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ChildofVenus
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posted November 23, 2020 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I only know two men with this placement. The first one is a Virgo Sun. And he was critical and would tell me that I need to lose weight. And would make comments about my hair if it wasn't natural. And he even made a negative comment about my breasts. The other Venus in Virgo says he likes my appearance and hasn't said anything bad about my breasts. But I really don't like this Venus after the horrible experience I had with the first one.

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posted November 23, 2020 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My partner of 2 years is a Leo Sun with Venus in Virgo and he tells me I am beautiful all the time (even though I disagree!). However, his Venus is also conjunct his Pluto and Uranus. I have Pluto on the ASC, an Aquarius Sun and Virgo Moon, so there are a mingling of astrological affinities there beyond just the Venus in Virgo.

All he's ever really said about appearances in general is that it's important to take care of your body.

I think he turns the 'critical' side of Virgo inwards, he can be quite critical of his own appearance and he does pay close attention to grooming and hygiene.

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posted November 23, 2020 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
My partner of 2 years is a Leo Sun with Venus in Virgo and he tells me I am beautiful all the time (even though I disagree!). However, his Venus is also conjunct his Pluto and Uranus. I have Pluto on the ASC, an Aquarius Sun and Virgo Moon, so there are a mingling of astrological affinities there beyond just the Venus in Virgo.

All he's ever really said about appearances in general is that it's important to take care of your body.

I think he turns the 'critical' side of Virgo inwards, he can be quite critical of his own appearance and he does pay close attention to grooming and hygiene.


Yeah, I don't have any placements in Virgo he says he hates himself and that he gives his love to others instead. I have a Leo rising which a Virgo Venus would be put off by.

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posted November 23, 2020 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah, I don't have any placements in Virgo he says he hates himself and that he gives his love to others instead. I have a Leo rising which a Virgo Venus would be put off by.

Well, no matter where someone's Venus is, they have no right to tell you to lose weight. Best weight you can lose is the weight of him!

ETA: in light of what you said, he was probably projecting his insecurities about his own appearance onto you.

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posted November 23, 2020 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Virgo people are really hard to please. They will be very critical about their loved ones and their partner would be very carefully picked. They will have high standard, so high that one a few can meet them and they are home bodies. Like they like a person if it is practical, not romantically (like a venus in pisces would be), but a person that can take care of them or to take care of someone else.
Flaws will not be overlooked by a Venus and not even understood. They is no specific pattern.

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posted November 23, 2020 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Venus in Virgo people are really hard to please. They will be very critical about their loved ones and their partner would be very carefully picked. They will have high standard, so high that one a few can meet them and they are home bodies. Like they like a person if it is practical, not romantically (like a venus in pisces would be), but a person that can take care of them or to take care of someone else.

Venus in Pisces and Venus in Virgo do have similarities. I think you have to look at the entire chart. Because the two I know aren't homebodies.

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posted November 23, 2020 11:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Well, no matter where someone's Venus is, they have no right to tell you to lose weight. Best weight you can lose is the weight of him!

ETA: in light of what you said, he was probably projecting his insecurities about his own appearance onto you.


The one who hasn’t said anything negative about my appearance is the one who said he doesn’t love himself he’s the Scorpio. The Virgo Sun with Venus in Virgo is the one who talks about my weight.

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posted November 23, 2020 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you should stick to males with Cancer aspects they like women that are bit thicc.

Anyway I never really liked Virgo males they have this sense of body perfection while overlooking there own body imperfections.

I have no idea what your body is like or what you look like so I can't comment.

All I will say is there's a diffrence between being plump and being overweight,
being plump isn't a bad thing.

That also applies to any of the other women on lindaland that may be concerned about there weight, know the diffrence between overweight and being plump.

If you're a bit overweight that's okay a quick jog in the morning will bring you down to being plump.

Even if your not overweight its still good to go for a jog anyway to unwind.


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posted November 23, 2020 11:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I think you should stick to males with Cancer aspects they like women that are thicc.

Anyway I never really liked Virgo males they have this sense of body perfection while overlooking there own body faults.

I have no idea what your body is like or what you look like so I can't comment.

All I will say is there's a diffrence between being plump and being overweight.

That also applies to any of the other women on lindaland that may be concerned about there weight, know the diffrence between overweight and being plump.

If you're a bit overweight a quick jog in the morning will bring you down to being plump.

Even if your not overweight its still good to go for a jog anyway to unwind.


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The Scorpio with Venus in Virgo says he likes my body and breasts. But he has a Libra Moon so I wonder if that's why. Or maybe he's just lying about liking my appearance. His ex is a plain jane and she has Mars in Virgo. I look nothing like her appearance-wise. Yet he says he loves my body so it doesn't make sense to me really.

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posted November 23, 2020 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Librapurr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As Virgo, I wouldn’t want somebody who is too perfect because it would point more at my own imperfections. Also, I like some fixer-upper, to improve people a little. (I don’t go banana about it) . I need to feel like I could bring something in their life, take them to the different level.
I see Taurus/Aries is out immediately if they don’t like appearance. Virgo can work with it.
If someone looks pretty good, but his biggest achievement in life is to be born, and he is completely pleased with it... This would be the much bigger problem than extra weight . “You better work b****” lol

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posted November 23, 2020 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol @ Librapurr. Love your candid response. agree. My dating and knowing Virgo energies, to my knowledge was limited to Sun version.
In my 20s my best friend was a lady Virgo, she got her first serious bf, he was skinny ~ except his bum. She raved on about it.
My bf from my teens and later in 20s for like 5 minutes .. tmi. Was a martial artist. He was all good about the extra curves but doubt that was his preference. Just a hunch because of that fluid movement some M.Artists have.
I think like my old best friend, he wanted a lanky built lady.
Just my thought there . However thinking of Libra Moon, as you, I think mentioned, might be more tolerant of tummy/top curves. Blending Cancer and Libra might be very excepting. Maybe more interested in helping with what they view as the 'right' wardrobe.
Lucky we are soups of alchemy because each person can be a surprise in what they like/don't like.

