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Topic: On a Libra’s a** today (Sorry)
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Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 06:52 AM
Someone explain to me. I’ve genuinely always wondered. Libra is represented by the scales. It is ruled by both venus AND saturn right? But why are they the people who I find the most prone unyielding flat out errors of judgement..?I’ve noticed it in suns, risings and mercuries too. (My sister has moon + mercury). Even when they have prominent positions in more saturnian signs like capricorn or aquarius. Amazing taste in fashion and anything else visual or art, also great verbal communicatiors (great choice of words, get their point across) but by terrible judgement I mean sometimes it could be that they are sloppy with their finances, or not ask themselves anything before befriending someone or make really bad investments, especially often so in the WRONG PEOPLE. Whether materially or in relationships. I do not see very easily the influence of Saturn here. Take it from me having it in Taurus and the 8th house (cancer sun, virgo rising, cap moon). Serious sh*t. I also think Taurus is basically a better Libra cause same (same rulers no?) but minus the flaky and the fakeness. I know that was a little judgemental, but I think the fact I have it in me to be like that is one of the reasons why Libra is really not a good match with me in anyway in personal relationships. I can just smell their ******** from miles away. (cap moon) IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 797 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted January 23, 2021 12:42 PM
First, yes, Libra could be naive and sometimes too nice. And shame on you if you use it or judge. Second, you sound like really judgmental and arrogant Saturn, Capricorn, Virgo. Not everything is supposed to be about money and the right choices. Taurus is materialistic. Libra is about sharing, Taurus is accumulating possessions. I try not to judge you for it. And what the point to do only the right choices if you can’t have fun and go after stupid things you like. I’ve had never befriended people because they could be helpful for me, but I’m thinking about changing it. I do have bad experience. I used to be nice and generous because I thought it should go in both directions, but many people can only take and never return, not even talking about giving.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73825 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 23, 2021 12:49 PM
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Chanterelle Knowflake Posts: 415 From: USA Registered: Sep 2020
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posted January 23, 2021 12:54 PM
I’ll go ahead and cop to “sloppy with finances” and “poor judgment in letting other people influence where I invest my time and energy.” IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 620 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted January 23, 2021 01:15 PM
It's a thing to take consideration in the exaltation planet of a sign?Being a Capricorn, most likely you have your Moon in square to one of her planets and I guess there is some Saturn involved here in hard aspect, but I'm just guessing. I've seen Libra to be quite indecisive. But that's not making them bad people. EDITED: I actually had a lot to learn from them. A friend of mine is a Libra and meanwhile I was upset with another friend because his girlfriend hated me for no reason at all, he made me realize that she treated me bad with his approval. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 17501 From: http://forum.astro.com/cgi/forum.cgi?action=viewprofile;username=u36170365 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2021 01:16 PM
I don’t think libra is co-ruled by Saturn. IP: Logged |
HeavenlyLove Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Allcity, Nothingland, Earth, Infinity Registered: Jan 2021
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posted January 23, 2021 01:55 PM
Hi Davina,what you're describing about Libras, is what they are doing to themselves, from your point of view (to which I can partly agree a bit, except the judgement and the tone). But what did they do to YOU to make you so angry and insulting ? Would you like it if somebody wrote about people with your constellation, he could smell your s*** from miles away, specially if this 's***' was a sometimes acurring result of you just being too nice ? What makes you so mad? Sometimes the real reason is something totally different.
------------------ As for me, all I know is I know nothing. In every person there is a sun, just let them shine. 🌄 Both quotes from Socrates.📜 IP: Logged |
GalacticCoreExplosion Knowflake Posts: 2347 From: Somewhere Registered: Sep 2019
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posted January 23, 2021 06:21 PM
Davina, keep in mind that Taurus-Libra connection has a 6th-8th House connection and connotation underneath the interaction. If you put Libra on the ASC of a natural, whole Sign/House wheel, then Taurus is naturally found on the cusp of the 8th. If you put Taurus on the ASC, then one finds Libra on the 6th House cusp. 8th House deals a lot with shadow--in the classic sense of the term--those most uncomfortable parts of self that we'd rather not face and shove down into the unconscious. It often comes out in projection via judgement of others. Also, side note, strong Taurus also tends to have a "dark attraction" to those with strong Libra. Dark can mean anything from obsessive-compulsive, to push-pull, to love-hate, etc. Did someone or someones with strong Libra hurt you deeply? (As an aside, people might be surprised by this, but Taurus can be one of the most grudge holding Signs of the Zodiac, along with Cancer and Scorpio.) IP: Logged |
Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 06:25 PM
Ami Anne,That’s exactly what it is, I did point to two or three of my positions to enhance that IP: Logged |
Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 07:07 PM
Librapurr,true that I may sound arrogant & judgemental, like when I said I think Taurus is better. Before that I really did just ask what do Saturn + Libra equal. I am not saying they’re the only people that can have many flaws relating to errors of judgement. I may have made this a general assumption rather than just things that represent a degree-sensitive struggle I have had personally. Sorry about making it general. But I was also saying these things are quite different from what they’re always described as. different than what they usually describe them as. Never said that one couldn’t spend on things they like. And everyone is capable of being really judgemental but yes indeed Libra and Virgo the worst of all. Which you greatly expressed by sizing them right back (and spot on too).
