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AQUACap88
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posted July 02, 2020 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AQUACap88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Security or hard to get?

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sashavittoria
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posted July 02, 2020 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Security!!

I had a longtime love for a Cancer sun and moon. He consistently went for Virgos (except for a single September Libra) who were blonde, bosomy, and could cook. Plumper women who were very homey and want families. He dated a couple career types but they were just flings. He settled down and now has a baby with a Virgo Sun Leo moon.

Ive known several other Cancer man - Virgo woman couples. They like to be taken care of. Either they cook or like their partner to cook for them. Always that nurturing element. Sigh...

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sashavittoria
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posted July 02, 2020 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It might seem like the Cancer is playing hard to get but in reality he is just being a Cancer lol!

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Aries23Degrees
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posted July 03, 2020 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Dad is Cancer. I actually think Cancer can be highly emotionally manipulative(at worst). So there are possibilities for many mind games (unfairly attributed to Gemini).

If you are looking to attract one,prepare for little dramatic episodes now and then. The whole push/pull of a soap opera. I notice that many I know thrive on that.

Its like you have to "prove" that you care.Go the extra mile and NEVER take their "I am fine.Its nothing" response at face value. They love being doted on and babied.

People often think Scorpio is the one that tests lovers?That may be so.But Cancer does too. In a sly, roundabout way. Not quite as direct as Scorpio. But its there.

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teasel
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posted July 03, 2020 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^Thats true of the Mars/Saturn in cancer guy Ive mentioned. When I asked him about something, he said, Im not that bold. He wont make a move unless hes sure that it will be well received. He can be an ass at times, he will do the push-pull thing.

My Cancerian uncle can be moody. Hes married to my Capricorn aunt, who is a good cook, a good mother. I have no idea how they got together, I was just little and a bridesmaid for them, living over here in the States at the time, but theyve always been happy with each other.

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posted July 05, 2020 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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DualGemV2
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posted July 06, 2020 05:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
My Dad is Cancer. I actually think Cancer can be highly emotionally manipulative(at worst). So there are possibilities for many mind games (unfairly attributed to Gemini).

Both my parents are Cancers. My mom is a Leo/Cancer so I get along with her.

My dad is a June 23rd born and has some Gemini in him.

I'm very blunt (Aries moon) and direct with him whenever I spot him being manipulative I take down his entire "scheme" before it begins.

He plays the "old man" card alot..
"I can't because I'm old...please do it for me"

I don't know if its because he's lazy and entitled..or because he's gotten use to being lazy, entitled and that his wife will take care of him that he has now become unable to do anything after years of neglecting his own skills.

The other negative about cancer males is they can be very pretentious when they feel insecure.

When your on the road driving and see some guy driving a $60,000 Truck or Porche and its clear they can't afford it but they buy it anyway because they feel insecure about there pen*s size that says Cancer Male.

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted July 06, 2020 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tell him you want to be the mother of his children!

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Aries23Degrees
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posted July 07, 2020 05:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I don't know if its because he's lazy and entitled..or because he's gotten use to being lazy, entitled and that his wife will take care of him that he has now become unable to do anything after years of neglecting his own skills.

Sounds like my father. Mom does EVERYTHING for him(she is Cancer Mars)with Pluto/ North Node in Virgo. Strong sense of duty and service-which Dad is happy to take advantage of.

Once she was away and he was stuck with my sisters and I. Now knowing that he can't do to us what he does to her, he avoided asking us to fix him something to eat & made himself a sandwich.

He DEEP FRIED his eggs in an ocean of oil. Poured himself concentrated orange juice with little water & spread TOO much butter on his bread.

It was like a kid was busy making a sandwhich in the kitchen. The mess he left?😱.

But we caught on to what he was trying to do. He wanted to mess up so bad so that we feel sorry for him and say "no Dad. Dont worry. We will make food for you." Etc. Well..it didn't happen.

We let him eat his severely fatty egg, diabetes inducing drink and cholestrol inviting bread. We simply looked on.

I think its kinda sad that he is still so dependent on her. Its not empowering for him at all.

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted July 07, 2020 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^Lol

This is what I used to do as a child to get out of doing a chore I hated but would act proud and like I did it and did it well!

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StubbornVirgo
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posted July 07, 2020 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Idk about Cancer men, because I've never dated one (surprisingly). But my bestie is a triple Cancer. I'm a triple Virgo. We get along like peanut butter and jelly. I'm also a 4th house Moon/Mars.

Yes, there's an insecure, shy part of Cancer. They'll never make the first move unless they're sure that it's okay. They require a lot of reassurance, sometimes. (So do Virgos - maybe that's why we get along so well.) But they are super loyal and will defend you especially if they feel like you're in the right. And yeah, they're homebodies and enjoy spending a majority of their time at home with their families.

How do you attract that? Be yourself. Be open with your insecurities and fears. It puts them at ease that they're not the only ones feeling that way. Be calm and consistent. And don't tell their secrets.

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AQUACap88
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posted July 08, 2020 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AQUACap88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Tell him you want to be the mother of his children!

Is this for real!? LOL. Wouldn't it creep him out?

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AQUACap88
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posted July 08, 2020 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AQUACap88     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And thank you all for the responses! I'd like to hear more, so please continue to enlighten me ❤️❤️

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Dumuzi
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posted July 08, 2020 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
feed him some of your blood and make a sacrifice at a crossroads

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doubletaurus
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posted July 09, 2020 12:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for doubletaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Is this for real!? LOL. Wouldn't it creep him out?

Cancers tend to be known as family orientated iirc so this would be like telling a Taurus or a cake lover, I have cake to give you.

Imo I think they're more playing hard to get without having that as their purpose because to them they're just being cancers and staying in their protective shell/security. But I agree with what others have said.

Don't take things at face value. They need and love constant reassurance without asking for it. They can be emotionally manipulative but in a self pity or entitled kind of way?

I am raised by a cancer father and I sure understand them so much more. From their Passive aggressive words to their stubbornness to do things their way yet be earlyier persuaded to having a lot of patience to the point where it hurts them to where they want you to read their mind...

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted July 09, 2020 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by doubletaurus:
this would be like telling a Taurus or a cake lover, I have cake to give you.

LOL!! Yes!

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted July 09, 2020 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Is this for real!? LOL. Wouldn't it creep him out?

My friend who dated then married a Cancer Sun, said that to him. She said this was what won him over.

The marriage lasted a whole 7 months, but that's another entirely different story..

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted July 15, 2020 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been dating a cancer sun/merc/venu/AC man for almost two years.

In my experience you should act very steady and trustworthy around them. They don't like moodiness, that only they are entitled to!

But if you learn to deal with their attention neediness and the occasional verbal need for assurance, you'll have the sweetest lover who would do anything from cooking to bathing you if that's what you need!

Show them that you are having a great time with them, and they will never let you go. I find that Cancer men are either very loyal or total womanizers. So be careful which kind you're getting involved with.

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