alike. The sign/house/planet thing essentially is the astrological version of two different women donning a same dress, isn't it? But in the end the fabric is the same so I guess there are natural ways to communicate about those differences once you get to open the gates, which you're helping them with Man I wish I had found therapists like you when I struggled with my therapy decades ago, I was dreaming of a therapist I could use astrological terms with lol

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posted November 16, 2019 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
This always puzzles me because I have both extremes, I've had people tell me horrendous things about that such as "I can see how naughty you are " or "you have the eyes of lust" (including by other women when I was but a girl !) and I also have my share of men thinking I flirt and allowing themselves to come on really strong because they think they are invited when they're not; but on the other hand I've also had men I was dying for be entirely oblivious to it and I have a quite strong unwillingness to discuss my sexuality (outside my partners). I think it's one of the strongest expressions of my mars-Venus square. That Leo Venus wants to tell the world and talk, and the curious Virgo is always up for analysis, especially with you! lol but mars is holding me back, mars says "NO, this is private, we don't expose it, we let it thrive in the shadows" and that's how I end up with that ridiculous dichotomy of speaking with awful equivoque so that even if the person gets exactly what I meant I still have a way out in the way I worded things, just in case I feel I need to be private Most of the time I talk around the issues or plain lie, I don't even have a problem with expressing the thoughts/emotions, it just regularly feels to me that my sexuality should be discussed with the people I experience it with, none other lol
Because of that I cannot comment on the sex drive portion or add much, and yet I want to for the richness of the conversation, but it just feels too personal lol Maybe because my mars is in the 4th too, well, end of 3rd, but I was taught to read it in the 4th and for many reasons it makes a lot more sense to me, even if I feel flavours of the 3rd, the bulk of my mars energy is very 4th house. It's also sextile my moon which is my 8th house ruler as I've said, so I don't know how softened or stressed you'd consider it but to me it's a good mars lol I mean, I really love my mars, it's one of the things I relate to the most in my chart, I just struggle with having it out, whether in conversations or with others because I feel the energy is deeply intimate.
It's really nice to read you love us though, we way too often get reduced to BDSM aficionados and people treat us like the emotionless perv around the corner as if we had to have so much sex we bore our genitals out and were ready for it every minute of the day. It's just way more complicated than "anything with a pulse" ^^
I have come to think that mars in Scorpio is the right mars for mars in Scorpio in relationships, at least mine I can see how your couple would be so different and yet so alike. The sign/house/planet thing essentially is the astrological version of two different women donning a same dress, isn't it? But in the end the fabric is the same so I guess there are natural ways to communicate about those differences once you get to open the gates, which you're helping them with Man I wish I had found therapists like you when I struggled with my therapy decades ago, I was dreaming of a therapist I could use astrological terms with lol

hahahahaha oh it would be fun to have a client who is into in depth astrology, it would add another dimension to the sessions for sure .

I attract mars and venus in scorpio because I have mars and venus in the 8th, I however find talking about sex as a very natural thing, maybe bc I have mercury parallel pluto and mercury novile pluto or if I have cappy rising which is definitely possible then the ruler of my 8th is my sun in virgo in the 9th house, again reinforcing the love to talk about anything 8th house related openly.

I do have some similarities to you as Mars rules my 4H and falls in my 8H and conjuncts my venus but the LEO side which has a very strong need to express express may over ride to some extent the need to be private specially when you factor in that my Sun in Virgo which disposits my venus and mars falls in the 9th house and rules my 8th. I definitely am very private though, just not about talking about sex or 8th house stuff but about my life (in real life) yet I also have a very open side with neptune in sag near my AC but I keep a lot to myself and can blend in to protect my privacy, yet I seem very warm and friendly and open on one hand but trust me I am very private, people pick up on this too. Like I am very careful about what information about myself I give out. So is like I am very open and blunt but also a bit guarded, private and a little bit paranoid but I feel this paranoid side is about protecting myself and it has my back but it could make it hard to let people in all the way, like in friendships (maybe bc pluto rules my 11th and conjuncts saturn), I tend to socially isolate yet if I become friends with someone its a big commitment I make like a marriage without sex you can say.

Now when it comes to romantic relationships though I am not guarded and that is where I let go and am very open to intimacy perhaps bc venus rules my 5H and conjuncts Mars which is my 4H ruler and all this falls in the 8th house.

In lindaland I tend to be more "open" bc is anonymous.