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posted November 23, 2020 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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lol @ Librapurr. Love your candid response. agree. My dating and knowing Virgo energies, to my knowledge was limited to Sun version.
In my 20s my best friend was a lady Virgo, she got her first serious bf, he was skinny ~ except his bum. She raved on about it.
My bf from my teens and later in 20s for like 5 minutes .. tmi. Was a martial artist. He was all good about the extra curves but doubt that was his preference. Just a hunch because of that fluid movement some M.Artists have.
I think like my old best friend, he wanted a lanky built lady.
Just my thought there . However thinking of Libra Moon, as you, I think mentioned, might be more tolerant of tummy/top curves. Blending Cancer and Libra might be very excepting. Maybe more interested in helping with what they view as the 'right' wardrobe.
Lucky we are soups of alchemy because each person can be a surprise in what they like/don't like.

I don't know why he would say he likes how I look if he doesn't.

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posted November 23, 2020 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I don't know why he would say he likes how I look if he doesn't.

I forgot to add before, his decan could have something to do with it. (blending of energies) I can't answer that question, a guess is a transit was active for him to increase his random opinions in that manner. As he's a Mercury run Venus, maybe you should appeal to him, thst it's your body and it's a package deal.
As for his saying that, I don't think he doesn't like your physique. He might be toying with you to see how you react too. Mercury can be a bit that way too.

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posted November 23, 2020 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I forgot to add before, his decan could have something to do with it. (blending of energies) I can't answer that question, a guess is a transit was active for him to increase his random opinions in that manner. As he's a Mercury run Venus, maybe you should appeal to him, thst it's your body and it's a package deal.
As for his saying that, I don't think he doesn't like your physique. He might be toying with you to see how you react too. Mercury can be a bit that way too.


He has Mercury in Scorpio the other Venus in Virgo guy is a Virgo Sun with Mercury in Libra. And he would tell me how I needed to lose weight and how he hated when I wore extensions.

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I remember a guy with Venus in Virgo. He dated younger women for years, and said that he would never get married. Several years ago, he met a woman closer to his own age, and they really fell in love. They are now married and inseparable.

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posted November 23, 2020 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Well, no matter where someone's Venus is, they have no right to tell you to lose weight. Best weight you can lose is the weight of him!

ETA: in light of what you said, he was probably projecting his insecurities about his own appearance onto you.


Agreed.

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posted November 23, 2020 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for efaki94     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My bf with venus in virgo comments sometimes my belly for fun since I have gain weight
But I know he means it even if he laughs
It doesn't bother me because
I feel OK about my body for now.
But when he sees me all dressep up
With full make up on he says he feels
That I'm too beautiful for him..
Like he doesn't deserve it.
I'm a venus virgo too and I find his extra weight sexy I don't like thin bodies and muscles at all.

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Hope you don't take their words in your heart. They feel insecure about themselves that's why they make those comments.
The thing is you to like yourself first and the others come after 🙏

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posted November 23, 2020 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hope you don't take their words in your heart. They feel insecure about themselves that's why they make those comments.
The thing is you to like yourself first and the others come after 🙏


Yes. That is how I see it too. Men who want to change women, are dealing with their iwn dissatisfaction in self. They may not be mentally mature to see this within themself.
Be you .. be proud of you. ♡

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posted November 24, 2020 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Librapurr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MoonMystic:

Just my thought there . However thinking of Libra Moon, as you, I think mentioned, might be more tolerant of tummy/top curves. Blending Cancer and Libra might be very excepting. Maybe more interested in helping with what they view as the 'right' wardrobe.
Lucky we are soups of alchemy because each person can be a surprise in what they like/don't like.


Yes. I don’t mind some tummy, but usually my type has strong hands with lean muscle. However, my biggest crush barely fit my average “profile” You cannot always get what’ you want😊 The right wardrobe is one of my favorite. One time I had a crush on a guy, and I had weird ideas how nice it would be to dress him up before anything else😊


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posted November 24, 2020 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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..Also, I like some fixer-upper, to improve people a little. (I don’t go banana about it) . I need to feel like I could bring something in their life, take them to the different level...

You are truly one of a kind and don't you forget that!!!.

That's how you end up falling for someone when you start investing time into them.

I had a similar conversation with a female libra coworker I used to work with years ago and she said something similar.

Glad to hear that from you and your not the Margaret Thatcher libra type.

Anyway as I mentioned early there's nothing wrong with being plump.

Frankly I think alot of us are becoming plump even me by being stuck working at home and rarely doing any activity outside because of COVID restrictions.

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posted November 25, 2020 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Librapurr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
DualGemV2, the Margaret Thatcher libra type lol I wish😄 The woman just had the stressful and complicated job.
Unfortunately, my good intentions have tendency to manifest in the wrong way.
I thought it’s more Virgo thing than Libra.

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posted November 27, 2020 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by efaki94:
Hope you don't take their words in your heart. They feel insecure about themselves that's why they make those comments.
The thing is you to like yourself first and the others come after 🙏

I would agree. I am a woman with Virgo Venus and I can say I have felt this. But as I have aged and matured, I know that I am projecting. Virgo Venus struggles with idealism and perfectionism. That said, I prefer imperfection in my partner because I never want someone else to hold me to the standards I hold myself to.

Regardless, a person who makes derogatory comments about someone they love and care about is not in a healthy space. Protect and love yourself first and foremost.

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