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Topic: Who remains angry or holds the longest grudges: Scorpio ASC, Moon, or Mars?
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Leo-Cancer98
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From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
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posted December 06, 2019 09:30 PM
  
Including no chance of forgiveness, for at least 3 months; if ever, haha.In your experience, is one’s approach to feeling, reacting to, and handling anger (an emotion), as well as conflict/conflict resolution (Martian theme?), controlled by their Moon Sign, House Placement and/or Aspect(s), or rather their Mars Sign, House Placement, and/or Aspect(s)? ------------------
Cancer Rising
2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC. IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl
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From: Heavens Above
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posted December 06, 2019 10:50 PM
I have a Scorpio Uranus, Moon conjuncting my Scorpio ASC (wide orb).. I think the below link pretty much explains my Scorpio placements..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kx1Ca7t6gJU IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 06, 2019 10:55 PM
I don't hold a grudge, unless a line is really crossed (especially if it happens multiple times). I'm a Scorpio ascendant, Uranus conjunct.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted December 07, 2019 12:32 AM
Moon, definitely.. I wasn't forgiven for 3 months atleast...by the Moon, for insulting her... then I stopped trying... IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted December 07, 2019 01:14 AM
^^lol... how exhausting. just the thought of this topic makes me nervous and not want to comment. the moon, worse if its challenged. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted December 07, 2019 01:39 AM
^ Yeah, WTH, me and my friend with Aries Moon move on from **** in like 2 seconds...IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 07, 2019 02:16 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Yeah, WTH, me and my friend with Aries Moon move on from **** in like 2 seconds...
Ditto, I have Moon in Pisces ruling my 8th and Mars rules my IC.
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Electro DGX
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posted December 07, 2019 02:21 AM
Scorpio Mars +Asc conj. Exact. Moon in 8th opposite Pluto exact. I put up with a lot before that line gets crossed. People who have are no longer part of my life anymore. Not going to pretend nothing happened when **** went down and someone broke that trust. Those people are dead to me. It takes a lot to get there. Actions speak louder than words. IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted December 07, 2019 02:32 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Yeah, WTH, me and my friend with Aries Moon move on from **** in like 2 seconds...
Originally posted by hypatia238:
Ditto, I have Moon in Pisces ruling my 8th and Mars rules my IC.
^I have 8th House Moon in Capricorn sextile Pluto and believe Love is for-giving (and for-getting if you so please)http://www.kindspring.org/story/view.php?sid=63753 IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted December 07, 2019 03:23 AM
I should add though that Mars rules my IC but it conjuncts my Venus and my venus/mars trines neptune and neptune squares my Moon in pisces. Also I have a grand trine between venus/mars with Compassion and Neptune. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
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posted December 07, 2019 03:25 AM
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Originally posted by vansio:
[QUOTE]
Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Yeah, WTH, me and my friend with Aries Moon move on from **** in like 2 seconds...
Originally posted by hypatia238:
Ditto, I have Moon in Pisces ruling my 8th and Mars rules my IC.
^I have 8th House Moon in Capricorn sextile Pluto and believe [b]Love is for-giving (and for-getting if you so please)http://www.kindspring.org/story/view.php?sid=63753 [/B][/QUOTE] Thank you so much for sharing that story! looooooooooved it  I will share it with others too. IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
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posted December 08, 2019 01:10 PM
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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
Scorpio Mars +Asc conj. Exact. Moon in 8th opposite Pluto exact. I put up with a lot before that line gets crossed. People who have are no longer part of my life anymore. Not going to pretend nothing happened when **** went down and someone broke that trust. Those people are dead to me. It takes a lot to get there. Actions speak louder than words.
Would you say that a single Scorpio/Pluto/8th House influence, would not be as influential as Quadruple one? The individual in question only has a 28'50 Scorpio Rising, with an 4th House Aries Mars. ------------------
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2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
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SoulOfABird
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From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted December 09, 2019 01:23 AM
Im going to say m maybe the moon only because my mom is Scorpio mars and venus, and my grandma has scorpio mars as well and both do not hold grudges. Especially my mom, she gets over things so quickly I wonder if she's bipolar lolHowever I think of Taylor Swift who has Scorpio mars, not a Scorpio moon, and she seems to not be able to ever let things go. And she constantly brings them up. I think almost everyone knows this about her lol IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
Knowflake Posts: 1006
From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted December 09, 2019 01:33 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Yeah, WTH, me and my friend with Aries Moon move on from **** in like 2 seconds...
