posted January 02, 2021 03:48 AM            

I’ve been thinking a lot about Neptune in relationships these days... mainly because of my latest romantic “thing”.. that is pretty Neptunian in vibe...

What’s interesting is that in my experience (in synastry).. it is almost always the Neptune person doing the idealising... not so much the personal planet person. The personal planet person seems more grounded. The Neptune person can really lose themselves in a day-dream of what the relationship might be... even when... realistically it might never actually become that.

What experiences have you had with Neptune in synastry and composite? Were you the Neptune person or the planet person? And.. who do you believe was more idealistic or delusional in the relationship?

Also .. if there were lies involved... was it more so the personal planet person lying to make sure they stay on the amazing pedestal Neptune built for them... or was Neptune the source of the lies?

posted January 02, 2021 04:00 AM            

For me it was, very romantic. The kind of love you with all my heart, accepting our flaws with love.

posted January 02, 2021 04:47 AM            

Yes Yes yes a thousand times. My Neptune is closest to my asc + I've been trapped in Neptune's net through my life. Moreso pre marriage.
I fell hard for a few in my time. I built them up in my mind to be pretty magnificent, anything but dull right? Usually it was when I was less cautious. Example: I recall one, when my bf and I broke up, this next door guy was after me. I was mesmerized by his charm. He was completely a fake. Rebound + Neptune
- hindsight is 20/20. I hadn't known him well enough and with my rebound, directed my interest at his advances. We went out. Oh the charm was a facade - a few weeks later I knew it.

posted January 03, 2021 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
As a Pisces Venus, I like Neptunian themes it feels like a different kind of connection than with anyone else it feels like a soul connection.

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posted January 04, 2021 10:36 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
[B]tbh I'm afraid of Neptunian relationships. Give me that real Saturn vibe asap. Imagine I had Pisces Sun, Moon alongside Neptune in there first aspecting ever single planet and thing (squares and conjunctions) in a composite before. Like can you imagine the delusion. When I see harsh aspects, I'm uber weary but even the sextiles and trines can allow the flow of destructive behaviours whereas harsher aspects show the problems early on. They're hard to ignore.

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I’m not grounded by myself. I need Saturn or Mercury to show what is real.
I’ve never known how to make it work. Sometimes, I think 12th/ Neptune things should just stay in 12th house and dreams, and don’t interfere with real life.

I do enjoy the feeling, but ending is mostly plutonic. Damn, lessons. Maybe, this is the problem. Feeling is so nice and otherworldly so you don’t have much desire to do reality check. And when you’re forced to do it, it’s often disappointing. “We had the perfect relationship before you actually needed to get involved “

posted January 05, 2021 10:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Neptunian people understand each other and seek Neptunian relationships, only Neptunians can feel their feelings the way they do and ordinary people cannot compete with another neptunian. If your guy is a Neptunian and you are not, chances are he will drift towards another Neptunian or will still dream about their Neptunian ex.
Same with the Plutonic people - only plutonic relationships do it for them, nothing else gives them the satisfaction, and only another plutonian speak their language. And saturnian people seek saturnian relationships, nothing can feel so close to their heart. And so on, same with Uranians.

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What would make a person Neptunian and Saturnian? Is it possible to be all three? I’m Plutonian and Uranian sometimes I feel like I’m Neptunian because of my Pisces Venus.

posted January 05, 2021 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
ChildofVenus, you can check your dominant planet at astro-seek.com. After you calculate your chart, you have a section of dominant planets. There it shows what are your dominant planets and your element or signature.

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posted January 05, 2021 02:38 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah, it says that my dominant signature is Sagittarius.

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Seems from this perspective Uranus and Saturn are your strongest Planets. That's because Aquarius is on an Angle and the rulers of same are Angular and aspected to the Sun which is also the chart ruler, and very closely aspected to Venus which is the ruler of Sun Sign and the MC--Venus. It doesn't hurt that you also have Moon in Aquarius i.e. this supports an underlying pattern.

Because Venus rules your MC and Sun (which in turn rules your ASC/chart), it does become a more sensitive and amplifying symbol, and so it does "boost" Pisces more than it would be otherwise in your chart.

However, consider that your Venus in Pisces is fairly closely cusping Aries, hence flavoring the Pisces with Aries or in other words, making the violet Pisces more reddish in tone and closer to the magenta rather than pure/true violet.

In a way, this would give a bit of a more Sagittarius like feel and energy to Venus all in all (meaning, basically Pisces but with a definite Sag vibe and flavor). As Sagittarius is a reddish purple as well in an archetypal sense. That's the difference between Sagittarius and Pisces energetically. Both are near the purple/violet wavelength/frequency, but Sagittarius is more reddish toned (a bit slower vibratory) and Pisces is more blue balanced (a bit faster vibratory). (Some day, in the future after the collapse, more and more people will better understand the connections between astrology and one's aura and energetic centers/endocrine glands. This will start to happen when people start to become more collectively and consciously psychic/intuitive, expect it in 20 years or so).

This makes for a Venus that is a little less sacrificing, mystical, and passive, and a little more self focused, passionate, active, and fiery than Pisces usually is/indicates. With all the Signs, the most "pure" Sign expression is from around 10 to 20 degrees of that Sign. The rest is starting to cusp/blend with either the Sign before or after, just as colors on a color wheel gradually phase from one color into another. They don't just "jump" from one pure color to another.

Neither do the dimensions in dimensional systems. For example, those that we call "ghosts" (i.e. stuck individuals) are temporarily phased and stuck between the 3rd dimension and the 4th dimension. If say the 3rd dimension was like the color red, and the 4th dimension like the color orange, then ghosts are in the reddish orange area in between.

All vibration flows from one major frequency to another and all is connected/One.

posted January 05, 2021 06:55 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What would make a person Neptunian and Saturnian? Is it possible to be all three? I’m Plutonian and Uranian sometimes I feel like I’m Neptunian because of my Pisces Venus.

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I would assume you are mostly Uranian. Your DSC is in Aquarius/Uranian , your love planet Venus squares tightly Uranus, and Uranus conjuncts your 5th house cusps and your Moon (emotions) is in Aqua/Uranus

posted January 06, 2021 12:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I would assume you are mostly Uranian. Your DSC is in Aquarius/Uranian , your love planet Venus squares tightly Uranus, and Uranus conjuncts your 5th house cusps and your Moon (emotions) is in Aqua/Uranus

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Yes I am Uranian but I always attract people who have 12th house placements that are Neptunian like this person.

posted January 06, 2021 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
they have Sun in the 12th house yes and Venus is on the cusp so he does have Neptunian outlook of life indeed which is attracted to your Pisean Venus, but look at their own Uranus - it conjuncts his Moon and opposes his Sun , so Uranus affects both of his luminaries, and basically Uranus ia on his Sun-Moon midpoint.

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