posted June 15, 2020 07:55 AM            

But when I compare it to my sister, who is constantly taking her children to fun hotels and creating magical experiences, I basically look like a terrible mother.

My Venus is in gemini in the 4th house, exactly conjunct my sun/moon midpoint, trine ascendant and square Saturn.

Hers is in cancer, conjunct vertex, but in the 8th house.

posted June 15, 2020 08:37 AM            

Venus in Gemini suggests that you enjoy exchanging ideas, learning new things and interacting with people who stimulate you with new ideas and perspectives.

When in the 4th house however (the lowest part of the chart), it may suggest that you often keep your thoughts and words to yourself. Or only share your opinion with a handful of people.

With Venus there, those who are privy to that are typically those who know you more intimately or live with you.

Perhaps people don't know how talkative you can get or how wide your imagination stretches because you are so quiet?

Look for the cusp of Taurus/Libra in your chart. Those areas of life are likely to be kept very private and personal.

posted June 15, 2020 12:48 PM            

I use to be a lot closer when I was younger.

As I got older I learned you can't depend on family and your better off just doing things yourself.

When you need them they can't help you and when they want something from you its not
an equal exchange.

Over the weekend my aunt was expecting me to spend the entire day with her in exchange for a box of tomatoes.

I'm thinking are you serious? I'd be happy to help when I have free time but right now I have other priorities.

She was also expecting me to open up and fix her her TV.. I told her no way!!! there's a risk of electrocution.

That's just Part 1 I could write a comedic novel about the rest of my family.

Anyway there not worth the time bothering anymore.

posted June 15, 2020 02:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
The 4th house isn't always necessarily about family. But what your sense of "community" is.

Venus in Gemini suggests that you enhoy exchanging ideas, learning new thimgs and interacting with people who stimulate you with new ideas and perspectives.

When in the 4th house however (the lowest part of the chart), it may suggest that you often keep your thoughts and words to yourself. Or only share your opinuon with a handful of people.

With Venus there, those who are privy to that are typically those who know you more intimately or live with you.

Perhaps people dont know how talkative you can get or how wide your imagination stretches because you are so quiet.

Look for the cusp of Taurus/Libra in your chart. Those areas of life are likely to be kept very private and personal.

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That's a remarkably on the money description Aries23 thank you! I am very aware that people think they know me (leo moon lol) but actually there are very very few people who do.

Incidentally, the one who currently knows the real me the most has his North Node exactly conjunct my Venus, and his DC conjuncts my IC (4deg).

My favourite people to hang out with are ones I can discuss big things with, but it takes a long time to work out if I can trust them enough to feel safe (4th house).

I often feel judged by my family and so instinctively push back from them - as a kid I wouldn't confide in my mum, for example.

posted June 15, 2020 04:45 PM            

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posted June 15, 2020 09:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes, love of family in the same way that a Cancer Venus is.

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posted June 15, 2020 09:54 PM            

I'm very family-oriented, but quite independent. I moved across the country at 23 to begin a new life. I didn't know anyone in my new city, so that was very scary.

The odd thing is that although I'm close to my family, I have never been homesick. Even as a child, I never experienced homesickness despite being away from home for the first time at 8 years old.