You know.. I have no planets in Scorpio in my chart, but I have a hard time acting like everything is okay so quickly. I don't hold grudges but if I am hurt by someone and they just talk to me like nothing, it bothers me. If it's something small than I get over it, because I don't like fighting, but if we got into a fight, I can't act like nothing unless one of us apologizes. Really only if it's something repetitive, l get tired of it and I can't act like nothing. I feel weird doing that. So if no one apologizes I give the silent treatment, I usually apologize first, unless I really felt like they owed me an apology so people might think I hold a grudge. I just don't understand how people can go on like nothing unless you make up and explain how you were feeling. Maybe I do this unconsciously because Im afraid of being like my mother and aunt. My aunt was known for going crazy and saying awful ugly things and then the next day acting like nothing happened at all. Same thing with my mom, so Ive seen that growing up and I didn't want to be like that. I feel like dealing with that crap is so tiring. It tires and frustrates me out like heck playing these yo-yo games.
It's like Jekyll and Hyde and Id rather just apologize and makeup than act like nothing happened if I did something wrong.
Im the only one like that in my family too so I feel abnormal or something. Is anyone else on here like me? (x
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anonymidarkness
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posted December 09, 2019 02:00 AM
^ Hmm I myself do not act like nothing happened, something did, then came fight or whatever, someone apologises...someone leaves...but they usually happen quickly, rather than a long-drawn out process, usually...I mean you can't just insult me and two minutes later talk to me about the weather....I actually feel these types wanna cause a ruckus but can't take the reaction in.... but there is also the thrill of getting away with everything, that too I get, I get, hehh. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted December 09, 2019 12:22 PM
I know a gal who can hold a grudge for a long time. She will cut people off for months, unfriend them on social media etc and then suddenly resumes friendship with them like nothing ever happened. But for some, she cuts them off for years. She has a Scorpio ASC with 8H Moon trine Pluto. IP: Logged |
BunnyAria3
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posted December 09, 2019 11:58 PM
Moon ! Holds it forever ! IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1913
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 10, 2019 01:12 PM
in my experience it's moon by far. every scorp moon i've been close to has a grudge against me and either won't own up to it and move on or won't accept the truth and move on. except for one she's awesome. i think they need a lot of earth to balance out that energy or it gets out of control. lolIP: Logged |
GalacticCoreExplosion
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From: Somewhere
Registered: Sep 2019
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posted December 10, 2019 01:32 PM
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Originally posted by BunnyAria3:
Moon ! Holds it forever !
What about someone with Scorpio Moon closely conjunct Pluto? Hold it for forever'eva, like in the Outkast song? IP: Logged |
squirrel
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From: Europe
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 11, 2019 06:51 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I don't hold a grudge, unless a line is really crossed (especially if it happens multiple times). I'm a Scorpio ascendant, Uranus conjunct.
Me too! And this is accurate. From my experience Sco Sun & Mars hold the longest grudges. and - off topic, I know, but Capricorns are much worse than Scorpios in this matter.
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Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1913
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 11, 2019 08:18 PM
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
What about someone with Scorpio Moon closely conjunct Pluto? Hold it for forever'eva, like in the Outkast song?
yes. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted December 11, 2019 10:40 PM
Any of them. The person who decides not to forgive. We are not ruled by our charts or by assumptions made upon them.------------------
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Somna7H
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From: East India Company
Registered: Apr 2018
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posted December 12, 2019 12:14 AM
No grudges.
Detriment Mars and Jupiter in Scorpio
Holding grudges will be useless if I failed to get revenge in future.
So forgive and forget.------------------
My Chart :
http://imgur.com/hCRDawD IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted December 12, 2019 12:17 AM
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Any of them. The person who decides not to forgive. We are not ruled by our charts or by assumptions made upon them.
We are too, its the habit. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2
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From: Toronto, Ontario
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted December 12, 2019 09:40 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
^ Yeah, WTH, me and my friend with Aries Moon move on from **** in like 2 seconds...
If there in there natural state I would agree. Since I've moved back home..its harder for me to get angry or stay angry very long. As theres lots of things for me to do... I live in the core downtown area. In that sense an Aries moon whouldn't have the patience to stay angry because staying angry isn't progressive and they have lots of things to do. But before I moved back home I whould always be angry because I would always be bombarded by some kind of annoying problem, that whould stop any form of progress. Such as.... X ate a toothpick again. Yes, I want to strangle X for being an i*iot and I'm still mad at X. My Planets
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