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ParallelToucan
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posted May 19, 2020 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ParallelToucan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, so here's the deal. The deal is that I have no idea what the "deal" is with this placement since I don't really understand it myself. Apparently my entire life I've been shut off from people and I didn't even know it. I've just felt like people have had a problem with me my entire life. Especially when I receive such cold or unfulfilling reactions from them. So I just decided to adopt this "**** others if that's how they want to treat me" outlook. Honestly, part of me hardly cares but I guess I need to work on it. I'm just curious as to what "it" is?? Because I haven't a damn single clue. I don't get it. An astrologer described it as someone giving me a candy bar or something and then telling me, "Oh, that'll be $5" or something like that when people with this placement would be like wtf??? "You just handed ME a candy bar, so shouldn't it be free"? Also, why am I so prone to being taken advantage of by other people? Why is it that I feel like I have to always do everything? What the hell are people "seeing" of "me" that's so "off" to them? I don't get it. Not only do they not understand it, but neither do I, so it's like the blind leading the blind over here. I don't get it? Wtf is up with this placement and how do I obliterate it from my life so I don't have to deal with it any longer? I'm so tired of this... "OH, I just don't understand that person" or "What the hell is wrong with you?" type of "vibes" that I'm seemingly receiving from everyone when I haven't even freaking done anything to anyone!!!

I'm also a Sun Square Moon, so I don't know how to deal with these 2 types of energies at all. It's like I don't really even know who I am at times.

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posted May 19, 2020 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this, but I only experience what you've described, part of the time. I have Moon/Venus inconjunct Uranus/ascendant.

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posted May 19, 2020 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ParallelToucan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
I have this, but I only experience what you've described, part of the time. I have Moon/Venus inconjunct Uranus/ascendant.

I don't know when/where I experience this since I can't have an out of body experience. Apparently I've been doing "this" my entire life though. I don't understand how I come off to everyone or what I'm doing wrong in order to fix it though. It doesn't feel unnatural to me if that makes sense, yet, I still receive strange reactions from people sometimes....

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posted May 20, 2020 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ParallelToucan:
I don't know when/where I experience this since I can't have an out of body experience. Apparently I've been doing "this" my entire life though. I don't understand how I come off to everyone or what I'm doing wrong in order to fix it though. It doesn't feel unnatural to me if that makes sense, yet, I still receive strange reactions from people sometimes....

I understand what you mean, with your candy bar analogy. I'm not going to get into it right now, because I already vented to friends yesterday, about how I've been feeling over the past few weeks.

You feel that with everyone? I find that I can be at odds with different people, over different things at different times, but not everyone at the same time.

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posted May 20, 2020 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How the aspect is read and interpreted also depends on whether it is above or below the horizon.

Moon is subjective, feeling-based receptivity to others, subjective needs; Asc the functioning human self. So all Moon-Asc contacts/aspects relate to sensitivity to others and self. The hard aspects indicate points of over-sensitivity or tendency for imbalanced emotional awareness. So the feelings tend to get over-emphasized, (as with Sun square Moon) because it is hard to set them aside, leading to some type of reactionism.

But as I've said before, and especially because of the tight 3° orb of quincunxes, it is quite possible if your Asc is tightened to pinpoint accuracy it may move it out of this aspect. There are a number of ways lunar energies can set up tendencies for imbalanced patterns.

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posted May 20, 2020 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ParallelToucan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
How the aspect is read and interpreted also depends on whether it is above or below the horizon.

Moon is subjective, feeling-based receptivity to others, subjective needs; Asc the functioning human self. So all Moon-Asc contacts/aspects relate to sensitivity to others and self. The hard aspects indicate points of over-sensitivity or tendency for imbalanced emotional awareness. So the feelings tend to get over-emphasized, (as with Sun square Moon) because it is hard to set them aside, leading to some type of reactionism.

But as I've said before, and especially because of the tight 3° orb of quincunxes, it is quite possible if your Asc is tightened to pinpoint accuracy it may move it out of this aspect. There are a number of ways lunar energies can set up tendencies for imbalanced patterns.


Look man, you might as well be speaking Chinese to me. How about I send you my chart and you help me out? I can send ya $5 or w/e for all your trouble too? Let me know. Thanks. Only thing I'm trying to do is tackle this thing head on, literally (I'm a Moon in Aries, Scorpio Asc), so this doesn't have to be a negativity within my life any longer. I get too many strange reactions from people, I don't know what the Hell is going through people's heads when they "see" or "view" me. Whatever the Hell that even means. I have no clue. I'm completely baffled at this point. All this time I thought I was a normal person just like everyone else, yet, I'm treated like I'm some kind of damned science experiment or something.... just help me... that's all I'm asking... as far as your "description" goes, I have no idea what you're talking about. You're going to have to speak to me as if you were writing a Dummy's Guide to Moon Quincunx Ascendant here. I don't care if you have to use lines, stick figures, and arrows with bright colors, just get the point across to me so I can actually implement a strategy to get past this bs.... thanks...let me know if that's the route you want to take.

Also, another question I have is, do you think God gave me this Quincunx that way I wouldn't be that much of an a$$hole to people? Don't answer that. Please, just...… just don't. The only time I get to actually express my feelings and be honest with people is over the internet. Please don't spoil my fun. Just let me know if you want to look at my chart. Please and thank you.

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posted May 20, 2020 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ParallelToucan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
I understand what you mean, with your candy bar analogy. I'm not going to get into it right now, because I already vented to friends yesterday, about how I've been feeling over the past few weeks.

You feel that with everyone? I find that I can be at odds with different people, over different things at different times, but not everyone at the same time.


