posted November 28, 2019 03:28 AM            

Males with Aries Moon.. do you like to be chased? Turn-on or nah?

Or is it your time to shine and you like to do the chasing.

posted November 28, 2019 05:19 AM            

I find this also true with Moon/Mars in aspect too.The feelings are so hot and on the surface, they feel COMPELLED to act. But depending on the signs involved, it could come across a little more round about.

So these folks can appear downright "lusty"-this even when they are sincere. But they prefer to let you get how hot and heavy they are for you. And perhaps some call it "the chase"? To Aries its called "The path I am energized to take".

If you should be the one who likes them however(and they haven't come on to you), make it explicitly clear too what you want. They respect that.Even if they reject you and are not interested.They value people who are upfront.That shows guts to them.

Read this story;

"She was in New Orleans shooting this movie, so I was flying back and forth—I was on a press tour, flying back and forth to date her," Manganiello recalled to Fallon.

"She had just gotten out of this long relationship and so, the second time I went to go see her, I was in the airport and I noticed that People magazine had put me on the cover of the bachelor issue. 'No. 1 bachelor guy!'"

"So I grabbed it off the shelf and I threw it in my bag," he continued, "and I went to go see her. And we got to talking and I said; "Look, I know you just got out of this long-term relationship and if you need to be single, then I understand. I'm not going to like it, but I'll get over it.

But I just need to know if that's what this is. But before you answer...I want to show you something.'"

He whipped out the People and said, '"Numero uno.'" So Vergara started flipping through the magazine and told him she was checking to see "'who else is on the list."Shared sense of humor, check.

Not hurting matters, Manganiello had told People, before he started dating Vergara, that she was his celebrity crush, and that was included in his "Hottest Bachelor" profile.

"She was laughing at me," he told Ryan Seacrest on KIIS-FM later. "She thought that I was crazy for having said that out loud or said it in the magazine, but you know, I guess it worked.")

Aries is VERY upfront. Even when they are shy, its obvious to you who is being pursued that they are into you i.e insisting on being alone with you, telling everyone that they are crushing on you,making long and spontaneous trips to see you and doing the whole "Look, I want you .So ....." speech.

With Aries,its all out there and you will get to hear it. They really are not hard to decipher when they like someone.

posted November 28, 2019 09:39 AM            

i flirt with people without taking it seriously all the time so i tend to not notice unless someone else is blunt and even then it has to be very explicit

i like when people are upfront, and when i like someone or someone is real with me im blunt about it too

i dont play games, i dont care about saying things first or waiting x amount of time to do **** etc

i hate that **** and gameplaying puts me off instantly, be upfront blunt and real because i'm gonna be essentially

i'm not into wasting my time on dumb **** so in spite of the jokes and stuff when it comes down to it i'm not into it

im not inclined to chase though, if it's too much work from point a to point b i lose interest

i'll work hard at keeping things going in a relationship, not to start one, **** that

if it's too much trouble to start then there's no point really

i have aries moon conjunct descendant (1 degree), opposite libra venus (1 degree), square cap mars (5 degrees), trine leo mercury (exact), trine sag uranus (1 degree)

posted November 28, 2019 10:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
The ones I know are as persistent as f****. Lol.

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posted November 28, 2019 03:02 PM            

I just read on another thread, coincidentally, you mentioned two people you know with Aries Moon!

Dumuzi, Aries Moon in H7 should be the epitome of this Moon in relationship. Your Moon in a good position to study then

Thanks for qualifying the rest: Mars in Capricorn AND locked into a T-square sheds greater insight on the tone of that Aries Moon. I see how impractical it would be to pursue when conditions are not likely in your favour (Capricorn) .

Perhaps with that Cap Mars you are more likely to be less direct and rather instead to take long-term strategic steps to win object of affection. You may not call this game-playing, btw.

I know a Moon Aries someone, and with their Mars in Pisces. Again, puts quite a different spin on it, doesn't it? And of course, then there are the aspects to both the Moon and the Mars, adding yet another layer.