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Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 07:30 PM
GalacticCoreExplosion,I really like this perspective! Very well put. I am not a Taurus I am a Cancer. Saturn in this position is just where this perspective is coming from. My sister is not always making errors of judgement because of her libra mercury or moon. For her it’s just the deceptiveness in her stance, in the ways she can be aversive to my choices, she sure makes a fine critic as well. The art of passive side-taking. Hypocrisy in the ways she communicates her opinion sometimes, depending on her influence to/on people and environment.
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Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 07:47 PM
Heavenly love,i’ll take accountability for the judgement and tone part. I do not think that libras are bad people, or that they’re sh’*tty. I said I I could smell it when it is sh*t and someone is hiding it. And it’s very interesting, why must you assume that the result of rendering those remarks, even done a bit brutally yes, can mostly only be true as a consequence of you « being too nice » or « indecisive »? That’s the thing, they are not always things that you do only to yourselves you know? Because that constellation in some positions tends to make people enclined to lack self-judgement (not selflessness) doesn’t mean enclinement to objectifying, using and being practically discriminating to people isn’t to watch for very or out of the picture. Especially in this fast day and age. Maybe just hearing it and taking it for what it is, and not always brushing things to « hating » or « being mad ». You won’t just suddenly melt. IP: Logged |
Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 07:51 PM
ChanterelleLol I’m sorry. I really hope you be mindful of that and positive things can go your way. IP: Logged |
Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 08:01 PM
If I may add,I am not a capricorn or taurus but a Cancer. I do understand that people are made out of many layers and are not simple masses of ego or things that either work or don’t. And lastly, the GAG is I AM joining the libra club. Time for my personal revolution has come in 2020 with my prog. chart. All four of the angles, following the asc progressing from virgo to 0’1 libra, have shifted into a cardinal initiation party. Surprise  This is the only time any of my personal positions or planets have ever even approached this sign. Not even an asteroid. I’m just wondering how does it work ya know. With all the libra many facets of libra I’ve seen. IP: Logged |
Sunnya Knowflake Posts: 660 From: Sunnyland Registered: Jun 2014
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posted January 23, 2021 08:07 PM
Libra is not co-ruled by Saturn. Libra is ruled by Venus. The more "exteriorized"/"social" archetype of Venus. (the internalized Venusian archetype rules Taurus). Period.Are you confusing Libra with Aquarius by any chance? Yet, the most fitting word is "traditional" ruler and not "co-ruler". Edit: Or you've heard that Saturn is exalted in Libra and thought that meant ruling? It doesn't  IP: Logged |
Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 08:31 PM
If I may add,I am not a capricorn or taurus but a Cancer. I do understand that people are made out of many layers and are not simple masses of ego or things that either work or don’t. And lastly, the GAG is I AM joining the libra club. Time for my personal revolution has come in 2020 with my prog. chart. All four of the angles, following the asc progressing from virgo to 0’1 libra, have shifted into a cardinal initiation party. Surprise  This is the only time any of my personal positions or planets have ever even approached this sign. Not even an asteroid. I’m just wondering how does it work ya know. With all the libra many facets of libra I’ve seen. IP: Logged |
Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 08:32 PM
If I may add,I am not a capricorn or taurus but a Cancer. I do understand that people are made out of many layers and are not simple masses of ego or things that either work or don’t. And lastly, the GAG is I AM joining the libra club. Time for my personal revolution has come in 2020 with my prog. chart. All four of the angles, following the asc progressing from virgo to 0’1 libra, have shifted into a cardinal initiation party. Surprise  This is the only time any of my personal positions or planets have ever even approached this sign. Not even an asteroid. I’m just wondering how does it work ya know. With all the libra many facets of libra I’ve seen. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 797 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted January 23, 2021 08:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Davina98: Librapurr,true that I may sound arrogant & judgemental, like when I said I think Taurus is better. Before that I really did just ask what do Saturn + Libra equal. I am not saying they’re the only people that can have many flaws relating to errors of judgement. I may have made this a general assumption rather than just things that represent a degree-sensitive struggle I have had personally. Sorry about making it general. But I was also saying these things are quite different from what they’re always described as. different than what they usually describe them as. Never said that one couldn’t spend on things they like. And everyone is capable of being really judgemental but yes indeed Libra and Virgo the worst of all. Which you greatly expressed by sizing them right back (and spot on too).
