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Topic: What makes a person unlikeable or gives a bad impression/reputation?
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NxNW Knowflake Posts: 56 From: northeast, u.s. Registered: May 2020
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posted June 17, 2020 07:20 PM
You know how some people just come off the wrong way, even though they don't mean to? Like, no matter what they say, it gets received poorly even though their intentions were good? Meanwhile, it may seem like some people can do no wrong? I feel like the Ascendent and the MC and 10th-House might play a role in this. I'm thinking of politicians and public figures especially.... For example, someone I know has a Cap Asc conjunct Dejanira. I remember reading that Dejanira in the 1-H makes you appear like a victim or vulnerable to attack? Like, they can't appear to be strong/authoritative without it seeming too forced, like they're desperately trying to compensate for appearing weak. No matter what he says, people seem to take it the wrong way. He has always been viewed as the "evil boss" and has been viciously criticised even when he has tried to be friendly (he also gets criticised for trying to be "friendly" and having that seem super "fake")...the rest of his chart is heavily Sagittarian and he's actually a decent guy but just rubs people the wrong way, it seems. What aspects/signs/placements have you noticed that also gives this effect? IP: Logged |
UnaspectedMoon Newflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted June 18, 2020 05:55 AM
My entire chart, apparently. No one likes me except for the rare types of people who are drawn to outcasts. I have a lot of squares in my chart. I think it may be chiron conjunct my Asc in cancer. People tend to think I’m dumb even though on written tests I tend to outdo people. I’m not very talkative and when I do talk people find me irritating. It’s annoying because I know what the outcome will be when people tell me I need to speak up more. They will just tell me to shut up. Probably because I’m a perfectionist and always correct people! Haha! I have mercury squaring four planets(Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, Saturn) which also makes it difficult for me to have conversations with people even though I’m very thoughtful and analytical. I actually managed to stay out of the way as a kid and didn’t get bullied often. Just got weird glances and glares from academically competitive students. But now as an adult I’m facing a more upfront type of negativity. People have been hostile just after looking at me. I think it must be something in the transits. I’m paying more attention to generational planets transiting through the chart because those can be just as influential as natal aspects. I think the transiting position of Pluto may really affect how people see someone. IP: Logged |
MilaBirkin Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Cordoba, Argentina Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 18, 2020 04:57 PM
Mars in 10th house. Maybe ruler of 1rst in 10th as well. I've noticed that people who have Sun conjunct Saturn tend to look like a very funny comedian or clown, Jim Carrey-style (or at least that's how the world perceives these people), or like someone who is very serious, scary, and mean. Maybe the last one always looks like the bad guy, even if they do good things. I think Mars, Saturn and Pluto has to do with this. Aquarius and Pisces are always misunderstood. I've also noticed that people who has Ascendant in Libra or Cancer tend to look 'innocent' and kind even if they are the opposite of innocent and kind. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 962 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted June 18, 2020 09:15 PM
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LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 1301 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted June 21, 2020 02:23 AM
Mars or Saturn square or conjunct the MC, Mars squaring Mercury, for people who give bad impression.People who can do no wrong, Venus trine, sextile, conjunct the ascendant/MC, Jupiter conjunct, trine, sextile the ascendant MC. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 2172 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted June 21, 2020 03:36 AM
Pluto in the first house. I have it conjunct my moon there, it drawls negative to you for some reason. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 2172 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted June 21, 2020 03:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by MilaBirkin: Mars in 10th house. Maybe ruler of 1rst in 10th as well. I've noticed that people who have Sun conjunct Saturn tend to look like a very funny comedian or clown, Jim Carrey-style (or at least that's how the world perceives these people), or like someone who is very serious, scary, and mean. Maybe the last one always looks like the bad guy, even if they do good things. I think Mars, Saturn and Pluto has to do with this. Aquarius and Pisces are always misunderstood. I've also noticed that people who has Ascendant in Libra or Cancer tend to look 'innocent' and kind even if they are the opposite of innocent and kind.
