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Aries23Degrees
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posted February 25, 2020 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In other words,is there a planet/s that seem to show more tangible, even visceral results when affected by transits?

I just realized that for me its natal Uranus when it comes to emotional/physical security (and by extension the parents). Not so much natal Saturn.

Add to that natal Mercury affects the way I express myself externally. With trans Jup on my Merc right now by conj and subsequent square to Mars/Moon for instance, I notice that I am talking/thinking more.

With Venus, I get more open socially. I attend more socials and am predisposed to conversing with people and making friends. And I guess that makes sense since Venus is the archetype social "neceties" planet.

I don't however link Venus to romantic attractions in my case. It has never happened that way.That prize goes (once again) to Uranus.

Without a doubt,transits to my natal Uranus increase the blood flow when it comes to romance,sex and all that's in between.

My infamous "**** " years began in 2005. This when trans Ura in Pisces was square natal Uran in Sag. Then they ended in 2009 when trans Uranus was safely widely square natal Uranus.

Admittedly with trans Nep on Uran from 2015 to present 2020, things have been less "busy".

But it's not that I haven't been open to love either. It's just that with Neptune in the mix, things haven't been clear with my conquests I.e do they want me? Are they into me? Am i into them? What do i like about them? Etc.

Luckily Neptune will space itself further from natal Uranus. My opportunities for romance are likely over for now. Unless I meet the occasional chart holder who activates my natal Uranus.

Suffice it to say however, my 3 fav are;

Mercury,Venus & Uranus.

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posted February 25, 2020 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm pretty sure I was born with an expired Venus. Even if all transiting planets and progressions were aspecting my natal Venus (and Mars since they conjunct each other) nothing would happen. Not that I care about the romance, but I do care about the money.. and it's in my 2nd H 😭

I have no "go to" planets especially when it comes to transits. Multiple transits have to activate more than one of my natal planets for something to happen and most often than not those transits are supported by progressions and SR chart.


If I had to choose one planet it would be Uranus but I'm pretty sure it's because it conjuncts my DSC from my 6th H. Whenever slower transiting planets enter the next house I always feel it.

Is any of these planets important in your chart? like being heavily aspected or unaspected, being a chart ruler, falling in a cardinal house, in conjunct with a house cusp etc?

It would be nice if everyone replying here could give this kind of details.

Also (out of topic) do you feel the effect of all the slower transiting planets on your natal planets? I'm talking about T.Planets making major aspects to your N.Planets.

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posted February 25, 2020 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto square Mercury - that was bad. Mercury rules my Moon/Venus/SN, maybe that's why.

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posted February 26, 2020 06:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
I'm pretty sure I was born with an expired Venus. Even if all transiting planets and progressions were aspecting my natal Venus (and Mars since they conjunct each other) nothing would happen. Not that I care about the romance, but I do care about the money.. and it's in my 2nd H 😭

I have no "go to" planets especially when it comes to transits. Multiple transits have to activate more than one of my natal planets for something to happen and most often than not those transits are supported by progressions and SR chart.

If I had to choose one planet it would be Uranus but I'm pretty sure it's because it conjuncts my DSC from my 6th H. Whenever slower transiting planets enter the next house I always feel it.

Is any of these planets important in your chart? like being heavily aspected or unaspected, being a chart ruler, falling in a cardinal house, in conjunct with a house cusp etc?

It would be nice if everyone replying here could give this kind of details.

Also (out of topic) do you feel the effect of all the slower transiting planets on your natal planets? I'm talking about T.Planets making major aspects to your N.Planets.


Hmmm..That's interesting. Not even Mars?

Well I can see how Uranus conj Dsc can be felt.Its on the angle and opposes the 1st house of the "self".

Things that oppose the 1st house often prompt us to "react". Whereas if they were in the 1st, we would instinctually "act".

So in your case,perhaps it's circumstances around you that prompt you to bring about change?

You could be forced to rearrange your life because of circumstances that you feel are beyond your control?

I actually know of someone with Uranus in 7th that was forced to move from his home country and seek refuge elsewhere as a refugee.

Another manifestation is that your early significant relationships(likely parents) were with people who were not reliable.

