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Topic: Men with exact Venus-Neptune squares....
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mir
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posted January 23, 2020 11:52 PM
  
Aaghhhh! Convinced you love them while you don´t. Fixed as hell in believing their dream. Suddenly you ´betray´ them! (???)
I can´t deal with this neptunian (cancer sun) freak anymore.
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Aries23Degrees
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posted January 24, 2020 06:04 AM
There's one I know with Venus in Pisces square Neptune. I don't think we will ever get together.We just can't seem to understand each other from a fundamental level. And it sucks because i really like him(or perhaps I like the "idea" of him?)I have Saturn on my Venus, he has Saturn and Neptune on his. But even with Sat there, the misunderstandings are great  I have just resolved to just let him go.
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Ami Anne
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posted January 24, 2020 09:30 AM
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Librapurr
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posted January 24, 2020 11:06 AM
I pull the Libra here: you could be more kind to Neptunian people. There’s a nicer way to do everything even to disappoint or break someone’s heart. I don’t know what are his other placements, but Cancer with exact Neptune square sounds pretty painful like the men can survive only in some special environment. IP: Logged |
mourningfire
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posted January 24, 2020 07:06 PM
Such a torturous aspect, which I don't have thankfully but my venus is in pisces so I "get" it. Addicted to the feeling of love. Venus-neptune individuals are very giving but to the point of being a martyr, to the point of deluding themselves. Describing Neptune as a "fog" has always felt so right for that reason. But Neptunian delusion is only noble in movies and literature. In reality, it's tragic. All that yearning and longing and love so easily misplaced, they unknowingly undo themselves. They can convince themselves of anything.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 27, 2020 11:32 AM
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Librapurr
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posted January 27, 2020 01:21 PM
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Originally posted by mourningfire:
Such a torturous aspect, which I don't have thankfully but my venus is in pisces so I "get" it. Addicted to the feeling of love. Venus-neptune individuals are very giving but to the point of being a martyr, to the point of deluding themselves. Describing Neptune as a "fog" has always felt so right for that reason. But Neptunian delusion is only noble in movies and literature. In reality, it's tragic. All that yearning and longing and love so easily misplaced, they unknowingly undo themselves. They can convince themselves of anything.
That’s sad. I wonder if Neptunian love can survive for a long term at all.IP: Logged |
Electro DGX
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posted January 27, 2020 02:06 PM
My dad has Venus square Neptune exact in mutable signs. He was married to my mom for 20 years before she passed; granted she was a Pisces Venus so that helped. Now tbh I have no idea what he is looking for in relationships. His Neptune is also in the 7th with his moon. It's also in mutable signs (Virgo Venus square Sag Neptune) so he flip flops back and forth between his feelings a lot. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
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posted January 27, 2020 10:58 PM
I have Aesculapia (resurrection, revival, miraculous come back) square my exes Venus forming a tsquare with my Pholus/Bless/Serendip stellium and he was someone that I never truly got over all the way, like I could not think of him in a long time and somehow my feelings for him would always resurrect out of nowhere to some extent in spite of not seeing him and been far away and this was the case for over a decade, sometimes this revival would happen in the dream world through astral travel experiences with him. We had a very powerful pluto stellium in the 12H coincidentally in our composite that included Aesculapia that falls on his natal Venus which I feel helps explain how hard it was for both of us to let go fully of each other with this revival/resurrection theme happening in a very 12H way (psychic connection, astral experiences):Composite
Aesculapia in Libra at 21d28
Valentine in Libra at 23d16
Pluto in Libra at 25d36
Mars in Libra at 25d36
Sun in Libra at 26d37 All this Trine: Composite Athanasia in Aquarius at 22d44 (Tr Uranus hit this exact day we met). Athanasia is the Greek word for "immortality". According to the website http://markandrewholmes.com/athanasia.html , the astrological significance of Athanasia seems to mean "that which lasts forever or which nobody can take away from you". His Venus in Libra at 21d41 I always felt that I was his and he was mine and on a soul level we would always be connected and belong to one another and that nobody can change that or truly take him from me or him from me. That was something that I always felt at a gut level, that our bond was truly unbreakable and something that would live on forever across time and space. His Moon in pisces conjuncts Athanasia and conjuncts my Moon in Pisces too. However, I NO longer have feelings for him, something has shifted permanently I feel this past year and I wonder if is because TR PLUTO is squaring our Composite Libra Stellium while it semisextiles Athanasia, my feelings for him are dead, its like that square from Pluto to the 12H stellium woke me up from this spell or slumber lol and now I am 100% sober, no longer trapped in this 12H of ours with him, free from it. Add pluto on my 2H cusp is super grounding. We met while Pluto was transiting my 12H allowing to me to surrender and fall in love completely all the way like I never again have been able to in my life. Yes I did experience true unconditional love at a soul level and the whole falling in love truly all the way thing BUT Neptune/12H stuff definitely has a shadow side!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL like I feel conflicted about venus been exalted in pisces bc is this love as real as it feels based on something real or on a fantasy! Now Venus in Taurus makes sense to me, that is love based on reality, not a fantasy. Again really digging pluto in the 2H, very grounding. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted February 04, 2020 11:59 AM
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mourningfire
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posted February 04, 2020 04:51 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Librapurr:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by mourningfire:
[b]Such a torturous aspect, which I don't have thankfully but my venus is in pisces so I "get" it. Addicted to the feeling of love. Venus-neptune individuals are very giving but to the point of being a martyr, to the point of deluding themselves. Describing Neptune as a "fog" has always felt so right for that reason. But Neptunian delusion is only noble in movies and literature. In reality, it's tragic. All that yearning and longing and love so easily misplaced, they unknowingly undo themselves. They can convince themselves of anything.
That’s sad. I wonder if Neptunian love can survive for a long term at all.[/B][/QUOTE] It's hard... the thing with Neptunians is that they see the good in everything, they see the potential in the other person or the relationship and they place this potential on a pedestal. That's why Neptunians or ppl with a lot of Pisces placements are considered naive. They're so enamored with this potential that they misinterpret it as smth tangible. They're nourished by the potential, by what "could be." So, they might not be able to reference concrete examples of how amazing and perfect and ideal this person is. But they're sure of it and this belief is equivalent to proof. There was an interesting thread on Neptunian love on here a few months ago where some users believed it could work out between 2 Neptunians to the point of it fully embodying the transcendental love that Neptune so deeply craves. But idk if I agree, like it might initially but I think it can get ugly very easily. It really depends.. I'm just very wary of Neptune in general being Neptunian myself (it's in my first house conjuncting my ascendant). IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted February 05, 2020 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
My dad has Venus square Neptune exact in mutable signs. He was married to my mom for 20 years before she passed; granted she was a Pisces Venus so that helped. Now tbh I have no idea what he is looking for in relationships. His Neptune is also in the 7th with his moon. It's also in mutable signs (Virgo Venus square Sag Neptune) so he flip flops back and forth between his feelings a lot.
I wonder if Virgo Venus flip flops by itself or because of Neptune. I have Virgo Venus with wide square (thanks it’s not exact!). Virgo Venus doesn’t know how to work with Neptune things since Virgo needs earthy secure things, definitions. It’s a big conflict. I feel Neptune things, but I don’t trust them. Sometimes I wish I could go farther in Neptune and have more fun with it.
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