posted August 09, 2020 12:11 PM            

Someone having significant planets in your 7th house. And vice versa. One way aspects does not indicate marriage but could indicate infatuation.

If 7th house is empty, someone making contact with the ruler of the 7th house.

Someone who has the qualities exemplified by your 7th house.

Aspects to the Nodes.

posted August 09, 2020 03:56 PM            

Most of my planets are in Cancer (falling in his 7th house)

posted August 09, 2020 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
For example I’m Aquarius Descendant does that mean my soulmate is someone who has Sun, Moon or rising in. Aquarius?

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Not necessarily, although that kind of thing does happen too often to ignore. Often their planets can be in the next sign, still in your 7th house.

My Asc is 17° Virgo and my wife's Mars is opposite it at 20° Pisces. So that's not necessarily what you'd expect or think of as a 'soul mate' aspect, but there it is.

I don't have statistics on even what's in my own files, but I don't think it's most of the time that the partner has Sun, Moon, or Asc on the DC or in that sign. I could be wrong.

posted August 10, 2020 09:53 PM            

As a Gemini rising I would worry a little because my fiance has no Sagittarius in his chart.
Until I recently discovered his IC is here.

posted August 10, 2020 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Not necessarily, although that kind of thing does happen too often to ignore. Often their planets can be in the next sign, still in your 7th house.

My Asc is 17° Virgo and my wife's Mars is opposite it at 20° Pisces. So that's not necessarily what you'd expect or think of as a 'soul mate' aspect, but there it is.

I don't have statistics on even what's in my own files, but I don't think it's most of the time that the partner has Sun, Moon, or Asc on the DC or in that sign. I could be wrong.

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posted August 12, 2020 12:57 PM            

I am a Cancer Ascendant and my North Node is in Capricorn too.

I like Capricorn Sun, but not having them as a partner. I like the Moon too, but they are too cold hearted for me.

I never dated a Capricorn, but my ex had a Capricorn Venus.

I prefer a Scorpio or a Cancer.

My 5th house cusp is in Scorpio, my 7th house in Capricorn and my 8th house in Aquarius.

I wanted to start a forum and ask the same thing because I really doubted that the descendant is the only that shows what you like in a partner.

posted August 13, 2020 04:15 AM            

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Originally posted by CardinalT-Square:
In my family, it's pretty much the rule that when they get married they have Ascendant/Descendant opposite each other, plus one pair of the rulers of their Asc./Des. conjuncting each other. But the Moon (both transit and progression) has to be in the right placement also for at least one of the partner's.

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That's interesting. I don't often see this (ASC-DSC conjunct) in couples but I know it's a very nice aspect to have. I've this with my current guy and it feels like a very close bond. Sometimes I see ASC trine ASC in couples.

posted August 14, 2020 03:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
There are a number of factors that will indicate the marriage partner. To name just a few:

Someone having significant planets in your 7th house. And vice versa. One way aspects does not indicate marriage but could indicate infatuation.

If 7th house is empty, someone making contact with the ruler of the 7th house.

Someone who has the qualities exemplified by your 7th house.

Aspects to the Nodes.

All of the above indicate the attraction you can have toward someone and view them as potential marriage partners. These do not guarantee marriage. A combination of transit and progression in addition to synastry and composite can indicate marriage.

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What about symbolism? Like say your partner’s dc is in Aries and you have a lot of planets in the 1st house. And you have a Leo dc and your partner has a lot of planets in the 5th house?
Does that count or is it reaching?

posted September 01, 2020 03:02 AM            

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Originally posted by CardinalT-Square:
Hikaru29, I mean that one or both of the partner's progressed Moon must be in the same sign as the natal Ascendant and/or Sun of the other partner, and one partner is having the Transit Moon conjunct the Descendant ruler simultaneously (usually the female for heterogeneous marriages). That's been the case for my social circle, I can't speak for everyone.

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