This fostered independence within you and going your own way because you couldn't
count on anyone else to have your back.

I have Mars conj Dsc from the 6th.My early significant relationships were with people who also fostered self-dependence too.

They were easily angered, tense and not the type to support or even understand emotional vulnerability. I was told to "act like a boy" a lot.(Mars)

With both of us,redressing that staunch conditioning is not easy. We may not know how to trust anyone else besides ourselves -let alone "commit" to them.

**Are any of my listed planets important?**

With me,Mercury is in the 9th conj the Mc. It's also the most aspected planet in the chart.

Uranus is in the 8th and parallel to Merc,Jup,Nep and Mc axis. So called "minor" longitudinal aspects.None that are major.

Venus is conj Sat in the 7th. It aspects Moon by trine, sextiles Merc and sextiles the Mc.

Do I feel the slower transiting planets on my natal planets? No.Not with all. Just the most profound are with the three listed.

As I said, I know with natal Uranus, emotional security issues come under the spotlight.

With Mercury it's mostly thinking a lot and starting threads like this. I started this thread during the Tran Jup/nat Merc conj in Cap in 10th.

With Venus, I know it affects the social life. The Saturn return was the worst for my social life. I felt like hiding myself underground coz I thought I was so "ugly".

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posted February 26, 2020 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
Pluto square Mercury - that was bad. Mercury rules my Moon/Venus/SN, maybe that's why.

Trans Pluto-Merc was not great for my head. Obsessive thoughts.

It's also the aspect that reveals secrets/ things that were initially overlooked, bearing more information than originally thought.

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posted February 26, 2020 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The big Planets: Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, and Pluto. Because these are transforming.

The other planets can on the the next thing before you know it.

The big Planets when challenging have me asking "when will this be over?"

I actually started tracking all the planets in my new planner. Except when the moon changes a constellation. I will track the new moons though.

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posted February 27, 2020 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hmmm..That's interesting. Not even Mars?

I see a difference to my energy levels, when Mars is positevely aspected I don't get tired as easily, so I move a bit more in general, when it's negatively aspected I get tired way too easy even without any apparent reason.

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Well I can see how Uranus conj Dsc can be felt.Its on the angle and opposes the 1st house of the "self".

Things that oppose the 1st house often prompt us to "react". Whereas if they were in the 1st, we would instinctually "act".

So in your case,perhaps it's circumstances around you that prompt you to bring about change?

You could be forced to rearrange your life because of circumstances that you feel are beyond your control?


Definately beyond my control, the problem is that those circumstances help me move backwards instead of moving forward both emotionally and practically, they're pointless if not harmful (usually out of nowhere) obstacles.

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I actually know of someone with Uranus in 7th that was forced to move from his home country and seek refuge elsewhere as a refugee.

Another manifestation is that your early significant relationships(likely parents) were with people who were not reliable.

This fostered independence within you and going your own way because you couldn't
count on anyone else to have your back.

I have Mars conj Dsc from the 6th.My early significant relationships were with people who also fostered self-dependence too.

They were easily angered, tense and not the type to support or even understand emotional vulnerability. I was told to "act like a boy" a lot.(Mars)

With both of us,redressing that staunch conditioning is not easy. We may not know how to trust anyone else besides ourselves -let alone "commit" to them.


My mom is like that, she's the main reason I wanted to be financially indepedent in order to get away from her. I would still be like that but the need wouldn't be so urgent. Imo this was a good thing, theoritically my mom was pushing towards what I wanted anyway, (even though it wasn't done in a nice way) practically though she was always the one holding me back in my life, of course I'm kind of allowing it due to some circumstances, but at first I wasn't like that, still I met obstacles out of nowhere so that I wouldn't move forward.

My dad and the people I lost while T.Pluto was on my N.Uranus were the ones helping me move in the right direction. Even from an astrological pov those people had earthy natal charts so, many of their planets trined my natal Uranus, Neptune, DSC and North Node. My mom on the other hand is an Aries Sun, Moon conjunct Mars 😔 squaring all the planets and points I mentioned.
No matter how I look at it, it doesn't make sense to me.

