posted January 23, 2021 02:02 PM            

- I have never actually been the "side chick" officially/unofficially/whatever, but people I get involved with tend to be at the tail end of breakups with their official partners. So sorta-side chick?

- I have known 3 others with Venus-8, but really only one I can comment on (1 is my main Grandma who died when I was ~12, 1 was a 14-17yo date-less virgin on the internet). The 1 has ___blatantly___ been cheated on, and she also told me how when she was 16-17 she was having sexual relations with two close friends who knew about it but didn't mind (so is it cheating if they knew? no, right? but how did this arrangement begin -- it seems sensible there was some secrecy somewhere sometime...).

- I have just discovered HGWells (one of the most famous, also insanely prolific, writers), was an ardent adulterer, philanderer, and 'cheater' probably too (like above; he was married 2x, yet had multiple "side chicks" with each). If his TOB isn't horribly off, he has Venus-8.

I wouldn't say Venus-8 alone is enough to castigate, but in my 3/3 examples I know those three words of the video check out.