Btw Dumuzi: I have Cap Venus/Ascendant, Libra Moon/Uranus :P T-square with Chiron (4H). And Aqu Sun and Mercury. Pleased to meet you

I find it interesting to ask about male Moon in particular, because the Moon as signifier for men of female archetype attraction (among other things). For an Aries Moon, does it mean that such a man prefer that the woman be the initiator and chaser? Do men give up the qualities of their Moon?

In reality, it's likely a bit of both on each side. A to and froing.

Maybe the Aries Moon male unconsciously draws the female to chase? In some way elicits Aires qualities out of her? The passion, the aggression, the assertiveness, and independence: he wants to see those Aries qualities in the female in order to feel "safe" (Moon), before moving forward in continued pursuit. We all want to feel safe when involving ourselves in others after all. Well, many of us.. and actually, maybe not a Moon Aires though, lol.

posted November 28, 2019 06:15 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Aries, thanks for that little ditty, lol. I'm glad you specified at the end that he was Aries Moon because I was wondering all the way through.

I just read on another thread, coincidentally, you mentioned two people you know with Aries Moon!

Dumuzi, Aries Moon in H7 should be the epitome of this Moon in relationship. Your Moon in a good position to study then

Thanks for qualifying the rest: Mars in Capricorn AND locked into a T-square sheds greater insight on the tone of that Aries Moon. I see how impractical it would be to pursue when conditions are not likely in your favour (Capricorn) .

Perhaps with that Cap Mars you are more likely to be less direct and rather instead to take long-term strategic steps to win object of affection. You may not call this game-playing, btw.

I know a Moon Aries someone, and with their Mars in Pisces. Again, puts quite a different spin on it, doesn't it? And of course, then there are the aspects to both the Moon and the Mars, adding yet another layer.

Btw Dumuzi: I have Cap Venus/Ascendant, Libra Moon/Uranus :P T-square with Chiron (4H). And Aqu Sun and Mercury. Pleased to meet you

I find it interesting to ask about male Moon in particular, because the Moon as signifier for men of female archetype attraction (among other things). For an Aries Moon, does it mean that such a man prefer that the woman be the initiator and chaser? Do men give up the qualities of their Moon?

In reality, it's likely a bit of both on each side. A to and froing.

Maybe the Aries Moon male unconsciously draws the female to chase? In some way elicits Aires qualities out of her? The passion, the aggression, the assertiveness, and independence: he wants to see those Aries qualities in the female in order to feel "safe" (Moon), before moving forward in continued pursuit. We all want to feel safe when involving ourselves in others after all. Well, many of us.. and actually, maybe not a Moon Aires though, lol.

And perhaps a method such as this applies to how men generally project and draw out their Moon in the women in their lives? As a woman even, I probably do that a little bit too come to think of it.

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likewise

and yeah if **** 's not in my favour i'm not going to bother though i have been the other person before, but both of the people i was with (they were both caps funny enough) made the first move in that circumstance

i'm pretty direct if i know i've got it, the cap mars generally comes up in relationships where i'm willing to give full on commitment even through hard ****

i don't lose interest not even during rough patches and it takes a lot for me to walk away (my longest relationship was from hs til last july, almost 15 years though we were open and we still sort of talk it's a weird situation currently tbh) and not try to reconcile ****

if i'm already in it then if **** 's stacked against me i'll still keep going and dealing with hard **** , but before that? not at all

my ex fiancee and i had a lot of **** going on due to her family for example but i stuck by her (mental illness being a huge issue later on didn't help)

i haven't typically made the first move, but i did with the guy i'm currently talking to

just how life worked out

my ex fiancee had moon in aries (square neptune, trine scorpio mercury and sag saturn, biquintile her pluto/venus scorpio conjunction) mars in pisces (conjunct jupiter, square sun/saturn/uranus, trine venus/pluto, sextile neptune) btw, and she actually chased after me