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**Are any of my listed planets important?**

With me,Mercury is in the 9th conj the Mc. It's also the most aspected planet in the chart.

Uranus is in the 8th and parallel to Merc,Jup,Nep and Mc axis. So called "minor" longitudinal aspects.None that are major.

Venus is conj Sat in the 7th. It aspects Moon by trine, sextiles Merc and sextiles the Mc.

Do I feel the slower transiting planets on my natal planets? No.Not with all. Just the most profound are with the three listed.

As I said, I know with natal Uranus, emotional security issues come under the spotlight.

With Mercury it's mostly thinking a lot and starting threads like this. I started this thread during the Tran Jup/nat Merc conj in Cap in 10th.

With Venus, I know it affects the social life. The Saturn return was the worst for my social life. I felt like hiding myself underground coz I thought I was so "ugly".


Mercury and Venus are pretty significant in your chart due to their house placements but then again so is your natal Saturn. Since they conjunct each other how can you separate them? How do you know it's Venus and not Saturn or both of them working when being activated by a transit? Or is the conjunction too wide?

I wonder if Uranus is felt because of its sudden, unexpected, shocking, weird and indepedent nature even when it doesn't play an important role in someone's natal chart?

Generally T.Saturn in 1st/7th H brings that feeling of being ugly. Thank N.Jupiter in my 2nd H, I have high self esteem and I'm fine till now but dear Saturn always finds a way to ***** you up. Had my first wrinkles when it opposed my ASC 😢.
Did changes happen to you appearance wise?
If yes did you feel better after T.Saturn (and Saturn return in your case) left your 7th H?

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posted February 28, 2020 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stawr:
The big Planets: Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, and Pluto. Because these are transforming.

The other planets can on the the next thing before you know it.

The big Planets when challenging have me asking "when will this be over?"

I actually started tracking all the planets in my new planner. Except when the moon changes a constellation. I will track the new moons though.


You are correct. With my Jupiter Sag, that's also quite significant.Big changes happen when an outer planet aspects Jupiter or transpersonal planets Saturn/Jupiter.

I have some trouble however with natal Neptune & Pluto. Never really understand what is happening. I can only speculate.

Like right now trans Uran is opp natal Pluto in 7th.I can't confirm the outcome of this transit at all.

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posted February 28, 2020 02:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@PlutOnian2

Mars is the planet in our chart that is the energy manifestion of what "freedom" feels like.

In that,positive transits to Mars can make us be empowered to "go for gold" coz we have the energy and therefore "choice".

Challenging aspects to it just make us act like we are on edge or tense. Saturn on Mars for instance may put us under pressure to "deliver".

I have Sat-Ven conj natally. True. The orb being 4 degrees. And I think the reason I differentiate them is because of the differences in energy I feel with each.

For instance, when trans Saturn was on Saturn at the height of my return, I wasn't lonely. I was still busy in my old job and working under huge pressure.

When I quit later that Dec,the following year brought a progressive feeling of loneliness-not to mention financial contraints(both Venus areas).

At the peak of my low(paradox), trans Sat was on top of natal Ven in August. I recall being invited to a party and my initial response was "No". But I capitulated and went.

When I was there, I felt so self conscious, so "ugly" and not confident at all. The irony ofcourse was that I was hit on a lot at that same party by eligible guys. But I was too in my feelings to notice or respond.

Appearance-wise,more grey hairs.But I would not say I have noticed more wrinkles. Perhaps my body got leaner during that time? Because I recall feeling like my clothes were more "lose" than usual.It could have been my mind playing tricks.

Good outcome from that is that I gained a friend.As self-conscious as this transit's effect was on me, I was still able to get on a social site and meet someone whom I am still very good friends with today.

I don't think I was looking for love. I was looking to feel less lonely and touch base with someone. My existing friendship circle felt so distant from me. Thats the other thing.

After the transit left, I did feel my spirits lift. There was more optimism and a positive outlook in general. How I felt about my looks greatly increased.

I think natal Sat-Ven makes a person quite serious.So there is attraction to "earthy" types or those who are going to be supportive to the placement holder in a tangible "let's relate as people one on one" kinda way.