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posted November 16, 2019 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say that with Mars ruling my 4H and conjuncting Venus which rules my 5H both falling in the 8H that I am very protective of people that I love and if I had kids I would be quite the mama bear. That is how that Mars ruling my 4H and falling in the 8H plays out more for me. I am not possessive, I outgrew my jealous side many years ago but if someone wants to hurt someone I love or F*ck with someone I love I act on instinct to protect them.

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posted November 17, 2019 07:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonbeth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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It would just be so much easier! Instead of having to explain some urges and global emotional make-up and detail the feelings you could just say "Pluto" and then go straight to the interesting efficient parts where you explain how you feel about your own feelings and urges instead of having to explain the whole picture. It would make therapy cheaper at first because you'd gain so much time lol but I know as a teenager it would have made me stick with it in more regular ways. The time it took for things to actually start was almost more detrimental to me than the things I was in therapy for.

I don't have issues talking about 8th house related stuff, I'm just excessively selective about who/where/when I talk about them with

I wouldn't find you not private just because you are more open to discuss some topics than I can be. I feel somehow there's some cool factor about that, in this era of social media it's almost a prowess to be private and the second you open your mouth and start a sentence with "I" you lose the right to your intimacy because "you shared!" F.uck that. That's ridiculous. You can be open and smile a lot and still be very shy, how private, guarded or shy one is, is not a side of the personality that's less personal than the rest, just because it can show doesn't mean others are entitled to decide for it. I drives me nuts when people say "so and so is not shy!" if so and so hasn't confirmed because looks can be deceiving and I'm very adamant on respecting people's authority on themselves. If someone tells me they're shy, then they are, it's my job to conciliate that with the image I had if it was different, but people should never have to prove who or what they are. I don't think my unwillingness to mention certain things about my intimacy make me shy or private, it's just one way that trait express itself most of the time. There are still exceptions and even if I did talk about those freely, it wouldn't make me less private, or less me.
I never find you blunt though In fact when I first read you were a therapist I was like "Of course she is!!!!! that's how she's always so collected and generous and doesn't flare up" I find you incredibly soothing down here. I'd say you make a lot more effort than I do to appreciate some people (which I'm guilty, I have a very weak ability for effort on internet) but truth is you make it seem so effortless, it's a beautiful quality and that you'd have that here makes me imagine you as a brilliant therapist because if that's the degree you have ona casual internet setting, I can only imagine how deep that quality shines in your work.

I so feel you, in my case I'd say the Leo rising + venus don't manage to overpower the Virgo-Capricorn-Scorpio-Pluto-Saturn energies and it's a regular struggle within me. I think the Leo is a bit frustrated because with a 1st house sun and 5th house moon it wants to roar even more, but the 1st house sun is Virgo and in my case I feel it makes her very potent, and with the help of the Saturn and Pluto squares the Capricorn gets the best of my moon. Poor little Leo lol I think I have a balance with in-out though, I am very Leo in my dealings with others that aren't intimate but in private my Leo sides or more related to cat behaviour, so not really the Leo stereotype haha!

Ooh I'm way worse outside than I am here lol but even though, it's not about people knowing, which is why anonymous doesn't change everything for me, it's just about intimacy, I am shy (I had an anxiety attack two weeks ago because I had to help my dance teacher demonstrate for the other students, I powered through but I crumbled right after, the exposure was too much) but I wouldn't say I'm guarded because I have zero problems discussing my intimate feelings and mostly sensations with the people I experience them with, it's just others? eh... lol Like you, I consider romantic relationships the safe place where you let go and I imagine it's my way of protecting that to spontaneously not let go in other relationships

4th house + mars energy does amount to protective I think, it's one of the reason I'm more comfortable reading my mars in the fourth, my mama-bearness knows no bound, I'm mama bear to anyone or anything I like, I'll defend my favourite song like it's my best friend lol
I did outgrow acting on jealous impulses years ago too but with my Pluto moon and Venus I remain potentially possessive; but I entirely own to it and even find it can be part of very healthy interactions, for me to act on instinct I need to both care for the person but also feel somewhat superior (not in a bad way, more of in a caretaker way) so it doesn't happen often because one way to get the healthy from Pluto is to not have these hierarchies and cancel the exertion of power (for me at least) so my closest relationships don't fall in a category where I'd let my instincts go before I made sure the other person is fine with having a Terminator avenging them lol

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Trans Moon in Virgo square my Sun. Very stressful for me

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Trans Moon in Virgo square my Sun. Very stressful for me

Any feel-good transit, past or present, that had you feel "ooh, this is me, it's nice"?

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