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Leo-Cancer98
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posted November 17, 2020 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m the complete opposite, but it’s something I have observed amongst 6 Sagittarius Moons I know.
What do you think?

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posted November 18, 2020 02:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You mean Sag Mooners don't wanna marry and have kids?

Not true. All the Sag Mooners I know married and had kids in their 20s. I also have always wanted that but haven't yet fulfilled that desire.

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posted November 18, 2020 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My youngest son has a Sagittarius moon and from a very young age he always said he wanted to adopt because "there's enough children in the world". He's now 17 and maintains this view.

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posted November 18, 2020 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Travelman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 17, 2021 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
My youngest son has a Sagittarius moon and from a very young age he always said he wanted to adopt because "there's enough children in the world". He's now 17 and maintains this view.

I see, thank you

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posted January 17, 2021 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have seen this with 2 Sagittarius Moons. However, they both have Gemini Venus so it might have something to do with that.

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posted January 24, 2021 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 25, 2021 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
I have seen this with 2 Sagittarius Moons. However, they both have Gemini Venus so it might have something to do with that.

Do you recall how their Sagittarius Moons & Gemini Venuses are aspected?

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posted January 25, 2021 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for etherealsaturn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Having this placement myself, I can personally say that I adore children, but I don't really know if I want any myself. I've never been the type to concoct this dream wedding either. I am married but we didn't do it the traditional way.

The other Sag Moons I know have different placements that may contradict this idea though. One example being my mother who was married young, twice, had 4 kids and adopted as well.

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posted January 25, 2021 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by etherealsaturn:
Having this placement myself, I can personally say that I adore children, but I don't really know if I want any myself. I've never been the type to concoct this dream wedding either. I am married but we didn't do it the traditional way.

The other Sag Moons I know have different placements that may contradict this idea though. One example being my mother who was married young, twice, had 4 kids and adopted as well.


Do you have anything in Leo or Cancer, or anything personal planets positioned in The 4th or 5th House? If not, which signs are on the House Cusps?!

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posted January 25, 2021 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It would be better to post each person's natal chart instead. A planet in a specific sign is a very weak indicator especially when that planet is receiving major aspects.

Only 4 Sag Moons come to mind right now and they all have children.

People who don't want children like myself are usually on the indepedent and/or introvert side which are qualities that make you value your freedom more than other types of people.

Any mix of:

Cold Moon and Venus
(cold = air and fire signs, specifically Aries, Gemini, Aqua and Sag,
cold = hard aspects to Uranus and/or Mars)

• Saturn in 5th H
• Pluto in 5th H (it may lead to both extremes)
• Jupiter in 5th H (just like Pluto it could lead to both extremes as the planet of expansion, depending on what else is going on in the chart)
• Uranus in 5th H.
Those planets above on the 11th H cuso could have a similar effect.

Uranus on the cusp of any angular house by itself is imo the strongest indicator of indepedence or the need of it. Whatever happens on the angular houses is of great importance.

So generally speaking heavy Uranian/Martian charts whose energy isn't toned down by other placements or aspects, tend to naturally avoid children just like they avoid clingy partners in their relationships.
That is because children are little creatures who will completely depend on you for a very significant amount of your life. If you can't stand a clingy partner there is no chance you will be able to stand a child.

A heavy Saturnian person will realise the huge responsibillity/burden that comes with children and how it will change his life from a practical POV (the amount of people who fail to realise it before it's too late is shocking especially in this day and age). Depending on the rest of the native's chart he/she would be a responsible parent or just understand that it's not worth it to have children for him/her.

So the same aspect/placement could lead to opposite outcomes depending on the rest of the chart.

Usually you see all or a mix of the indicators mentioned above.
Some may really want a child inside a traditional relationship (maybe due to certain beliefs/values like being extremely religious) but if they have heavily afflicted 7th and 8th H which leads to no marriage it will also lead to no children for them.

I saw you asked in a previous comment a person if he/she has Cancer/Leo planets. Why is that?