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posted February 28, 2020 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Natal Venus opp Saturn
Transits to degrees around my Venus Taurus 12+(13) H5 opp Saturn r Scorpio 16+(17) aspect can bring a (false) sense of feeling cut-off and isolated from others, even tendency to feel kind of depressed/~abandoned during those days.

{Aries23D.. I am a VERY loyal person, and am a go-the-distance person in relationships.
Mars Cancer H7gem trine Juno r Scorpio H11;
Vesta Cancer H8 trine Saturn r Scorpio H11}

Transiting Moon
t-Moon crossing Saturn 16+ Scorpio, fleeting sad/inward
t-Moon over my Neptune r Libra 25+ H10, is more-sensitivity {personal, and sensitivity about 'the state of the world'-- get my box of tissues!! LOL}
Neptune r Libra 25+ H10, Merc Gem 27+ H7,
3rd House Cusp Aquarius 25+

t-Moon in the Gemini part of my Taurus 6th house,
for me can feel more-uncomfortable {even a sense of fleeting flu-like symptoms for that day or so}.
Sun is Gemini H6taur just-below Gem Desc

I enjoy the travels of Moon through the water signs.
Feels more restful.
Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces.
I have a tendency at times (unconsciously) to 'think' and 'be in my head'/intellectual;
the water transits help me to feel more integrated with my feelings.
I value those times very much.

{Gemini Sun 7+, and Mercury 27+;
Venus 12+ Taurus, Moon Virgo 24.56}
{CANCER- Mars 2+; H8 Vesta 17+, Vertex 24+ Uranus 25+, Jupiter 27+}

t Moon in Virgo and Capricorn are cleaning and organizing days.
t Moon in Aries I like the clean go-energy in this one; run errands.

Right now,
transiting PLUTO Cap 24+ (in H2 for me) is trine my Moon Virgo H(9).
t Saturn Cap is finally passing my Prog'Moon Cap.

There's an older generation of people experiencing t Pluto square their/our Neptune Libra.


My more prominent "go-to" place for my OWN chart transits ..
is usually my "IC Aries" 2.30.
Has been a sensitive place {square Mars Cancer}.
I'll be glad when t Chiron Aries has finalized its work on this point for me.

I've need some 'healing' on the home-front for sure.
And ghost-memories of the past.

t Jupiter in Capricorn
has now entered my 2nd House Cap until 3rd House 25+ Aqua.

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posted February 29, 2020 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mirage29:

Natal Venus opp Saturn
Transits to degrees around my Venus Taurus 12+(13) H5 opp Saturn r Scorpio 16+(17) aspect can bring a (false) sense of feeling cut-off and isolated from others, even tendency to feel kind of depressed/~abandoned during those days.

{Aries23D.. I am a VERY loyal person, and am a go-the-distance person in relationships.
Mars Cancer H7gem trine Juno r Scorpio H11;
Vesta Cancer H8 trine Saturn r Scorpio H11}

Transiting Moon
t-Moon crossing Saturn 16+ Scorpio, fleeting sad/inward
t-Moon over my Neptune r Libra 25+ H10, is more-sensitivity {personal, and sensitivity about 'the state of the world'-- get my box of tissues!! LOL}
Neptune r Libra 25+ H10, Merc Gem 27+ H7,
3rd House Cusp Aquarius 25+

t-Moon in the Gemini part of my Taurus 6th house,
for me can feel more-uncomfortable {even a sense of fleeting flu-like symptoms for that day or so}.
Sun is Gemini H6taur just-below Gem Desc

I enjoy the travels of Moon through the water signs.
Feels more restful.
Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces.
I have a tendency at times (unconsciously) to 'think' and 'be in my head'/intellectual;
the water transits help me to feel more integrated with my feelings.
I value those times very much.

{Gemini Sun 7+, and Mercury 27+;
Venus 12+ Taurus, Moon Virgo 24.56}
{CANCER- Mars 2+; H8 Vesta 17+, Vertex 24+ Uranus 25+, Jupiter 27+}

t Moon in Virgo and Capricorn are cleaning and organizing days.
t Moon in Aries I like the clean go-energy in this one; run errands.

