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Topic: What makes a man attracted to "bad girls" who can be violent, aggro, "bad b**ches?
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Lalafortunaea
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posted July 24, 2020 06:22 AM
  
I've known a couple of guys like these. One of them was obsessed with attractive women he read about in the news who committed violent crimes (usually against perpetrators/rapists). I don't know his birth chart but he also likes military-minded women.
Another wanted a sadistic woman, especially covered in tats.
And a softer version of those two was a guy I know of who just likes "edgy women,", who are tough, wear black nail polish, look murderous and dangerous.And yet another wanted women who were skilled in using weapons and knew martial arts.
It's pretty usual for a guy to like soft, gentle girls, but what about men who want a tough badass in some way? What aspects or placements have you noticed?
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BeholdAstarte
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posted July 25, 2020 01:14 AM
Venus conjunct or in contact to mars
And Venus conjunct or touching Pluto.
I’m sure also when the moon is also involved. I feel like masculine contacts to Venus/moon could do that and I mean that as far as Saturn/Capricorn, mars/mars and Pluto/Scorpio. And I guess Pluto/Scorpio isn’t necessarily masculine but has a very dark edge to its appeal, and is drawn to people who are involved in the more taboo side of life, the outcasts and not intimidated by crime and those involved in it. It does rule gangsters and crime soo it makes sense.
I notice men who have moon/mars contacts, especially cancer moon in tension to mars or conjunct have major lessons with woman, and often grow up with angry women and tend to attract or be drawn to more aggressive women maybe even provoking it slightly. Than when Venus is also involved in someway it highlights that relationship theme even more. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
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posted July 25, 2020 05:39 AM
I think Lilith being involved with Mars or Pluto too. Maybe Uranus too.IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
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posted July 25, 2020 05:41 AM
If it an unconscious desire and they are not aware of it and they suffer because of this relationships, would be something with chiron, venus, pluto, moon.
If they are aware of it and they enjoy it, it might be lilith like I said in the last comment.IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted July 25, 2020 02:41 PM
I have seen it in men with:-moon or venus conjunct Pluto
-moon conjunct mars
-venus or moon square or opposite Mars
-venus or moon square or opposite Pluto
-ETA: Pluto in 7th house, and to a lesser extent, mars in 7th house. I have not seen it in men with Mars conjunct Venus. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted July 25, 2020 08:22 PM
In my opinion it's more like a Pluto than Mars thing. So Moon/Pluto, Venus/Pluto aspects, especially harsh ones..IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted July 25, 2020 10:13 PM
The only violent woman I know, doesn't look like she would be. She isn't with most people. Her husband encouraged it. I can't remember his chart. I would like to be able to defend myself physically, but I'm not a "bad girl." The girls who took martial arts, when I was in school, were calm and quiet. They also didn't look like ball-busters. I have Moon/Venus trine Pluto, square Mars, sextile Jupiter, inconjunct Uranus/ascendant. I like guys who help others. Not into violence. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2
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posted July 25, 2020 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
-moon conjunct mars
What about Moon conjunct Mars in synastry?
Were the male is the moon and the female is the mars. I've felt it (i'm male) but maybe because I'm a Gemini sun I end up running away in good order at the right time before things get messy. My Planets
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anonymidarkness
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posted July 29, 2020 08:51 AM
I tend to attract the type(not someone who'd chop my dik off, but yeah you never know if you **** them off), I've usually dated women with sun conjunct mars, never ended up with aries chicks tho, have BML conjunct DSC.I feel its a test of manhood sort of, if you are masculine enough you will still be the man in the relation, otherwise you will be the chick. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted July 29, 2020 11:37 AM
Well....my husband has:Venus op Pluto
Moon trine Mars/Pluto
All I’ve ever heard about his past (from himself) is:
Suicide-“but it was never serious from his side and he didn’t know she liked him”. Okaaaay.... Cheating-“but she was drunk and didn’t know what she did”. She has been a GREAT friend and she’s a GREAT person”. Okaaaaay.... Arguments with police involved, social services, theft, lying and physical altercations (same woman)-“but she’s the mother of my daughter and we can still be nice”. Wut?! Normal relationship (me, questioning what’s wrong with effin NORMAL?!?!)-but you’re this and that and have done this and that” Ok buddy... Obviously, normal is not OK but cheating, beating and stealing is quite the norm and shall be forgiven. Must 100% try one day :-/ IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted July 29, 2020 12:01 PM
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teasel
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posted July 29, 2020 11:26 PM
The first woman who came to mind, was Lisbeth Salander. The women in the books and movies, are usually smart, too. Very smart. IP: Logged |
Randall
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