we were friends first and i actually turned her down at first (shouldve probably stuck to it) then eventually just gave in to her persistance (i bend to persistance sometimes had that happen with my other ex and with a fwbs) because she was pretty obsessive (scorpio venus conjunct pluto and a scorpio mercury conjunct her midheaven) and we had some points where things got kind of heavy physically during our friendship

i dont really care who initiates things tbh, but i appreciate people who are forward

i definitely draw in assertive women though, and i'm not really interested when a woman is too passive and submissive ( fine for the bedroom but i don't want to date you) with men either, i don't like passive very submissive partners

i'd rather argue than have someone just "yes" me

i prefer to feel secure in a sense, that's why i appreciate when people are blunt

that's mostly because i see it as a waste of time otherwise though, if there's not this immediate connection they need to make the first move and if they dont do it bluntly then i can't be bothered

my biggest problem comes from my flirting habit when i'm just joking because i'll find myself almost playing chicken sexually with people i don't really want by accident, and every so often once i have someone i'm not sure i want to be with them

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posted November 28, 2019 07:20 PM            

I've been chased by Aries Moon males before. And the way they chase you is based on their Mars placement. I've been chased by the Cancer mars and the Pisces mars, both have Scorpio suns.

The Cancer Mars is quite direct from the first time, but I don't take it seriously as my focus is in my study. We continue as a friend as I keep my distance. 5 years in a friendship and he still doesn't tell me that he is actually a married man, he literally wants a physical touch, again, very direct and almost like a force. I refuse and he doesn't give up. He is always the one who search on me aka chase me and I almost fall for a temptation because how great our conversation is.

The Pisces Mars is quite passive but still obvious with his interest. At first I don't really see it but our mutual friends does. I have a very good time with him as my venus conjunct his mars. I can say that he is not so direct like the Cancer mars above, but you can tell by how he tries to romanticize some moments with you only and it's pretty much obvious.

A friend of mine who has Capricorn Mars takes longer to take an action. But is really ready to get married.

posted November 28, 2019 07:28 PM            

I don’t necessarily find Aries moons as ones to chase or be chased really. I kissed my husband first and he still talks about it. I think he liked the initiative. In my eyes he was taking forever. I mean we were hanging out a lot and had gone out for his friends birthday and drinks were involved. I was like, ugh this is taking forever, so I made the first move.

He’s a Capricorn Mars with a Taurus Venus so he likes to plan things out to be super romantic. Apparently he already had a whole thing planned for our first kiss and I went and stole the show.

My ex bf and I (his Aries moon is the same 0’ degree as my husband), he wasn’t particularly one to chase either. Or be chased. I was friends with him for years before dating him. We hung out for a few months before we started dating.

posted November 28, 2019 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
My husband is an Aries moon and so was my ex for 4 years. I guess my Aries Venus-Mars conjunction attracts them. I’ve also dated an Aries sun, Aries ascendant, and Aries Venus. And I always said for the longest time that I can’t stand Aries men. Eh, I guess I can’t deny that for some reason I can’t stay away from them lol.

I don’t necessarily find Aries moons as ones to chase or be chased really. I kissed my husband first and he still talks about it. I think he liked the initiative. In my eyes he was taking forever. I mean we were hanging out a lot and had gone out for his friends birthday and drinks were involved. I was like, ugh this is taking forever, so I made the first move.

He’s a Capricorn Mars with a Taurus Venus so he likes to plan things out to be super romantic. Apparently he already had a whole thing planned for our first kiss and I went and stole the show.

My ex bf and I (his Aries moon is the same 0’ degree as my husband), he wasn’t particularly one to chase either. Or be chased. I was friends with him for years before dating him. We hung out for a few months before we started dating.

I don’t really know any guy who chases their person of affection now. I feel like nowadays everyone tries to play it cool and doesn’t act the way they want to really act because they’re afraid it’ll scare the other person off. When I was single I hated this. I didn’t play games, if I liked someone I was all in, I made it known, I gave them my time, attention, and texted them when I wanted to without fear of scaring someone off. If they ran because I texted them twice in one day then they weren’t the one for me. My Aries traits are forward (I suppose) in this regard, but I see them as authentic.