Right now,
transiting PLUTO Cap 24+ (in H2 for me) is trine my Moon Virgo H(9).
t Saturn Cap is finally passing my Prog'Moon Cap.

There's an older generation of people experiencing t Pluto square their/our Neptune Libra.


My more prominent "go-to" place for my OWN chart transits ..
is usually my "IC Aries" 2.30.
Has been a sensitive place {square Mars Cancer}.
I'll be glad when t Chiron Aries has finalized its work on this point for me.

I've need some 'healing' on the home-front for sure.
And ghost-memories of the past.

t Jupiter in Capricorn
has now entered my 2nd House Cap until 3rd House 25+ Aqua.


I hear you on natal Venus-Sat opp & the fact that when hit by transits,it compounds the feeling of being "cut off".

Sat restricts the love we have for ourselves. And so when further facing transits from Jup for instance, it can really magnify that sense of "misalignment".

Interesting how Moon in water transits lets you ease off from living in your head. As I (who has the Moon in Cancer) finds the transit of earth/air Moons to be beneficial in establishing boundaries (earth)and emotional clarity(air).

Moon in Virgo transits especially when squaring my Sun, bring an opportunity to be clear about something. Usually a time when I am stressed about and the answer is on the other side.

Aries Ic- A family/ home environment that fostered emotional independence. And the subsequent Mars in Cancer square repeats the theme.

The Chiron in Aries suggests the body integrity (Aries) being made to feel vulnerable (Chiron).

I often think that when linked to the home-more especially when Aries/Mars is involved, it speaks of immature parents, temperamental upbringing/caretakers that were self-centred to a point where you felt you had to fend for yourself or even defend yourself from physical violence.

#sidenote. I struggled to understand my Father- until I learned he has Aries S.N. It explained a lot about his selfish actions.

Add to that Ura-Merc conj,Mars-Pluto conj. Drac Mars/Merc/Uran & Plu is in rebellious Aqua.And so he puts himself first.

This coincides with my own Aries Rising. The soul intent here is to put oneself first. To design ones own life according to what one wants etc. And to perhaps incarnate in this life without too much assistance from parents.

I was thinking that with your Aries 2.30 so close to the Aries point, that that could also be it? The soul intent here is to start your own family (Ic) or to find your own meaning to what "family"(Ic) is.

Part of the healing would be to not activate the past or "expect" said conditions to change. As they were like that when you were born.

Perhaps you need to branch out on your own?
And the supporting Mars in Cancer also echoes this by suggesting some hostility (Mars) with known connections(Cancer).

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posted February 29, 2020 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oopps wrong thread! Edited out my last reponse.

New Response:
I love the question you are asking Aries23 and am looking into it but find there is not one planet that I go, I have noticed that the ruler my 9H (the SUN) which conjuncts my MC is often activated when I make a big move and change in direction in life. I need to think about it more...

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{Thank you for your thoughtful commentary, Aries23D.
You were correct about my early home. }
My mother and dad were teenagers; mother had been spoiled and not ready to have children.
(She didn't really like children. Had 4 in a row.)
She was an unpredictably violent, aggressive and volatile person, impulse problems; dependency on uppers and downers.
I had to take house responsibility of care of my younger brothers and dad, early in life. The males had their own 'club'- (I was excluded).

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posted March 03, 2020 02:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Oopps wrong thread! Edited out my last reponse.

New Response:
I love the question you are asking Aries23 and am looking into it but find there is not one planet that I go, I have noticed that the ruler my 9H (the SUN) which conjuncts my MC is often activated when I make a big move and change in direction in life. I need to think about it more...


Is Leo on the cusp of the 8th?

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posted March 03, 2020 02:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mirage29:
{Thank you for your thoughtful commentary, Aries23D.
You were correct about my early home. }
My mother and dad were teenagers; mother had been spoiled and not ready to have children.
(She didn't really like children. Had 4 in a row.)
She was an unpredictably violent, aggressive and volatile person, impulse problems; dependency on uppers and downers.

