posted January 20, 2020 02:20 PM            

the most i can really say is focus on meditation and mindfulness and try finding the things in your life and patterns that aren't serving you well because that's what will get ****** anyway regardless especially with saturn around

it doesn't have to be too bad, make the best of it and accept that it's important change that'll be for the better when it's done

posted January 20, 2020 07:17 PM            

You're experiencing both the purpose of this transit to awaken your passions and its tendency to erupt underlying latent patterns on an emotional level that normally don't get expressed or manifest in outward ways.

With hard Pluto transits to natal Moon we are usually challenged to find new boundaries in some way. I hope that you can feel yours stretching a bit, so that you can express yourself more freely and see more clearly where the lines need to be drawn with others.

How much certain things irritate or enrage you during this transit can also show you where some of your own issues are on your way to being more empowered. If you get engrossed in conflict and blame what will happen during this transit is largely unhealthy and it will take you further out of balance. That's the risk: getting more in touch with your feelings as they are more intensified and clearer, but getting caught up in power/ego battles with others that become personal and build up cysts of resentment, cynicism, etc.

It requires a next step of deciding to purge unhealthy attitudes or patterns if you want to come out of the transit better, more emotionally mature than you were. What happens during these hard Pluto transits to natal Moon is we tend to regress emotionally to an earlier stage where we left off by making some kind of compromise to get along with more powerful/forceful personalities. This transit typically makes us fed up with doing that and we unconsciously start moving out of the pattern. So it is important to recognize where our newly intensified passions may lead us further from imbalance with renewal of old less mature patterns of emotional response and what are some new options for being more assertive, drawing clearer boundaries, and how to articulate these so they function in our lives, not just with one person, but with everyone.

You can do it.

One thing that helps at least in a basic way is to make a rule with yourself to get away when feeling triggered or just right on the spot taking some deeper breaths. If you notice it, I can pretty much guarantee that when you're triggered like this your breathing stiffens up and moves up into your chest. The diaphragm isn't allowed to stay flexible, fluid, and do its job. Take some deep belly breaths as you count to 10 or 20 with each one (or however many it takes) and remind yourself you are empowered from within and can stay in balance. You are learning a new balancing point that will allow you to be a more empowered person. It takes time.

posted January 21, 2020 01:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:

With hard Pluto transits to natal Moon we are usually challenged to find new boundaries in some way. I hope that you can feel yours stretching a bit, so that you can express yourself more freely and see more clearly where the lines need to be drawn with others.

How much certain things irritate or enrage you during this transit can also show you where some of your own issues are on your way to being more empowered. If you get engrossed in conflict and blame what will happen during this transit is largely unhealthy and it will take you further out of balance. That's the risk: getting more in touch with your feelings as they are more intensified and clearer, but getting caught up in power/ego battles with others that become personal and build up cysts of resentment, cynicism, etc.

[b]It requires a next step of deciding to purge unhealthy attitudes or patterns

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this is so weird, Pluto is about to square my (26 aries) moon, but i feel that i'm already going through this / have already gone through it. i was wondering what the heck was up, because something very intense was taking place but no transits to reflect it. but this describes it perfectly, and the transit hasn't even started yet. seems to happen a lot, i wonder why?

posted January 27, 2020 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Still_Hopeful:
Thank you for all your replies and suggestions. Let me clarify I am not trying to stir a problem. However, I can not any longer be silent. I tried to resolve ongoing problems for the last 2 years. Each time I asked for a meeting with my troublemaker coworker I got "I am busy, I do not have time" ect. Therefore, I started to be more assertive and aggressive (in a good sense) He was taken aback by my push back. So far so good (Toi Toi Toi) . No more remarks, no more interruption. I am not sure how long it will last. But I am ok now I know what to do. and I discovered something that actually my coworker is afraid of conflict (rightfully so, his position is not stable) . and If I escalate this problem further it could be a problem. BTW: I already resolved inside of myself a possibility of loosing a job. But I will not any longer be tolerable to a rude behavior .

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Sounds eerily similar to trans Uranus in Aries on my natal Grand cross in 2015/16. I was flipping out a lot.

I am not in an environment that has trans Pluto on my natal Grand cross now(incl an opp to my moon)pushing my buttons.

But i did write about my Mars a while back (situated in the 6th) that felt triggered by bad service at a shop and I exploded.

What I have noticed about Pluto dovetails on what Kannon mentioned i.e it is usually underlying issues that you have not dealt with or suppressed etc. That are soft spots for triggers.

If the atmosphere is congested-as Saturn can compress and make it become etc. It can feel like you are being pushed to your limits. I experienced this when visiting family and realised the underlying resentment i have for both Mom and Dad. I had to leave.

Logic/detachment or thinking clearly vanishes.When that happens,leave(literally). Run out the door and go outside to scream. And if the situation warrants no other alternative, let your co-worker have it.Get it out.

I am always afraid of getting into fist fights at work(Mars in 6th). So i do think of getting fired/being lead away in handcuffs. So I resonated with what you said at the end.

I fear for my sister. She is busy living with my parents and her Moon in Cancer conj Asc are both opposing Saturn and Pluto right now.

Its poetic that she is living with parents (Sat).But I feel that its only a matter of time before her trigger point(Moon) is activated to explode.

This year will be tense at home. And I am grateful to have opted for distance-Mom's Mars/Venus/Saturn is also in aspect with trans Saturn and Pluto.

My father(Cancer Sun) will have trans Pluto progress to oppose his Sun also this year and the next. Isht will hit the fan in the family and the demons will out.

Oddly,I had a premonition about this in 2018-19 already. I felt on a gut level that a tidal wave is coming to the family and will wash away all niceties and pleasantries.