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posted January 25, 2021 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
People who don't want children like myself are usually on the indepedent and/or introvert side which are qualities that make you value your freedom more than other types of people.

Any mix of:

Cold Moon [b] and Venus
(cold = air and fire signs, specifically Aries, Gemini, Aqua and Sag,
cold = hard aspects to Uranus and/or Mars)

• Saturn in 5th H
• Pluto in 5th H (it may lead to both extremes)
• Jupiter in 5th H (just like Pluto it could lead to both extremes as the planet of expansion, depending on what else is going on in the chart)
• Uranus in 5th H.
Those planets above on the 11th H cuso could have a similar effect.

Uranus on the cusp of any angular house by itself is imo the strongest indicator of indepedence or the need of it. Whatever happens on the angular houses is of great importance.

So generally speaking heavy Uranian/Martian charts whose energy isn't toned down by other placements or aspects, tend to naturally avoid children just like they avoid clingy partners in their relationships.
That is because children are little creatures who will completely depend on you for a very significant amount of your life. If you can't stand a clingy partner there is no chance you will be able to stand a child.

A heavy Saturnian person will realise the huge responsibillity/burden that comes with children and how it will change his life from a practical POV (the amount of people who fail to realise it before it's too late is shocking especially in this day and age). Depending on the rest of the native's chart he/she would be a responsible parent or just understand that it's not worth it to have children for him/her.

So the same aspect/placement could lead to opposite outcomes depending on the rest of the chart.

Usually you see all or a mix of the indicators mentioned above.
Some may really want a child inside a traditional relationship (maybe due to certain beliefs/values like being extremely religious) but if they have heavily afflicted 7th and 8th H which leads to no marriage it will also lead to no children for them.

I saw you asked in a previous comment a person if he/she has Cancer/Leo planets. Why is that?[/B]


Aww thank you for the details, I understand much better now! Yeah I did! I asked because I heard people with multiple personal planets in Cancer & Leo, often adore babies, toddlers, and young children. Though I’m enamoured myself, it is something I have also observed amongst my 2 girlfriends (Cancer Sun & Cancer Mars + Leo Venus & Leo Mars). How can one know if they have an afflicted 7th House or 8th House? My 7th House is at 12 degrees Capricorn, containing Neptune, but it’s less than a degree away from my 0 degree Aquarius 8th House cusp. My 8th House has Uranus in it! Let me know what you think! Thank you!

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posted January 25, 2021 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My aunt’s husband absolutely doesn’t want kids. He doesn’t even like getting close to them. Let’s see what he has:

Pisces Moon conjunct IC opposite Jupiter square Sun/Mercury trine Venus.

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posted January 26, 2021 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
My aunt’s husband absolutely doesn’t want kids. He doesn’t even like getting close to them. Let’s see what he has:

Pisces Moon conjunct IC opposite Jupiter square Sun/Mercury trine Venus.


His Pisces Moon is in The 4th House of Family, and he does not desire to have his own?! Hmm, interesting. What is his Venus Sign? How is it aspected? Have you or your Aunt ever reviewed his 5th House & it’s ruler?

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posted January 26, 2021 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Aww thank you for the details, I understand much better now! Yeah I did! I asked because I heard people with multiple personal planets in Cancer & Leo, often adore babies, toddlers, and young children. Though I’m enamoured myself, it is something I have also observed amongst my 2 girlfriends (Cancer Sun & Cancer Mars + Leo Venus & Leo Mars).

I really think you can't go solely by sign. I have a Cancer moon and ascendant and I never wanted kids. I do like some of them but most of them annoy me or I'm indifferent to them.
I know 2 other Cancer moons who don't particularly like children either and don't want to have their own.

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posted January 26, 2021 06:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by kani:
I really think you can't go solely by sign. I have a Cancer moon and ascendant and I never wanted kids. I do like some of them but most of them annoy me or I'm indifferent to them.
I know 2 other Cancer moons who don't particularly like children either and don't want to have their own.