I don’t know how you saw it in my comment. First, you say about Libra’ s bad choices, now - it’s too judgmental. Already, the worst one. Somebody with Cap, Saturn and Virgo making these statements just cannot call Libra and Virgo the worst. Look at the mirror first. What the point to apologize if you make it worse in the end 🤔 Make up your mind, If we would be that judgmental, we would make better choices, especially, with people. Libra is capable of seeing many sides of one issue in the same time what makes hard to make a decision. I don’t agree with some choices of people around me. I could say something, but I don’t stop communication with them because of it unless it’s hurting me. IP: Logged |
Davina98 Knowflake Posts: 80 From: Montréal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2021 08:56 PM
ChanterelleLol I’m sorry. I really hope you be mindful of that and positive things can go your way. IP: Logged |
GalacticCoreExplosion Knowflake Posts: 2347 From: Somewhere Registered: Sep 2019
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posted January 23, 2021 10:30 PM
Tbh, I did read your OP rather quickly, and overlooked that you just have Saturn in Taurus. This wouldn't really be "strong" Taurus. However, since you have Cap Moon, it would make it more sensitive/amplified than otherwise would be since Saturn is the ruler of your Moon, and thus the Moon Sign's ruler and strongest aspects do get more highlighted. Would call Taurus "moderately strong" in your chart in that case. Edited to fix a mistake. IP: Logged |
HeavenlyLove Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Allcity, Nothingland, Earth, Infinity Registered: Jan 2021
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posted January 24, 2021 01:45 PM
Hello Davina 🙏My English is not so great, a few expressions might therefore leed to misunderstandings. In my perception and feeling, you do come over quite angry in many of your words, and that usually doesn't help the mind to stay clear and objective and really hear/reade what the other person sead/wrote. The situation in a forum in the internet makes it worse : You cannot easily ask inbetween, how or what the other meant, you cannot see his physical appearence, his aura, face expression or body language, no tone of voice, you don't know his history and culture, you cannot feel into his feelings. So one simply assumes and reads things into the written letters, that were eighter possibly meant very different or were never written at all. When you write something yourself, you are used to - from natural communication-situations in person - send out endlessly more signals than you are able to with your keyboard. So you have the feeling, you expressed something, and the other person should have heard it. Humans are not made for communicating in letters only, specially not fast and in a group of strangers, about deepgoing subjects and their feelings. But IF you are doing it anyway, like we are here, we all have to be extremely careful about what the other person really literally wrote, and ask him/her, what he/she meant, before we assume something negative, what makes us desinterested, think the other person is not intelligent, think he is bad in any way or whatever... I tried, when I was reading your initial post, to read exactly what you wrote, not more or less than that. And I repeated the reading a few times, and again after you answered to my comment. I still cannot find any sentences in your first post, where you would have mentioned in which way Libras are in your experience/oppinion doing anything that was not pleasant for you or others, except for themselves. Please reade it again. You critisised me for not hearing it, I should take it for what it is, and I would not just suddenly melt. I was in my answer, in contrary to what you wrote, not saying, that Libras are exclusively always doing things against themselves, and not against others, I was not even talking about that. I wrote, that YOU were mentioning only what Libras are doing against themselves, in your view, and I agreed partly. Then I asked you, what made you mad, because you showed madness and were insulting. I have to post this now for technical reasons, although it is not finished, I will edit it.
I'm finished now without perfection for the moment. I do like very much, that you owned up to a few points and wrote some additional points in which you relativatet something and took away some generalisations. But not everything... You did indeed generalize this sentence, that you can 'smell their sh** from miles away. Please read it again. But only in your last post, you mentioned for the first time some things, very briefly, without any explanation or examples, some things that in your view or experience Libras do to the disadvantage of others. By the way, you also assumed, that I was a Libra. I never said that eighter. ------------------ As for me, all I know is I know nothing. In every person there is a sun, just let them shine. 🌄 Both quotes from Socrates.📜 IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 3095 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted January 24, 2021 01:49 PM
saturn is exalted in libra, but libra is only ruled by venusthat being said anyone can make mistakes when i've made a mistake regarding the "wrong people" it's because i'm being fair and giving everyone a chance and not just reacting like i know how things will go can be bad, can be good, but it's fair 🤷♀️ i also give people chances to grow because that's also fair, it can be the wrong choice but i'd rather be wrong giving someone else a chance than wrong shutting someone out i have venus in libra conjunct my libra ascendant (south node conjunct too) i'm not cynical enough to make the sort of "good decisions" you seem to think people should always make, i'm good with that IP: Logged |
HeavenlyLove Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Allcity, Nothingland, Earth, Infinity Registered: Jan 2021
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posted January 24, 2021 01:59 PM
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