posted October 22, 2020 04:59 AM            

Neptune opp Venus
Neptune opp Mercury - led to poor communication/different wave lengths which...

...coupled with Neptune square Jupiter (especially this one) caused a lot of disappointment.

Those three were not easy all combined but that last one, especially, I think allowed for tons of (lovely sounding) promises to be made but many of them never actually happened.

I really liked that girl too, quite an infatuation, but too many tough aspects in synastry.

posted October 22, 2020 12:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Travelman:
Neptune opp Mercury - led to poor communication/different wave lengths

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more like different universes..

I think this aspect is extremely underrated when it comes to negative synastry aspects.. it's worse than speaking completely different languages or speaking to the wall.

posted October 22, 2020 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Neptune is the planet that is directly linked to disappointment but if disappointment isn't not due to you being infatuated or seeing only the good side of someone or smth (which might not even exist) then it's Saturn. Saturn may make you struggle more than the average person and usually it's not even your fault.. it feels more like obstacles thrown to you out of nowhere just to slow you down and drain you (physically/emotionally/mentally) for no reason really.

Have you checked your progressions? Maybe a progressed planet is aspecting one of your natal or current transit planets? Maybe it's just a transit planet entering one of your houses.

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posted October 22, 2020 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by stone1:
Is transit moon's conjunction to neptune can make people easily feeling disappionted?

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Yes, that is a potential of this transit, but it is so transitory that it is not active more than a few hours or a single day at most.

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Any other aspects you can think of?
Tires of this feeling.
Thanks for any inputs!

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If this is something ongoing, then it is not being framed by Moon's transits to natal Neptune, but by a longer lasting transit to/from Neptune or another aspect or combination of them.

For example, Pluto's transit conjunct and/or parallel natal Neptune. It's a dual transit in which the conjunction happens, followed years later by the parallel. It's been happening for people born between the mid-1970s and mid-90s. Here is my article about it:
http://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/2019/07/22/plutos-transit-conjunct-parallel-natal-neptune/

posted October 23, 2020 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by stone1:
Kannon, is parallel aspect happening with sun too?

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I have no idea since I don't know your birth chart.

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Originally posted by stone1:
Also, isn't parallel like trine, more friendly aspect? much easier to handle than conjunction?

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No, the parallel aspect is more like a conjunction, a fusion aspect, but not quite as intense.

And yes, the conjunction of Pluto to natal Neptune for those who were born during the 1970s did pass a long time ago, but they can still experience the transit of Pluto parallel natal Neptune because of how Pluto's orbit is tilted off the plane of the ecliptic.

posted October 23, 2020 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
[B] more like different universes..

I think this aspect is extremely underrated when it comes to negative synastry aspects.. it's worse than speaking completely different languages or speaking to the wall.

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posted October 24, 2020 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by stone1:
@kanon - I meant in general does sun neptune also have parallel relationships? Can Astro gold give info about parallel of transit planets? I couldn't find these info on astro.com or astro-seek.com

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Yes, Sun can transit parallel natal Neptune, and Neptune can transit parallel natal Sun. I don't know anything about Astro Gold.

Most astrologers (therefore programmers) do not include declinations (parallel and contra-parallel aspects) as major aspects. So you'll find very little on them on websites or in computer generated reports.

I'd also like to say that disappointment is not the function or purpose of any planet, not even Neptune. By disappointment I think you're describing disillusionment. Only when we've been maintaining illusions for some time ... assumptions, wishful thinking, misconceptions ... do transits by/to Neptune time disappointment. The key is to undo that by taking an honest look at what our misconceptions or illusions were that set us up for disappointment.