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Topic: How Dangerous is a Gemini man?
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hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 16, 2020 03:59 PM
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DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 16, 2020 04:59 PM
What happened? My Aquarius female friend who was married to a Capricorn always said I was a pussycat compared to him, so I don't know. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 6903 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 16, 2020 08:23 PM
I mean....Other than intentionally dropping the occasional banana peel to prank you... Not very.... lol IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 17, 2020 04:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: What happened? My Aquarius female friend who was married to a Capricorn always said I was a pussycat compared to him, so I don't know.
I finally found his birth certificate and he isn't a Cap moon but a Sag moon possibly conjunct Saturn. And a Taurus venus 29 degree, could also possibly a Gemini venus 0 degree if he was born near midnight. (I can't find the difference between his 29 degree and 0 degree because if venus is an attraction to the opposite sex, I am petite and have an hourglass body shape, also I look younger than my age. Seems like it fits for Gemini venus criteria) His anger is scared the hell out of me. Sometimes it feels like my life is in a danger for a sec. Other time he will say, "you are lucky I let you alive", whenever the topic is about separation. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 17, 2020 04:51 PM
The key is to know his extremes that way you make an unpredictable Gemini into a predictable Gemini.I'd suggest learning his reactions to things then he'll become predictable and once he's predictable you'll own him. girlwithrainsoul and lovelyaries86 were both with a guy born days apart from me. I swore both of them sorta had a good idea of what I whould write on lindaland and how I whould respond. quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: ... His anger is scared the hell out of me. Sometimes it feels like my life is in a danger for a sec. Other time he will say, "you are lucky I let you alive", whenever the topic is about separation.
Reactions are a Game with Gemini suns, I think he's threaten separation many times...I think that's predictable behavior from him by now. He's done that before and he'll do it again I think we can say its within his range of extremes, I'd just categorize his best and his worst then play along. Only when he does something outside of that range of extremes then I would get worried. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73616 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted August 18, 2020 08:55 AM
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 8504 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 18, 2020 11:51 AM
The Gem man is dangerous if he is playing mental games with someone who is all "heart" in. Infact, any man is.What can hurt is if you have invested yourself into them and discover that you are but one of MANY.🤷🏾♂️ Or that they are still with their ex. But I wouldn't bar this to be strictly Gem man or Gem placements(albeit they are famed for that). One should also look at 12th house, Pis, Nep-Ven for possible deception. Ura-Ven,Aqua can also point to emotional detachment or indifference. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 26, 2020 10:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I mean....Other than intentionally dropping the occasional banana peel to prank you... Not very.... lol
I see. He is sometimes go back and forth with the devil and the angel in a minute and decide to just toying with you for an entertainment. But, he is very quick in a defensive state and can be very very emotional, in a minute he doesn't even think about what he is doing or saying that can easily turn into an assault, he gets drowning in the pool of his own emotions for awhile, regrets it later. That moment can be felt as a danger as he looks loosing his rationality. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 26, 2020 10:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: The key is to know his extremes that way you make an unpredictable Gemini into a predictable Gemini.I'd suggest learning his reactions to things then he'll become predictable and once he's predictable you'll own him. girlwithrainsoul and lovelyaries86 were both with a guy born days apart from me. I swore both of them sorta had a good idea of what I whould write on lindaland and how I whould respond. Reactions are a Game with Gemini suns, I think he's threaten separation many times...I think that's predictable behavior from him by now. He's done that before and he'll do it again I think we can say its within his range of extremes, I'd just categorize his best and his worst then play along. Only when he does something outside of that range of extremes then I would get worried.
