posted April 20, 2020 07:30 PM            

If some other information helps, I can put my chart up if you would like. I have Capricorn in the 7th house along w Lilith, Neptune, and my Moon. Thank you in advance to whoever replies!

posted April 20, 2020 08:58 PM            

Without realizing, you may be idealizing {Nept H7, H5 Sun and Merc square Nep} what you think you envision about your partners.

I've observed Moon Caps in 7th operating as the Fixers in relationships, and problem solvers for others. Just make sure you're not being taken advantage of, or sacrificing to the choice of a less-partner just because you want the companionship. It's one thing that you have the competence and like to 'do' things for others-- but then, if you're beginning to feel "used".. then communicate it. Don't let that go on. Can lead to unhappiness.

Mutuality. Perhaps, you need to make sure (in the longer term) that you BOTH like the same kinds of things. That your interests are genuinely "shared" and not feigned /faked) in order to stay 'liked' and accepted by the other-- especially during times you feel more lonely.

If you notice that he is not 'doing for YOU', then *red flag*. If it's all about 'him'??.. then that's out of balance. Make sure that YOU are part of the Equation.

You have beautiful balanced supportive earth trine. Your Neptune in 7th can be an angel of mercy.

Lilith in your 7th???
is in her Higher expression.
She is able to view relationships from a more emotionally detached viewpoint. She is able to observe in a more impersonal light. She would help with being able to inspire the 'other' in vocational interests, projects, etc. Would also ensure the relationship's mutuality. Helps bring the Balance.

Lilith in the 7th(nat.Libra) is her best position for working with a marriage partner. She is in Dignity in the sign of Capricorn (co-rules with Saturn, and operates with a Saturn-type effect).
She can be impersonal, and negotiates whatever emotional-static going on.

posted April 21, 2020 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
I'd say 'flow' with it. SN in 7th can tend to want to give-and-do all for your Other, without noticing whether your devotion is being reciprocated, or your interests truly shared and supported.

Without realizing, you may be idealizing {Nept H7, H5 Sun and Merc square Nep} what you think you envision about your partners.

I've observed Moon Caps in 7th operating as the Fixers in relationships, and problem solvers for others. Just make sure you're not being taken advantage of, or sacrificing to the choice of a less-partner just because you want the companionship. It's one thing that you have the competence and like to 'do' things for others-- but then, if you're beginning to feel "used".. then communicate it. Don't let that go on. Can lead to unhappiness.

Mutuality. Perhaps, you need to make sure (in the longer term) that you BOTH like the same kinds of things. That your interests are genuinely "shared" and not feigned /faked) in order to stay 'liked' and accepted by the other-- especially during times you feel more lonely.

If you notice that he is not 'doing for YOU', then *red flag*. If it's all about 'him'??.. then that's out of balance. Make sure that YOU are part of the Equation.

You have beautiful balanced supportive earth trine. Your Neptune in 7th can be an angel of mercy.

Lilith in your 7th???
is in her Higher expression.
She is able to view relationships from a more emotionally detached viewpoint. She is able to observe in a more impersonal light. She would help with being able to inspire the 'other' in vocational interests, projects, etc. Would also ensure the relationship's mutuality. Helps bring the Balance.

Lilith in the 7th(nat.Libra) is her best position for working with a marriage partner. She is in Dignity in the sign of Capricorn (co-rules with Saturn, and operates with a Saturn-type effect).
She can be impersonal, and negotiates whatever emotional-static going on.

Hope this helps.
Wishing You True Love

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I am going to try 'going with the flow.' I acc had two questions if you're able to answer:

1. I know we talked about flow but I find that even when it comes to dating, i've been told im a little stand-off ish to admirers. Is there an aspect that is controlling me like that and how can I relieve it to become more 'open' to someone approaching me?

2. I know Juno represents the type of partner u might meet. I think my Juno is Aquarius sitting in the 8th house. Does that mean my partner will be more 'distant?' Cause although I feel like I do have aspects that make me wants space... I keep hearing the word 'long-distance' and idk if I would be okay with that.