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Hyperqueen
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posted December 12, 2019 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hyperqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi I was scrolling through to understand what my sun & moon signifies and what good there is in it. Some people think I'm caring but I don't think I'm suffocating at all -- i'm the opposite actually. I might feel insecure but I normally just end up changing my mentality about it anyway and turn it into something good. I feel like we all need to face our fears in order to give good things to others. A lot of the times when I make friends I feel like I'm just not enough actually. Well, depends. Most friends I have for some reason are mostly imbued with fire, and are air signs but I think it's mostly because of their fire placements. I love learning, and love mental stimulation, and I also love talking about feelings too but not all the time or it becomes suffocating to me. Does it just mean that my sun & moon act differently, or am I just mean that I'm in denial somehow/don't want to find friends that are compatible to me? Normally it's kinda hard for me to find friends with earth/water types unless if they're in my family for some reason. Most of my friends are libras and the guys I always end up dating (also my dad is this) are aries(My bf is one, but he has his NN tightly conj my moon in cancer - also a p good synastry). This is my chart: https://ibb.co/2dw6J2D
I just wonder what really makes compatibility sometimes too, Synastry or composite matters more ?

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Aries23Degrees
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posted December 13, 2019 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's not just about the Moon sign.But it includes the house it's in,the aspects to the Moon etc.

When you said you love mental things like learning, I thought that it's either your Moon enjoys string aspects with Jupiter /Mercury or is in the 3rd or 9th house.

And then what do you know? The Moon is in the 9th house which may explain the positive mental outlook and how you can't relate to Cancer Moons more "woe is me" descriptions online (which btw are stereotypes )

With Moon in 9th in Cancer, you learn in an emotional way or intuitively ie. The subjcet matter has to matter to you from a soul level in order for you to learn. Or it must be relatable in an intimate,tangible way.

It could be that education(especially higher education or travelling for learning) may result in greater clarity in feelings & thereby emotional maturity and/or expansion.


Your Moon forms a sextile to Saturn. You could be interested in learning subject matters that deal with tangibles or reality-something you can learn and apply in real life ie. Mathematics,engineering, accounting, construction, law etc. And not be interested in abstract ideas or things that are too open-ended.

Saturn gives a sobering effect on your Moon and contributes to you being less sentimental and/or emotional about your interests.

You may study exhaustively(9th) for emotional needs.But Sat in aspect suggests that whatever you study must be readily applicable to life and not just for leisure or pleasure.

Similar to you I have Moon in Cancer.But my Moon is in the 3rd house and the tightest aspects to it come from Mars/Mercury & Venus.

I also enjoy learning. But the issue for me is that I am less consistent and more restless.

I tend to prefer to study a highly emotional subject matter or one that will allow for debate/interaction.And I like competing with knowledge.

Studying /learning can feel like a drug.This especially if the subject matter is exciting. I don't mind learning it exhaustively.

Your Mars in 1st could be why you are drawn to Aries types. Mars is in its natural house when in the 1st and is strongly affiliated with Aries.

I on the other hand seem to not be interested in dating. My Juno is in Aries and it opposes Mars/Pluto in the 7th. Add to that Saturn is exalted in the 7th with Venus also in the 7th (am self sufficient)

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meissieri
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From: Neptune with Faith, Bella, Muddy and Doux. Commuting between that and Chiron.
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posted December 13, 2019 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for meissieri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So when I read your post, I intuitively thought "sounds like a Moon-Saturn hard aspect" but you don't have that. Actually, Sun, Moon and Ceres all conjunct in Cancer. There may be other aspects of that sign that you do relate to? All signs have a couple of to-go traits that are kinda stereotypical.

You have a quincunx between your Moon and Uranus. A minor aspect, but maybe it does affect the way your moon expresses itself? Uranus would make you more restless, more about the mental than the emotional, moods/feelings being inconsistent or fluctuating a lot.

Like Aries already said, Moon in the 9th could give you a lot more desire - soul level, love that wording! - to explore, learn, broaden your horizons and to just learn more about the world beyond. It is something you *need* to do to feel comfortable.

Sagittarius, the sign normally linked with the 9th house is quite different from Cancer and I've found that they can really struggle with accepting negative emotions, always wanting to put up a happy face. I imagine also a conflict between wanting to settle somewhere/stick with something vs wanting to move away and explore.

Again, most astrology, especially on forums or social media tends to focus more on the obvious traits and so it can give the impression that if you don't relate to those traits, then I see people wonder "am I a 'real' <insert sign here>?". While there's a lot of things that can change your Moon (or Sun, etc.)'s expression.

Hope that makes things a little easier to understand things about your moon.

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