I don't have Libra as an ascendant but I do have it predominately in my first house. Some people say l look innocent and some say I look mischievous but I also have pluto conjunct my moon in Libra in my first house. Depends on the person but I always chalked it up to people throwing their junk on me with the mischievous thing with my pluto in my first. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 4985 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 21, 2020 05:43 AM
I feel that anything Pluto will cause a lot of projection! People will throw THEIR trash on you and while at it, claim YOU’RE the idiot! Never fails. Best is to stay true to yourself, know the truth as far as what concerns you and shrug the rest off. Can’t change people but you can change you IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 1322 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 21, 2020 05:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: I feel that anything Pluto will cause a lot of projection! People will throw THEIR trash on you and while at it, claim YOU’RE the idiot! Never fails. Best is to stay true to yourself, know the truth as far as what concerns you and shrug the rest off. Can’t change people but you can change you
I love the way that was written! IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 21, 2020 07:04 PM
Saturn conjunct ASC: People always think I'm reserved at first until I'm able to show my Libra Moon, Venus and other more bubbly qualities.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 2840 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 22, 2020 11:31 PM
I have Venus and Mercury in Aries in the 10th house and I've been told I can come off as aggressive. I'm not surprised. I'm a Cancer rising and my moon is in Capricorn. I've been told I can come off as cold or rude unintentionally. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 128263 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 25, 2020 11:55 PM
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Somna7H Knowflake Posts: 1286 From: East India Company Registered: Apr 2018
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posted June 26, 2020 02:01 AM
People always take me in a wrong way. I'm not sure what's the problem, what is the reason etc. Chiron Conjunct Asc. May be people think I'm ugly. Most are beauty lovers in the world. 😞------------------ My Chat : http://imgur.com/hCRDawD IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1914 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 26, 2020 06:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by UnaspectedMoon: My entire chart, apparently. No one likes me except for the rare types of people who are drawn to outcasts. I have a lot of squares in my chart. I think it may be chiron conjunct my Asc in cancer. People tend to think I’m dumb even though on written tests I tend to outdo people. I’m not very talkative and when I do talk people find me irritating. It’s annoying because I know what the outcome will be when people tell me I need to speak up more. They will just tell me to shut up. Probably because I’m a perfectionist and always correct people! Haha! I have mercury squaring four planets(Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, Saturn) which also makes it difficult for me to have conversations with people even though I’m very thoughtful and analytical. I actually managed to stay out of the way as a kid and didn’t get bullied often. Just got weird glances and glares from academically competitive students. But now as an adult I’m facing a more upfront type of negativity. People have been hostile just after looking at me. I think it must be something in the transits. I’m paying more attention to generational planets transiting through the chart because those can be just as influential as natal aspects. I think the transiting position of Pluto may really affect how people see someone.
where is your moon sign? i assume that it has to do with your moon rather than your mercury, which i find it fantastic with the aspects of 4 planets. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1914 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 26, 2020 06:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: I feel that anything Pluto will cause a lot of projection! People will throw THEIR trash on you and while at it, claim YOU’RE the idiot! Never fails. Best is to stay true to yourself, know the truth as far as what concerns you and shrug the rest off. Can’t change people but you can change you
humans tend to scapegoat on people whose vibes resonates with the energy they are projecting. it is like the planet person is a container for all the peoples energy representing the planets theme. so if someone has pluto in H1 it may feel naturally to project repressed plutonian energy on the PLUTO H1 person. that goes for anything positive or negative. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 483 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted June 26, 2020 12:42 PM
I would never think before someone’s personality could spoil the pretty look. Taurus AC, she has the nice features. But once her character/personally shows off, you just don’t see it anymore, wanna run. Surprisingly, it’s even for men. Her Sun square Saturn and NN. I saw a lot of people with worse personality, but I think it never stood out that much and quickly. Aquarius/Aries, she could be aggressive, but in the same time always complaining, put herself as a victim. She is angry because people don’t feel sorry for her and don’t trust her, but it’s hard to do it.. Especially, with all that bs what’s coming out her mouth about everybody else (Mercury sq Pluto opposite Nessus) IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea Knowflake Posts: 1252 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted June 26, 2020 03:43 PM
Raw honesty with little fluff to cushion it for more sensitive types often causes instant dislike. Someone who is truthful to a fault can be gross to people who live in lala land about who they are and their surroundings. People hate feeling exposed or feeling like someone could expose them. People get angry when confronted with the truth. So, placements and aspects that indicate honesty could do it. Sun = the flashlight on the truth/secrets, especially when touching someone else's 12th house or 8th house. Pluto digs through the trash of the human psyche to get to the heart (truth) of the matter. People project onto Plutonians IP: Logged |
MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 2051 From: Registered: Nov 2016
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posted June 26, 2020 06:09 PM
I don't know if it was said already, Saturn on MC or ASC probably. I think the more rigid the person is in personality and/or the power they carry, it can make them less likeable. An Earth MC or Asc with Saturn there might be a critical, less sensitive type. The whole chart matters but that is one thing that could play in that role. Possibly Pluto in one of those two zones as well?IP: Logged |