Ohh really?! How interesting! Now I wonder if the Decans (0-10 degrees, 10-20 degrees, 20-30 degrees) make a difference in the Cancer placements expression 🤔

What do you think about how my Grandmother has the following conjunctions: Cancer Moon-Venus, Cancer Moon-Mars, Cancer Venus-Mars, Cancer Venus-Pluto, & Cancer Mars-Pluto. Despite the childbirth pain, she told me she LOVED procreation & giving birth! So did my Grandfather, who only had the 1 Cancer Mars, haha. It square Saturn & trined Jupiter though! 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️ Though my Grandma had 2 miscarriages, she went along to have 7 kids b/w 1956 & 1972, the first 2 being girls in 1956 & 1958. Not to mention, I believe Angelina Jolie also have a Cancer Rising & Venus, and went along to have 6 children 🤷🏾‍♀️

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posted January 26, 2021 09:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Ohh really?! How interesting! Now I wonder if the Decans (0-10 degrees, 10-20 degrees, 20-30 degrees) make a difference in the Cancer placements expression 🤔

What do you think about how my Grandmother has the following conjunctions: Cancer Moon-Venus, Cancer Moon-Mars, Cancer Venus-Mars, Cancer Venus-Pluto, & Cancer Mars-Pluto. Despite the childbirth pain, she told me she LOVED procreation & giving birth! So did my Grandfather, who only had the 1 Cancer Mars, haha. It square Saturn & trined Jupiter though! 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️ Though my Grandma had 2 miscarriages, she went along to have 7 kids b/w 1956 & 1972, the first 2 being girls in 1956 & 1958. Not to mention, I believe Angelina Jolie also have a Cancer Rising & Venus, and went along to have 6 children 🤷🏾‍♀️


your grandmother sounds like an amazing woman and strong as hell! Child birth and child rearing is effing HARD! that's what I see from those around me who have kids.
I really think the sign can contribute but it not the only factor. What's in your grandma's 4th and 5th house?

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posted January 26, 2021 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My older brother has a sag moon and always wanted a kid, he's a single father now. I don't know any others to judge.

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posted January 26, 2021 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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His Pisces Moon is in The 4th House of Family, and he does not desire to have his own?! Hmm, interesting. What is his Venus Sign? How is it aspected? Have you or your Aunt ever reviewed his 5th House & it’s ruler?

5th house rules children anyway, not 4th. His Venus is in Scorpio conjunct Libra SN/Juno in 11H. His 5th ruler is Mars in Aquarius 3H. Saturn/NN in 5H.

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posted January 26, 2021 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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5th house rules children anyway, not 4th. His Venus is in Scorpio conjunct Libra SN/Juno in 11H. His 5th ruler is Mars in Aquarius 3H. Saturn/NN in 5H.

Ahh I see! 5th House ruler in Aquarius, makes sense!

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posted January 26, 2021 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
My older brother has a sag moon and always wanted a kid, he's a single father now. I don't know any others to judge.

How does he cope as a single father?

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posted January 26, 2021 03:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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How does he cope as a single father?

my parents help him out, but if you're asking me about his feelings and **** idk 🤷‍♀️ we aren't close like that

he chose it btw, long drawn out custody battle and whatnot

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posted January 27, 2021 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ahh I see! 5th House ruler in Aquarius, makes sense!

How’s that? Because it’s in an air sign? My 5th ruler is in Gemini and I’ve wanted kids.

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posted January 27, 2021 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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How’s that? Because it’s in an air sign? My 5th ruler is in Gemini and I’ve wanted kids.

Because your Aunt’s husband’s 5th House ruler, is in Aquarius - the 2nd Sign who values freedom & independence nearly above all. Sagittarius being 1st, haha.

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posted January 28, 2021 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for etherealsaturn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Do you have anything in Leo or Cancer, or anything personal planets positioned in The 4th or 5th House? If not, which signs are on the House Cusps?!

I don't have any planets in Leo or Cancer. My fourth house cusp is Leo, fifth house cusp is Virgo. I do have Jupiter in my fifth house though. Which is a placement that is usually interpreted with having or being involved in some way with children. I assist in teaching kids martial arts with my husband, so that may be one way it manifests

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