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maybe it's the taurus venus that leads to planning? because even with a cap mars and virgo sun i'm **** with plans and only do things spur of the moment if it feels right (my mars is loosely conjunct neptune thouth and my sun is trine neptune so maybe that's it?)

i react to things immediately and prefer to make snap decisions, when it comes to more inconsequential things it takes me forever to make decisions so plans dont happen

just find it interesting that you're attributing planning to cap mars because i lack that skillset

maybe i'm just broken

also i dont consider texting if youre interested chasing, it's just being upfront waiting seems stupid to me

if im choosing between 2 people and one of them is interacting with me while the other plays the waiting game i'm dropping the one playing games because they're difficult

posted November 28, 2019 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
My husband is an Aries moon and so was my ex for 4 years. I guess my Aries Venus-Mars conjunction attracts them. I’ve also dated an Aries sun, Aries ascendant, and Aries Venus. And I always said for the longest time that I can’t stand Aries men. Eh, I guess I can’t deny that for some reason I can’t stay away from them lol.

I don’t necessarily find Aries moons as ones to chase or be chased really. I kissed my husband first and he still talks about it. I think he liked the initiative. In my eyes he was taking forever. I mean we were hanging out a lot and had gone out for his friends birthday and drinks were involved. I was like, ugh this is taking forever, so I made the first move.

He’s a Capricorn Mars with a Taurus Venus so he likes to plan things out to be super romantic. Apparently he already had a whole thing planned for our first kiss and I went and stole the show.

My ex bf and I (his Aries moon is the same 0’ degree as my husband), he wasn’t particularly one to chase either. Or be chased. I was friends with him for years before dating him. We hung out for a few months before we started dating.

I don’t really know any guy who chases their person of affection now. I feel like nowadays everyone tries to play it cool and doesn’t act the way they want to really act because they’re afraid it’ll scare the other person off. When I was single I hated this. I didn’t play games, if I liked someone I was all in, I made it known, I gave them my time, attention, and texted them when I wanted to without fear of scaring someone off. If they ran because I texted them twice in one day then they weren’t the one for me. My Aries traits are forward (I suppose) in this regard, but I see them as authentic.

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maybe it's the taurus venus that leads to planning? because even with a cap mars and virgo sun i'm **** with plans and only do things spur of the moment if it feels right (my mars is loosely conjunct neptune thouth and my sun is trine neptune so maybe that's it?)

i react to things immediately and prefer to make snap decisions, when it comes to more inconsequential things it takes me forever to make decisions so plans dont happen

just find it interesting that you're attributing planning to cap mars because i lack that skillset

maybe i'm just broken

also i dont consider texting if youre interested chasing, it's just being upfront waiting seems stupid to me

if im choosing between 2 people and one of them is interacting with me while the other plays the waiting game i'm dropping the one playing games because they're difficult

@polkadotstars you're 100% on not finding a chase in either direction preferable, blunt upfront game free is always best

posted November 28, 2019 08:53 PM            

I think the trademark about Aries placements is they don't take the fighting to heart... Sure it sucks, but its not going to kill the relationship.

A man with moon in aries is going to like a upfront woman. Its kind of simple.

posted November 29, 2019 05:43 PM            

AriesLilith, are you saying that you have Aries Moon?

I find it curious that there is a theme of "no games". Yet, Aries is the sign that loves competition and games.

posted November 29, 2019 05:52 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Haha ^ this

AriesLilith, are you saying that you have Aries Moon?

I find it curious that there is a theme of "no games". Yet, Aries is the sign that loves competition and games.

So I think that Aries Moon would like some degree of games.

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posted November 29, 2019 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
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I don’t necessarily find Aries moons as ones to chase or be chased really. I kissed my husband first and he still talks about it. I think he liked the initiative. In my eyes he was taking forever. I mean we were hanging out a lot and had gone out for his friends birthday and drinks were involved. I was like, ugh this is taking forever, so I made the first move.

He’s a Capricorn Mars with a Taurus Venus so he likes to plan things out to be super romantic....

