posted January 28, 2021 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Haha, I love this answer 😊

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posted January 28, 2021 11:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Chanterelle:
That’s a different story... and I did learn that first part. Just sayin’... the opposite extreme can be endless repetition of “___doesn’t hate you, she’s just a 🤬 when this thing happens, you don’t have to spend time with her if you don’t want to.” No fun at all being the Libra to a pessimistic Taurus in a family, office, etc.

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I supposed we’re coming from different angles because obviously you have your own unique experiences. Nothing wrong if you had told your man that. Sounds right to me. My example was different. Recap on my Libra friend. She kept insisting I must’ve said some sh*t to that friend to make her aggressive towards me (on several occasions). It was not until she saw that friend attacked me unprovoked then she believed me. I couldn’t help but wonder: why does it take this much for her (who has known me since childhood) to believe me? On the other hand, I’ve always protected her. When a friend tried to bad mouth her I told that friend “XXX would never do that”. I said that because I know her well enough. Funny thing is she has also asked me this before: “Do you think I’ll do such a thing?” when someone wrongs her. So if she expects this level of trust from me, why is it that she doesn’t accord me with the same level of trust when I told her someone attacked me? Lol.

posted January 29, 2021 12:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Chanterelle:
...sometimes you do just have to make a judgment call based on trust rather than proof.

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posted January 29, 2021 11:10 AM            

At times, I cannot figure out if it is against me before more evidence coming. Or I need somebody else to tell me this was inappropriate toward me, and I start to think whether this was really bad. Maybe, she did it because she misunderstood what I did 2 months ago...
Also, sometimes you need to say directly that you just need to let it out, somebody to understand, not to provide a solution. I might fail to recognize it.
If I see somebody is being treated unfair, I’ll get involved.

Moreover, I’ve known many hot-headed people who could randomly lash out and later be surprised how it’s their fall, and “anyway, it’s already 4 days past how people can hold a grudge for such a long time”.