posted January 20, 2021 07:55 AM            

*What was he like throughout your relationship, and the way he treated you?

He was close to being the perfect boyfriend for about 2 years, and then everything went down hill horribly.
He became very verbally abusive and even threatened physical abuse.

*How long were you guys together?

Almost 3 years... but half the time we were long distance.. which I think added to the problems we had.

*If you are still with him, has he expressed his thoughts or an action-plan towards official-engagement, marriage, and family?

Yes he wanted to get married. We had plans.. He still emails me now, a year after our breakup.. and keeps swearing up and down that he’s a changed man.. sigh. I think it’s hard for him to move on but this is more so his Taurus placements.
I was very heartbroken in this relationship and I couldn’t go back to trusting him which is why I ended it for good, and I’m not looking back.

*Do you remember how his Venus and/or Mars in Aries was/is aspected?

His Venus is squaring Jupiter/Chiron in Cancer, and Moon/Neptune/Uranus in Capricorn.. so it’s at the apex of a t-square..
And my Sun is exactly conjunct his Venus.

I feel like we had those sweet “Sun/Venus” moments... but his Venus is very hurt... He ended up projecting a lot of negavitity onto me. He is genuinely sorry... but it just doesn’t change much now.

*Which house was it placed in?

10th house.

*Were/are your Ascendant, Moon, Mercury, or Venus Signs compatible?

We both have Capricorn Moons.. and his Mercury is conjunct my Venus in Taurus.

We also have a Mercury/Mars double whammy.. His Mars conj my Mercury in Pisces and my Mars trine his Mercury.
To begin with this was positive... lots of communication... but as we were breaking up (because this breakup dragged on for about 4 months)... it was just constant arguments and going round in circles with the same issues... He said we were attacking each other like piranhas... and yes.. I’d say that’s a good analogy.

*How does he deal with day-to-day life?

posted January 20, 2021 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
My ex has Aries Venus 🙂🙃

*What was he like throughout your relationship, and the way he treated you?

He was close to being the perfect boyfriend for about 2 years, and then everything went down hill horribly.
He became very verbally abusive and even threatened physical abuse.

*How long were you guys together?

Almost 3 years... but half the time we were long distance.. which I think added to the problems we had.

*If you are still with him, has he expressed his thoughts or an action-plan towards official-engagement, marriage, and family?

Yes he wanted to get married. We had plans.. He still emails me now, a year after our breakup.. and keeps swearing up and down that he’s a changed man.. sigh. I think it’s hard for him to move on but this is more so his Taurus placements.
I was very heartbroken in this relationship and I couldn’t go back to trusting him which is why I ended it for good, and I’m not looking back.

*Do you remember how his Venus and/or Mars in Aries was/is aspected?

His Venus is squaring Jupiter/Chiron in Cancer, and Moon/Neptune/Uranus in Capricorn.. so it’s at the apex of a t-square..
And my Sun is exactly conjunct his Venus.

I feel like we had those sweet “Sun/Venus” moments... but his Venus is very hurt... He ended up projecting a lot of negavitity onto me. He is genuinely sorry... but it just doesn’t change much now.

*Which house was it placed in?

10th house.

*Were/are your Ascendant, Moon, Mercury, or Venus Signs compatible?

We both have Capricorn Moons.. and his Mercury is conjunct my Venus in Taurus.

We also have a Mercury/Mars double whammy.. His Mars conj my Mercury in Pisces and my Mars trine his Mercury.
To begin with this was positive... lots of communication... but as we were breaking up (because this breakup dragged on for about 4 months)... it was just constant arguments and going round in circles with the same issues... He said we were attacking each other like piranhas... and yes.. I’d say that’s a good analogy.

*How does he deal with day-to-day life?

This is a difficult question lol He seems to be doing ok now... but generally he has been very unstable in many areas of his life... Maybe things are looking up for him though!

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posted January 22, 2021 12:37 AM            

How long were you guys together?
Less than 3 years

If you are still with him, has he expressed his thoughts or an action-plan towards official-engagement, marriage, and family?
Yeah but not in the way I liked. He told me I wasn't marriage material. He said he was waiting for me to change (I'm not sure what that means)

Do you remember how his Venus and/or Mars in Aries was/is aspected?
They were conjunct and square Neptune (widely) same with trine Uranus

Which house was it placed in? Did/does he have any planets in the 5th or 7th House? Were/are your Moon or Venus Signs compatible? How does he deal with day-to-day life?

I think we can be compatible but the relationship made me feel lonely. We have some Saturn harsh aspect in composite.

I think his birth time is not correct, it was rounded. Venus/Mars 5th and Chiron in 7th

posted January 22, 2021 08:46 AM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
What was he like throughout your relationship, and the way he treated you?
This person I dated had both Mars/Venus conjunct my Sun. We were in our early 20s. He was pretty independent and gets angry/annoyed easily at me. I didn't mind haha but he isn't romantic.

How long were you guys together?
Less than 3 years

If you are still with him, has he expressed his thoughts or an action-plan towards official-engagement, marriage, and family?
Yeah but not in the way I liked. He told me I wasn't marriage material. He said he was waiting for me to change (I'm not sure what that means)

Do you remember how his Venus and/or Mars in Aries was/is aspected?
They were conjunct and square Neptune (widely) same with trine Uranus

Which house was it placed in? Did/does he have any planets in the 5th or 7th House? Were/are your Moon or Venus Signs compatible? How does he deal with day-to-day life?

I think we can be compatible but the relationship made me feel lonely. We have some Saturn harsh aspect in composite.

I think his birth time is not correct, it was rounded. Venus/Mars 5th and Chiron in 7th

He likes to do his own thing, he doesn't talk about his hardship at work with me often but I know he hated his job. Very independent. If we hang out, we do our own things in the same room. It was an odd relationship for me, he can go on a week or two without contacting me. He ignores my text or take a long time to respond. One of the least satisfying relationship. Even my moon trine and venus sextile his Sun and Moon/Mars conjunct wasn't enough

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posted January 22, 2021 04:33 PM            

I shared similar experience with a friend as well and they both have Mercury in Aquarius and Sag moon.

He was Scorpio Rising and Aquarius Sun. Physical intimacy was lacking for us. But he was passionate in the beginning - like half a year and it became a Sahara desert. The relationship died due to other reasons I haven't mentioned and one of that reason was he couldn't stop physically cheat, if we argue he goes find someone else. I wanted to find peace and come to terms this is the pattern in our relationship, so I end it.

posted January 22, 2021 05:28 PM            

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posted January 22, 2021 07:11 PM            

I don't think it's his placement alone. When I got him to confess why he did all this, he said he wanted a revenge. A revenge for having a different opinion on things. Now I think about it, it was rather toxic.

I don't think that is a Sag moon thing to say. It sounded... Plutonic to me. tPluto had also square his Aries Venus/Mars around the time we dated. He fell into the urge of Pluto.

posted April 26, 2021 08:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Bump!

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