I had to take house responsibility of care of my younger brothers and dad, early in life. The males had their own 'club'- (I was excluded).


Look at MMA fighter Conor McGregor who has Mars/Chiron in Aries and Mars ruling the 12th bouse cusp. He feels he has to be Mr "Tough" guy to be taken seriously as a man.

With Chiron in Aries/1st/Mars imo,there are often issues surrounding 'masculinity' /the expression of that or feeling like that energy is within us.

Masculine energy (Mars), asserts itself. So essentially Chiron in Aries/Mars may suggest a wound in being able to assert oneself.

Perhaps there is guilt that one will appear 'selfish'/ 'bossy' or 'territorial'?

Another possibility is that one sees the energy as oppositional to their core self. Like its not 'evolved' to behave in a manner that shows aggression or asserting oneself etc. It's "barbaric". This especially if Taurus/Lib are in the mix.

Sexuality issues also surface here. Passion/ going after what one really wants from a visceral POV is thwarted/ suppressed.

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Thanks Aries23..
Transiting-Chiron is in Aries now.
That is not my natal placement.
t Chiron sextiles my natal Chiron H2.

(I had been bullied, and 'absorbed' the abuse.)

I was ALWAYS the effective strong-one as it came to others,
and keeping my brothers safe as I could (from abuse).
Elementary school yard, I would defend the defenseless against bullies.

In middle-school, for a while, I had the reputation to be able to stop fights almost instantly-- in the lunchrooms where lunch monitors failed to quash the chaos-- and diffused fist-fights and brawls in hallways.

Later, on jobs, had ability to see, sort, and solve complaints. (Libra MC).

Guess I owed my 'training' to mom.

Had the responsibility to keep her happy, calm, deflected. Find the peace. Keep an eye on her so she wouldn't fly-off into rages.

It was a burden to have to bear that responsibility. I "took" some of the abuse by deflected it OFF others, and onto my own self.

With t Chiron in my H4 aries..
I feel more 'vulnerable' and less able to defend.

I think I'm just tired now..
tired of all the toxicities and fighting..
So Much Going On in This World.

Feels defenseless...
(I have a sense of overwhelm..)
it's like a grief.

Again, thank you for your reply.
You do interesting threads.

I'll look up that MMA fighter to learn more about them.

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posted March 09, 2020 01:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mirage29:
Thanks Aries23..
Transiting-Chiron is in Aries now.
That is not my natal placement.
t Chiron sextiles my natal Chiron H2.

(I had been bullied, and 'absorbed' the abuse.)

I was ALWAYS the effective strong-one as it came to others,
and keeping my brothers safe as I could (from abuse).
Elementary school yard, I would defend the defenseless against bullies.

In middle-school, for a while, I had the reputation to be able to stop fights almost instantly-- in the lunchrooms where lunch monitors failed to quash the chaos-- and diffused fist-fights and brawls in hallways.

Later, on jobs, had ability to see, sort, and solve complaints. (Libra MC).

Guess I owed my 'training' to mom.

Had the responsibility to keep her happy, calm, deflected. Find the peace. Keep an eye on her so she wouldn't fly-off into rages.

It was a burden to have to bear that responsibility. I "took" some of the abuse by deflected it OFF others, and onto my own self.

With t Chiron in my H4 aries..
I feel more 'vulnerable' and less able to defend.

I think I'm just tired now..
tired of all the toxicities and fighting..
So Much Going On in This World.

Feels defenseless...
(I have a sense of overwhelm..)
it's like a grief.

Again, thank you for your reply.
You do interesting threads.

I'll look up that MMA fighter to learn more about them.

*Please no quote*


I always think that If we don't find peace with family, we should cut them off OR establish more distance.

I though Chiron waa natal. Sorry. Lol. But still, Aries on the Ic suggests that you are likely to be independent from them in some way more representative of your own definition of "emotional security".

I have Moon conj Ic from 3rd and the ruler(Moon) opp Merc in 9th and square Mars in 6th.

I may move away from home(even abroad) because of a job. Infact I think that this is likely. The moon is 12 houses away from the house it rules and aspects Merc in the 9th🤷🏾‍♂️


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