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hmmm..I'd tend to agree with Dumuzi that the Taurus Venus is more at play then the Aries moon, I'd so the same..

I'm male, I have an Aries moon and I have Taurus Venus...So I think I meet all the checkboxes and be best to comment on that particular example.

I'd say let the Aries moon do the chasing..
Unless other aspects are interfering.

Don't add to much drama, I chased a Leo and got tired of her...then she tried to get me to start chasing her again...at that point I just moved on.

posted November 29, 2019 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Haha ^ this

AriesLilith, are you saying that you have Aries Moon?

I find it curious that there is a theme of "no games". Yet, Aries is the sign that loves competition and games.

So I think that Aries Moon would like some degree of games.

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Yes I also have Aries Moon. Rather Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury and a series of asteroids lol.

I don’t really like manipulation games, as in being made jealous or in doubt if the other person actually cares or if I’m his number one. I either am or am not, I don’t tolerate not being number one or doubts about it. If a guy doesn’t show 100% into me, then to me he isn’t or maybe he is not secure enough and that may be a red flag.

The games I’m into are seduction games. Tease me when we can’t do anything naughty yet, build the desire. I also love teasing, building my partner’s desire for me. A fun day would be going on a date day and seducing each other until one of us can’t resist anymore and attacks the other lol. Or one trying to resist the temptation but the other teases.
But this is only a two player game. :P

posted November 29, 2019 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Yes I also have Aries Moon. Rather Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury and a series of asteroids lol.

I don’t really like manipulation games, as in being made jealous or in doubt if the other person actually cares or if I’m his number one. I either am or am not, I don’t tolerate not being number one or doubts about it. If a guy doesn’t show 100% into me, then to me he isn’t or maybe he is not secure enough and that may be a red flag.

The games I’m into are seduction games. Tease me when we can’t do anything naughty yet, build the desire. I also love teasing, building my partner’s desire for me. A fun day would be going on a date day and seducing each other until one of us can’t resist anymore and attacks the other lol. Or one trying to resist the temptation but the other teases.
But this is only a two player game. :P

This is different from manipulation games and I hate those. I often can see right through it and it triggers me to no end, irritatingly. I appreciate directness and honesty.

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posted November 30, 2019 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
I have Moon in Aries, but a female, I don't know if it is helping.

I've been chased by Aries Moon males before. And the way they chase you is based on their Mars placement. I've been chased by the Cancer mars and the Pisces mars, both have Scorpio suns.

The Cancer Mars is quite direct from the first time, but I don't take it seriously as my focus is in my study. We continue as a friend as I keep my distance. 5 years in a friendship and he still doesn't tell me that he is actually a married man, he literally wants a physical touch, again, very direct and almost like a force. I refuse and he doesn't give up. He is always the one who search on me aka chase me and I almost fall for a temptation because how great our conversation is.

The Pisces Mars is quite passive but still obvious with his interest. At first I don't really see it but our mutual friends does. I have a very good time with him as my venus conjunct his mars. I can say that he is not so direct like the Cancer mars above, but you can tell by how he tries to romanticize some moments with you only and it's pretty much obvious.

A friend of mine who has Capricorn Mars takes longer to take an action. But is really ready to get married.

I think if you like an Aries moon, just be honest, spontaneous, and PLAY NO GAMES. Don't be bothered with chase or being chased. If the Aries moon is single, it's very easy for them to fall for honest/no games people.

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I've found out I'm more of an aries moon rather than a taurus in the past year and I see it showing a lot more - I'm more explosive and still very high energy. I love being on the go and moving.

Anyways I think a cancer Mars is chasing me - female Aries moon. What's your guy's sun, moon, and Venus? I think there cancer Mars is way too passive aggressive for me and I actually don't like the way he play games in showing he likes me. He's apparently awaiting some kind of sign from me... Yet clearly talking to other girls and it's a huge turn off for me. I'm not an option between girls you're choosing, the real battle is trying to convince me imo (I'm a bit self centered). I too almost fall for it but in the end, I take it as he's not serious either. I also can't really tell if he's actually into me so I don't like those games. I hate it because he'll ask questions of "where would I want to live in the future" or how we would have next time to hangout... And I'm thinking I'm not going to visit you anytime soon (living on opposite coast) as he's talking to another girl who lives in a different city. So best to ignore.