I think, for me, he is pretty much predictable unless when he is angry/emotional . He is also a very good liar, I mean, a really good story twister, like, he has an incredible ability to tell you a lie like it is a truth, because in his messy mind, he believes his own lies or, worst, he doesn't even know which one is the truth or the lie once he creates a scenario in his mind and he believes his own as it feels good for him. (Water mercury opposite Neptune) Based on my experience, he is very irrational when angry/emotional and has a tendency to loss control physically, domestic abuse can easily happen. I know he doesn't like the idea of me leaving him, even the idea of me spending too much time with other people (family, friends, etc) he will make me feel uncomfortable with his texts or calls (I even cut a lot of my friendship because he always makes a drama about it). I think we spend too much time and our relationship frustrates me so I thought it must be good if we have some times being apart for awhile, and I was thinking about a plan to visit my parent in a different city for Christmas to New Year with my daughter, so I have an excuse to make a distance for awhile, but I'm afraid of his reaction if he knows about it because it can be sounded like "I am leaving and not coming back". I was thinking what if I don't tell him until the day I must leave, because I know he will and can not do anything if I already purchase the tickets, but then what will happen if I come home after spending time away from him? I also plan to turn my phone off once I am in my parent's home to avoid he contacts me. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 26, 2020 10:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Pluto is what is really dangerous. Gemini is rather light
Do you mean, pluto in natal? Or synastry? IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 26, 2020 10:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: The Gem man is dangerous if he is playing mental games with someone who is all "heart" in. Infact, any man is.What can hurt is if you have invested yourself into them and discover that you are but one of MANY.🤷🏾♂️ Or that they are still with their ex. But I wouldn't bar this to be strictly Gem man or Gem placements(albeit they are famed for that). One should also look at 12th house, Pis, Nep-Ven for possible deception. Ura-Ven,Aqua can also point to emotional detachment or indifference.
He has, detachment: sun opposite uranus/saturn deception: mercury/mars opposite neptune The bad traits from those aspect, he owns it. I know very well, 7 years. I don't have his birth-time, his father was an alcoholic until got kidney problems and others. Looking at how he is as a husband and a father now, I think he doesn't have a father figure, he really doesn't know how to be a husband and a father. His Sun opposite Moon describes his parent's relationship very well. Before we got married, he did everything you said: mental games, one of many, and he was still with his ex. Now, I don't even care if he is with anyone, I am just trying to keep myself sane all the time.. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 826 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 27, 2020 10:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: ... I know he doesn't like the idea of me leaving him, even the idea of me spending too much time with other people (family, friends, etc) he will make me feel uncomfortable with his texts or calls (I even cut a lot of my friendship because he always makes a drama about it).I think we spend too much time and our relationship frustrates me so I thought it must be good if we have some times being apart for awhile, and I was thinking about a plan to visit my parent in a different city for Christmas to New Year with my daughter, so I have an excuse to make a distance for awhile, but I'm afraid of his reaction if he knows about it because it can be sounded like "I am leaving and not coming back". I was thinking what if I don't tell him until the day I must leave, because I know he will and can not do anything if I already purchase the tickets, but then what will happen if I come home after spending time away from him? I also plan to turn my phone off once I am in my parent's home to avoid he contacts me.
I'm surprised you were even able to get tickets, were I am I can't even get tickets and leave the country. But that also gives you a pro if you don't want to come back make it a COVID-19 excuse, but I don't know how strict there treating COVID-19 where you're from. Social gatherings are frowned upon were I am. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑
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hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 28, 2020 06:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: I'm surprised you were even able to get tickets, were I am I can't even get tickets and leave the country.But that also gives you a pro if you don't want to come back make it a COVID-19 excuse, but I don't know how strict there treating COVID-19 where you're from. Social gatherings are frowned upon were I am.
Well, it's still a plan, I don't have the tickets now. Here is still strict too but they have made some loosening gradually amidst covid. So, I come up with the idea of what if I am making an excuse spending the holiday at my parent's house (while hoping the covid is not too worrying anymore and everything goes back to normal), but I'm afraid of his reactions and the fact that he can be like a Scorpio who plots things to get back at you when you keep doing what he doesn't like. Sometimes he can be so controlling too. IP: Logged | |