posted July 02, 2020 09:10 AM            

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posted July 02, 2020 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Travelman:
where did you get the stat 75%?

Also, you could chat online for a year and then have 3 dates, or have 3 dates straight away, so.....I do not think it is dependent on one simple variable with an arbitrary number set to it as it is subjective and does not consider everyone's different situations...

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posted July 02, 2020 03:05 PM            

1) I feel like this list implies that you need to discuss these things to make sure you agree on everything. There's a common belief that similarity to self is good and difference is bad for relationships. In astrology, the 7th house is the idea of complementary difference as the basis of a good relationship. Also, similarity can be bad. You might have hard aspects natally that are aggravated by someone with the same placements.

2) If the synastry is bad, that will manifest in the relationship regardless of how much you agree on these topics talking about them hypothetically at the beginning of the relationship. At the same time, it's much easier to compromise with someone when the relationship is emotionally fulfilling.regardless of how much you agree osite is bad, it doesn't matter how

3) Another common belief is that experiences of love, emotional attraction and sexual attraction can't be trusted because their fundamental purpose is to reproduce the species. In this view, love is a fleeting delusion designed to trick you into having children, but if you want to have a long-lasting marriage you should pick a partner rationally. Astrology obviously disagrees. There's a deeper meaning to love and attraction that has to do with what we are and what our partner is.

posted July 02, 2020 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Do you have Uranus tightly aspecting your Ascendant, Moon, or Venus? Or located within the 5th or 7th House?

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Why do you ask?

posted July 02, 2020 04:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Travelman:
Why do you ask?

As for aspects to my rising, just moon sq rising and mars conj. rising and saturn sextile rising.

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posted July 02, 2020 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Because you mentioned "chatting online" for an entire year, before going on 3 dates in person. It's quite odd.

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I have never done it but it is not weird at all, why would it be? Two people meet from two different countries, sometimes with great distances..It could take more than a year to meet!

posted July 02, 2020 09:25 PM            

someone could have all the right answers 3 dates in and then 3 years later grow and change into a different person (or you might, or you both do)

you just never really know where life is gonna go or who someone is going to become and you can't map it all out based on a few conversations in the beginning

relationships fail for a lot of varied reasons depending on the individuals but ultimately you can break that all down into something just not being meant to be

it doesnt even necessarily have to be a bad thing some relationships are there to take us through certain points in our life and the **** you take away from it matters (lessons, memories etc) not everything has to last forever even if it lasts a really long time

if you know who someone is entirely based on 3 conversations and they never change in 10 years there's no added depth or growth to them that's pretty depressing

edit: forgot my signs

libra venus conjunct libra ascendant, sextile sag uranus, sextile leo mercury, opposite aries moon, square cap mars, conjunct libra south node (loosely in western) my venus/uranus/mercury/moon are part of a kite and my venus/mars/moon are part of a t-square