posted July 02, 2020 04:46 PM            

I had a longtime love for a Cancer sun and moon. He consistently went for Virgos (except for a single September Libra) who were blonde, bosomy, and could cook. Plumper women who were very homey and want families. He dated a couple career types but they were just flings. He settled down and now has a baby with a Virgo Sun Sag moon. [Edit: corrected her moon]

posted July 03, 2020 01:19 PM            

If you are looking to attract one,prepare for little dramatic episodes now and then. The whole push/pull of a soap opera. I notice that many I know thrive on that.

Its like you have to "prove" that you care.Go the extra mile and NEVER take their "I am fine.Its nothing" response at face value. They love being doted on and babied.

posted July 06, 2020 05:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
My Dad is Cancer. I actually think Cancer can be highly emotionally manipulative(at worst). So there are possibilities for many mind games (unfairly attributed to Gemini).

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Both my parents are Cancers. My mom is a Leo/Cancer so I get along with her.

My dad is a June 23rd born and has some Gemini in him.

I'm very blunt (Aries moon) and direct with him whenever I spot him being manipulative I take down his entire "scheme" before it begins.

He plays the "old man" card alot..
"I can't because I'm old...please do it for me"

I don't know if its because he's lazy and entitled..or because he's gotten use to being lazy, entitled and that his wife will take care of him that he has now become unable to do anything after years of neglecting his own skills.

The other negative about cancer males is they can be very pretentious when they feel insecure.

When your on the road driving and see some guy driving a $60,000 Truck or Porche and its clear they can't afford it but they buy it anyway because they feel insecure about there pen*s size that says Cancer Male.

posted July 07, 2020 05:38 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I don't know if its because he's lazy and entitled..or because he's gotten use to being lazy, entitled and that his wife will take care of him that he has now become unable to do anything after years of neglecting his own skills.

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Sounds like my father. Mom does EVERYTHING for him(she is Cancer Mars)with Pluto/ North Node in Virgo. Strong sense of duty and service-which Dad is happy to take advantage of.

Once she was away and he was stuck with my sisters and I. Now knowing that he can't do to us what he does to her, he avoided asking us to fix him something to eat & made himself a sandwich.

He DEEP FRIED his eggs in an ocean of oil. Poured himself concentrated orange juice with little water & spread TOO much butter on his bread.

It was like a kid was busy making a sandwhich in the kitchen. The mess he left?😱.

But we caught on to what he was trying to do. He wanted to mess up so bad so that we feel sorry for him and say "no Dad. Dont worry. We will make food for you." Etc. Well..it didn't happen.

We let him eat his severely fatty egg, diabetes inducing drink and cholestrol inviting bread. We simply looked on.

posted July 07, 2020 11:08 PM            

Yes, there's an insecure, shy part of Cancer. They'll never make the first move unless they're sure that it's okay. They require a lot of reassurance, sometimes. (So do Virgos - maybe that's why we get along so well.) But they are super loyal and will defend you especially if they feel like you're in the right. And yeah, they're homebodies and enjoy spending a majority of their time at home with their families.

posted July 08, 2020 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Tell him you want to be the mother of his children!

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posted July 09, 2020 12:15 AM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Is this for real!? LOL. Wouldn't it creep him out?

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Cancers tend to be known as family orientated iirc so this would be like telling a Taurus or a cake lover, I have cake to give you.

Imo I think they're more playing hard to get without having that as their purpose because to them they're just being cancers and staying in their protective shell/security. But I agree with what others have said.

Don't take things at face value. They need and love constant reassurance without asking for it. They can be emotionally manipulative but in a self pity or entitled kind of way?

I am raised by a cancer father and I sure understand them so much more. From their Passive aggressive words to their stubbornness to do things their way yet be earlyier persuaded to having a lot of patience to the point where it hurts them to where they want you to read their mind...

posted July 09, 2020 01:56 AM            

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Originally posted by doubletaurus:
this would be like telling a Taurus or a cake lover, I have cake to give you.

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posted July 09, 2020 01:59 AM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Is this for real!? LOL. Wouldn't it creep him out?

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My friend who dated then married a Cancer Sun, said that to him. She said this was what won him over.

posted July 15, 2020 02:42 PM            

In my experience you should act very steady and trustworthy around them. They don't like moodiness, that only they are entitled to!

But if you learn to deal with their attention neediness and the occasional verbal need for assurance, you'll have the sweetest lover who would do anything from cooking to bathing you if that's what you need!