Pisces are much easier to read and they can be assertive.

I actually would like the games of knowing you both like each other and focusing on one another. Not sure if that makes sense... Like you pull each other closer vs being distracted by another person.

posted November 30, 2019 02:32 AM            

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Anyways I think a cancer Mars is chasing me - female Aries moon. What's your guy's sun, moon, and Venus? I think there cancer Mars is way too passive aggressive for me and I actually don't like the way he play games in showing he likes me. He's apparently awaiting some kind of sign from me... Yet clearly talking to other girls and it's a huge turn off for me. I'm not an option between girls you're choosing, the real battle is trying to convince me imo (I'm a bit self centered). I too almost fall for it but in the end, I take it as he's not serious either. I also can't really tell if he's actually into me so I don't like those games.

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I have Cancer Mars and Aries Moon...

I don't play games but I'd already be in a position were if things work out great, if not who cares there's no loss.

Ironically I've become more blunt with my Aries moon then my Cancer mars.

I think a Cancer mars can learn to be less guarded over time and play less games if at least one harsh lesson happens.

They like to guard themselves, play games and manipulate the situation in there own defense but if everything suddenly spirals out of control then they'll learn there lesson.

I'd be turned off too that he's talking to another women.

If he's trying to make you jealous by talking to other women and expecting a sign from you he's clearly not a confident person.

If it doesn't work out with you that's fine..it just didn't work out. no lose plenty of fish in the sea

Every car salesmen doesn't expect every person that walks in the door to buy a car from them.

But they know at least 1 out of 10 people that walks into the dealership is a sucker and will eventually buy a car from them.

Cancer mars expects every girl they ask to be there girl and they'll either manipulate or play games or get defensive to ensure that it happens.

I think if they eventually learn that you actually do get something if someone rejects you they might be more direct with things and not be afraid to get hurt so easily.

Said from a Cancer mars...

posted November 30, 2019 08:52 AM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:

I find it curious that there is a theme of "no games". Yet, Aries is the sign that loves competition and games.

So I think that Aries Moon would like some degree of games.

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there's a difference between a game and playing games in a relationship, don't get the 2 mixed up

playing games just gets me annoyed and i'll walk away unless there's a pre-established emotional connection and i'm already with someone in which case i'll get angry

either way the end result isn't going to be fun for the other person

there's some things i don't want to deal with ******** with

i'm fine with casual sex, don't need a relationship, and if someone plays games they'll quickly find themselves to be the type i would never actually date or like i said if we're already dating and then the games start they aren't going to like where they go

i'm not chasing after someone, because i don't care to, why would i want someone who makes it difficult to get them? i like honest, upfront communication and connections that feel real rather than manufactured

that requires being real and not playing games

other people can deal with ******** like that in a relationship

i've responded better to "you're attractive i'm attractive we should **** " (led to a year and a half fwbs situation) over someone trying to make me jealous (had an ex gf who tried a lot very early on usually just got "yeah why wouldn't guys like you? i like you" and eventually me telling her i was getting tired of her because she was too difficult that relationship ended 2 months after that **** started)

i don't actually get jealous because if i like someone i assume other people find them desirable

if they're acting like there's other people then i'm cool with open or casual stuff and there actually might just be other people for me because i'm not going to see or try to see a monogamous situation (id only bother with monogamy for the right person or a family situation where a kid was involved)

if someone is going to act like i have to jump through hoops and **** it will cause disinterest or fights because i find that **** repulsive and don't like the character of people who play games

getting close to people like that is essentially walking head first into a problem, no desire

a game or a competition isn't that, doesnt involve deeper feelings and can just be fun

you'd be very disappointed trying that with an aries moon