posted January 25, 2021 03:50 PM            

I had 2 marriage proposals in past,i declined because i wasn't ready. I didn't even dated,those 2 men were into me from start and rushed. Im now 34

But even if I do find some man who will again take me seriously,does it mean he might leave me for a woman who have planets in her 7th house? Are women who have planets in 7th are more desirable to men?

Is that truth?

posted January 25, 2021 04:23 PM            

In the 7th house, I have:
Mercury
Venus
Sun
Chiron
Moon

Most of these, if not all, are conjunct the Descendant itself.

If I can have all these 7th house placements and not want a partner, anything is possible lol.

posted January 25, 2021 05:38 PM            

But Mee,my question was more if men can fully love and see desirable women with no any planets in their 7th?

I did have men who liked me,wanted me ,pursued,but maybe if we ended together they would fall out of love because my 7th house is empty if you get me now better?

posted January 25, 2021 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by andrea22:
Andronas,whoah! you really have alot of them in 7th. I "envy" you , haha,kidding.. but im sure you will be able to find anyone whenever you want and you are ready for it.

But Mee,my question was more if men can fully love and see desirable women with no any planets in their 7th?

I did have men who liked me,wanted me ,pursued,but maybe if we ended together they would fall out of love because my 7th house is empty if you get me now better?

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I think it's unwise to go backwards like that when thinking about astrology, because you don't know for certain what can happen and having that mindset can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. There's probably a lot of people out there with great relationships who don't have planets in the 7th house.

Plus, it's probably less significant whether there are planets in the 7th house from an astrological perspective, and more significant whether the ruler of the 7th house has any dignity or debility in terms of traditional astrology. I don't have your chart, so I can't see that for you. But it might be a good idea to look it up for yourself if you feel like it.

posted January 25, 2021 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by andrea22:
Does it mean I can't truly ever be desirable as a woman for dating/marriage to any man because my 7th house is empty?
Will any man see me just as sexual because of it?

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posted January 25, 2021 09:36 PM            

We can never completely understand what it is like to be another person. Everyone is going to have strengths and weakness related to 7th house matters regardless how many planets are there. The only difference is in how they manifest themselves. Your 7th house as well as every other part of your chart is how it is for a reason that benefits you, speaking from a soul perspective.

Dont forget that the 7th house isn't exclusive to romantic relationships, but every relationship. Don't forget that the Descendant also rules "open enemies" so its not all hearts and roses.

I mentioned in your other thread that my 7th is bare too. Same sign. Means very little to me that it is because if it was anything other than what it is then it would not be me.

posted January 25, 2021 09:57 PM            

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Originally posted by andrea22:
But Mee,my question was more if men can fully love and see desirable women with no any planets in their 7th?

I did have men who liked me,wanted me ,pursued,but maybe if we ended together they would fall out of love because my 7th house is empty if you get me now better?

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There is no such thing. I know people with empty 7H and they have good relationships. You need to look at how your 7th ruler, which in your case is Saturn, is doing - sign, house, aspects. Also see your Venus as that shows your love life.

posted January 25, 2021 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:

Sometimes having planets in 7H isn’t a good thing. It depends what planets are in it. Having Moon/Venus/Mercury/Jupiter/Saturn (yes, surprisingly Saturn) are generally considered good. Having Uranus/Neptune/Sun/Nodes are generally considered bad.

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posted January 25, 2021 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Why Nodes are bad?

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When Nodes are in the 1-7 axis, it usually creates a problem balancing the amount of giving/receiving between the native and others. E.g. with NN in 7th (I’ve this placement so I’m more familiar with it) these people are usually very self-sufficient and independent, which is good, but they may end up not knowing how to share and give, how to make sacrifices. On the flip side they may also end up giving too much to others and feel dissatisfied. They will keep seeking partnerships but will not be satisfied. Many with such placements end up feeling disconnected with their partners or stay single for a long time because at some point they feel so fedup with relationships. The generally advice here is to marry late and IME, choose the right company.

NN in 1st (SN in 7th) is largely the same, just that these people tend to be overly dependent on their partner instead as they fear they can’t function without them. On the flip side they may also end up being too self-focused with an overblown ego. They also tend to people-please a bit too much. My aunt has this placement.