I understand. I don't know if I feel it with everyone. Honestly I can't tell. I just know that "something" is there with some people. I'm also a Moon/Mars Square Neptune, and Mercury inconjunct Neptune. I can "feel" A LOT. I feel like a psychic sponge almost, except sometimes I may not pick up the accurate feelings I guess. I'm essentially trying to "tune" my radio to the correct station, to where I can hear everything clearly and also react in a healthy manner that I feel everyone should. Do you think it could be that I'm too nice? Maybe I just don't give a phuck enough to care about this placement and I'm too lazy. I don't know....Venus in Taurus and Venus Trine Neptune. I'm mostly Neptune and Jupiter. I like to live in my own head but if it's negatively effecting other people then I need to know what I can "do" about this whole fiasco.

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posted May 20, 2020 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ParallelToucan:
I understand. I don't know if I feel it with everyone. Honestly I can't tell. I just know that "something" is there with some people. I'm also a Moon/Mars Square Neptune, and Mercury inconjunct Neptune. I can "feel" A LOT. I feel like a psychic sponge almost, except sometimes I may not pick up the accurate feelings I guess. I'm essentially trying to "tune" my radio to the correct station, to where I can hear everything clearly and also react in a healthy manner that I feel everyone should. Do you think it could be that I'm too nice? Maybe I just don't give a phuck enough to care about this placement and I'm too lazy. I don't know....Venus in Taurus and Venus Trine Neptune. I'm mostly Neptune and Jupiter. I like to live in my own head but if it's negatively effecting other people then I need to know what I can "do" about this whole fiasco.

Some people had a problem with me when I was too quiet, or "too nice". Some have a problem now that I'm more opinionated. It can change depending on people's moods, beliefs, you know? I think it happens to a lot of people. You can't please everyone.

I do remember venting once, years ago: "I could walk into the same room as a serial killer, and people would look at me and say, 'She's too nice, there's something wrong there.'"


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posted May 20, 2020 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ParallelToucan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Some people had a problem with me when I was too quiet, or "too nice". Some have a problem now that I'm more opinionated. It can change depending on people's moods, beliefs, you know? I think it happens to a lot of people. You can't please everyone.

I do remember venting once, years ago: "I could walk into the same room as a serial killer, and people would look at me and say, 'She's too nice, there's something wrong there.'"



Are you suggesting that the serial killers sociopathic tendencies are not overriding your Moon Quincunx Ascendant? I feel as if you feel like people think you're a sociopath or something. If that's the case, then that's exactly how I feel too at times. I don't even feel human, I feel like an alien... but maybe that's too much Neptune and Jupiter though... I don't know....

*Edit* Lol! I just now received the picture. Yeah, I know right? I feel like I should handing people candy or something from some of the reactions that I receive. Like, "Does thouest want thy to shine thee boots dear lad?" "Let thouest know. I am infinitely at your service dear sir." That's literally how I feel sometimes. Like I should be giving people a pamphlet for how I am or something.... it's a ridiculous and silly feeling to have …..like, literally, I'm not even trying to even do literally anything to these people. At all...

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posted May 20, 2020 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ParallelToucan:
Are you suggesting that the serial killers sociopathic tendencies are not overriding your Moon Quincunx Ascendant? I feel as if you feel like people think you're a sociopath or something. If that's the case, then that's exactly how I feel too at times. I don't even feel human, I feel like an alien... but maybe that's too much Neptune and Jupiter though... I don't know....

No, I don't feel that way. Not a sociopath. I don't really know now.

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posted May 20, 2020 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ParallelToucan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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No, I don't feel that way. Not a sociopath. I don't really know now.

I know how you feel. Almost like you want to walk up to these people and hand them 50 cents or something and then tell them that everything is going to be okay. (OK, no not really....but you probably know what I mean though). I remember this one dude I was working with I could just feel him staring at me. and I was just doing my job like normal, so I was like... alrite, screw it, I'm going to look up and look this dude in the eyes to try to understand what the hell is going on. It got awkward within like 5 seconds and I just was like inside of my head I was like "What the phuck was that all about, that was weird." and then just went about my "business" as normal. I don't know if I was sprouting a unicorn horn from my forehead or what. Like I said up above. Completely baffled by this. I'm glad that you and I are having these conversations too because I feel like I need to express this to people, to someone, and hopefully people can understand where I'm coming from now. Like, do I appear absolutely cold to people or something? Like for Heaven's sake, I hope people don't think I'm going to go stab an animal or something. That's the last message I want to send to people.

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posted May 20, 2020 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ParallelToucan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
No, I don't feel that way. Not a sociopath. I don't really know now.

Hey, I don't know if this will help or not. But I just Googled "famous people with Moon Quincunx Asc" and here are some of the people that have it: Bill Burr, Rob Schneider, Eva Longoria, Bryan Cranston, OJ Simpson, Carl Sagan, Audrina Patridge, Weird Al Yankovic, Megan Fox, Adam Samberg, Adam Goldberg, ... you know what? I'll just provide the link lol... if you hover over their pictures, it shows some chart details too.

https://astro-charts.com/persons/aspect/Moon-Quincunx-Ascendant/

I hope this helps. I still can't find anything "abnormal" while looking at these people though. I still don't know what the hell people are talking about that's so abnormal with us. They look like very laid back regular people to me.....anyways, umm... "good luck" I guess. "You're going to 'need it'" (wasn't sarcasm in the least bit)

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posted May 24, 2020 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ParallelToucan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Still trying to figure out the best way to tackle this placement or aspect. I have been trying to not think as much and just allow myself to be able to acquire a subconscious/second nature feel to literally everything. I always find myself back in the conscious realm though when I don't want to be. I wish my mind would just let me be.

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