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sis
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posted June 05, 2020 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My nephew, 10 years old now is going through transit Pluto opposite Moon.

His father called me today. He was very worried.

She has developed an obsession with death. She creates scenarios like the house will burn, or she says things like you moved the kitty and now I will die... She keeps asking about death...

My brother told me that she has lost all her friends because of her me first, controlling attitudes and being possessive of them, becoming jealous...

Several years ago she was taken to a pedagogue. and was diagnosed as having mild ocd ( %80 of my relatives have ocd ).. anyways, that passed...
My brother is considering taking her to a psychiatrist. but none of us want her to be medicated... just because she is obsessed with the idea of death... she has an active imagination (mercury - mars in Aqua conjuncting Neptune - also she is a Pisces conjunct Uranus )...

In her natal chart she has Pluto in Cap in the 9th house. which explains her interest in the idea of death...

I believe transit Pluto opposing her natal Cancer Moon is the cause... But I am not sure how to help ?

Can you please give me insights on how to help a child going through transit Pluto opposite moon ?

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posted June 06, 2020 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 06, 2020 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nomad-monad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There seems to be many facets here to be adressed so it would probably be easier for people to help if there was a chart to look at.

With an interest in death I believe the interest should be 'satisfied' in the sense that her questions should be genuinely appreciated as a desire to learn something. The problem might be other peoples fear of death not jiving with her own interest, rather than her interest being bad per se. It is often said that a pathology 'lies in the relation, not in the person'.

Of course this does not mean that destructive behavior should be accepted, but this is a different thing than a topical interest.

With Moon in Cancer, Sun conjunct Uranus in Pisces and Mercury conjunct Neptune in Aquarius it sounds like the child could be tapped into extra-dimensional energies. These are not unreal, just not accessible to the normally 'grounded' consciousness.

That could pose some real issues, both in terms of her self-understanding as well as parental/social understanding of her - the risk is that help that is called for is contra-productive.

I would take her to therapy if things don't improve. But I would be extremely careful about who is chosen for that task, as most of the psychological establishment have a very poor understanding of issues stemming from her astrological configurations - especially psychiatrists.

A better (?) alternative if the parents are open to it (how is their synastry with the child?) would be for them to speak to a psychic or astrologer with VERY good understanding of how to deal with children with this configuration. That will probably require some careful research in order to find such a person. You might want to contact people with significant experience such as Demetra George etc and ask them how to proceed. Don't be afraid to try making contacts like this.

I would recommend to the parents that they see it as a learning journey for themselves as well, and I would emphasize that their child is likely extremely gifted, but that it might be challenging at times to help the child channel this giftedness in a healthy manner.


Note: I am no expert by any means on this topic.

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posted June 06, 2020 07:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by nomad-monad:
There seems to be many facets here to be adressed so it would probably be easier for people to help if there was a chart to look at.

With an interest in death I believe the interest should be 'satisfied' in the sense that her questions should be genuinely appreciated as a desire to learn something. The problem might be other peoples fear of death not jiving with her own interest, rather than her interest being bad per se. It is often said that a pathology 'lies in the relation, not in the person'.

Of course this does not mean that destructive behavior should be accepted, but this is a different thing than a topical interest.

With Moon in Cancer, Sun conjunct Uranus in Pisces and Mercury conjunct Neptune in Aquarius it sounds like the child could be tapped into extra-dimensional energies. These are not unreal, just not accessible to the normally 'grounded' consciousness.

That could pose some real issues, both in terms of her self-understanding as well as parental/social understanding of her - the risk is that help that is called for is contra-productive.

I would take her to therapy if things don't improve. But I would be extremely careful about who is chosen for that task, as most of the psychological establishment have a very poor understanding of issues stemming from her astrological configurations - especially psychiatrists.

A better (?) alternative if the parents are open to it (how is their synastry with the child?) would be for them to speak to a psychic or astrologer with VERY good understanding of how to deal with children with this configuration. That will probably require some careful research in order to find such a person. You might want to contact people with significant experience such as Demetra George etc and ask them how to proceed. Don't be afraid to try making contacts like this.

I would recommend to the parents that they see it as a learning journey for themselves as well, and I would [b]emphasize that their child is likely extremely gifted, but that it might be challenging at times to help the child channel this giftedness in a healthy manner.


Note: I am no expert by any means on this topic.[/B]


thank you so much ! She is a very intelligent child and I also believe that she is gifted. I will talk to her parents and share your insights...

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posted June 06, 2020 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to post her natal chart but it has been ages since the last time I posted a chart. I do not have a photobucket account anymore. Tried to find updated info on how to upload charts - could not.. sorry about that...

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posted June 10, 2020 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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