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Topic: Coming off flirty
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SimplyLuna Knowflake Posts: 660 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted February 19, 2021 07:48 PM
What combination gives this impression?My friend and I have similar archetype in our chart and some similar aspects: > Venus/Moon > Venus/Uranus > Sun/Pluto > Mercury/Uranus > Both our moon in 5th but she has Mercury and Sun while mines Pluto Our fire makes us playful and Libra easy to talk to but somehow people mistaken I take an interest in them, even if its my nurturing side alone. My friend can be nurturing but somehow they see her as a playful/fun kid who just joking around. I quite dont get why its perceived differently. Only difference I see is I can be shy and she is more outwardly confident and sassy Me: Cancer rising Sun Aries Moon Libra Venus Aries Mars Sag Mercury Pisces
Friend: Libra rising Sun Aquarius Moon Aquarius Venus Sag Mars Aries Mercury Aquarius
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 2005 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted February 21, 2021 10:15 PM
Venus/Uranus + Libra would do it.IP: Logged |
MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 7026 From: ทѳ૨τђ ทѳ∂૯ ♓ Registered: Nov 2016
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posted February 21, 2021 10:36 PM
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kani Knowflake Posts: 1185 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 22, 2021 02:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by MoonMystic: ^ Librapurr has a point, electric/ Venusian quality could be strong.I'm like your friend with 3 of hers, Aries Mars, Aqua Sun + Moon. Without trying, it is strong magnetism, when trying it's just wicked. Friend's called it je ne sais quo
I don't find Aqua magnetic at all. I like them usually but magnetic? Nah. and Aries mars? I don't know. It must be something other than that that creates magnetism.
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MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 7026 From: ทѳ૨τђ ทѳ∂૯ ♓ Registered: Nov 2016
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posted February 22, 2021 07:57 AM
Oh well maybe it's my Sag ascend in the great attractor. Idk I had been hearing Aqua was probably a reason.IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4090 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 22, 2021 10:07 AM
people think i'm flirting all the time, i do sometimes by accident or like joking as a reflex, but it does get taken seriously more often than i'd like but honestly so does just me being friendly, it's kind of terrible, very hard for me to just have friends and have sex or love just never come up which kind of sucks honestly people are also really touchy with me, like ive had a lot of people tell me **** like it's abnormal for just coworkers and such to hug or cuddle up to you or hold hands etc but i never thought anything of it because it's always been a thing 🤷♀️ i have all the aspects you listed except my moon is conjunct descendant not in the 5th, only have a 5th house planet in placidus (pisces jupiter) this is my chart: IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Knowflake Posts: 74285 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 22, 2021 10:23 AM
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Chanterelle Knowflake Posts: 838 From: USA Registered: Sep 2020
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posted February 22, 2021 11:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: [B] people are also really touchy with me, like ive had a lot of people tell me **** like it's abnormal for just coworkers and such to hug or cuddle up to you or hold hands etc but i never thought anything of it because it's always been a thing 🤷♀️
This part especially I can relate to (maybe the Venus/SN thing)... if I’m comfortable around someone, the idea of having a ‘personal bubble’ just disappears: “Oh, you’re not ready to go? You can’t brush your teeth until your nails dry? Well, here, say ahh, I’ll give you a hand... what, is that weird?”😬 And I think it also has to do with the fact that I really enjoy worker-bee-type atmospheres — a kitchen or farm crew or assembly line, where a group of people are all doing their own thing in a coordinated way, is a lot of fun for me. I think that’s a big part of the reason I’d like to go back to a steady-paycheck-type job.IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4090 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 22, 2021 03:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Chanterelle: This part especially I can relate to (maybe the Venus/SN thing)... if I’m comfortable around someone, the idea of having a ‘personal bubble’ just disappears: “Oh, you’re not ready to go? You can’t brush your teeth until your nails dry? Well, here, say ahh, I’ll give you a hand... what, is that weird?”😬 And I think it also has to do with the fact that I really enjoy worker-bee-type atmospheres — a kitchen or farm crew or assembly line, where a group of people are all doing their own thing in a coordinated way, is a lot of fun for me. I think that’s a big part of the reason I’d like to go back to a steady-paycheck-type job.
if i'm close to someone then i can be like that, but i was moreso referring to the tendency of other people to be like that with me regardless of my comfort level with them i can barely know them like my last job one of the temps who i barely saw because i was mostly working in the dementia ward at that time ran over and hugged me because she was glad to see me there, and that's like disregarding covid restrictions and this was a woman who refused to work dementia because it was loaded with covid residents she knew i was up there all the time, she was crazy about other people who had been up there but not with me 🤷♀️ had another temp hug me too but that was more understandable because we were talking about her mom and stuff being on a ventilator it's men and women too like they just tend to be like that with me, and i'm not really sure why i don't generally initiate **** like hugs or anything first unless the other person has at some other point in time even with like the relationship stuff and whatnot that's also not gender specific, i'm bi so it's whatever but i just seem to draw that kind of attention and people can and do cross lines with it too, even total strangers, but i spent a lot of my life thinking it was normal only to be told by other people that i tend to get treated weirdly 🤷♀️ when i'm comfortable with someone then yeah i'm not one for many boundaries particularly physical ones, but that's different then it becomes more mutual rather than a one sided people are just like that towards me kind of thing IP: Logged |
Chanterelle Knowflake Posts: 838 From: USA Registered: Sep 2020
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posted February 22, 2021 04:11 PM
I see what you mean... like, some people just seem to naturally walk around in their own little bubble (before ‘bubble space’ was a thing), and other people have to work really hard to create/maintain the same level of personal space. I’ve actually found that REBAL visualization to be helpful in situations like that, where you want to kind of keep people at a distance without being unfriendly. (Not so much a flirtatious or touchy-feely issue, but I definitely find myself in a lot of situations where total strangers assume a level of familiarity that I find very odd at times.) For example, I’ll be sitting in front of a coffee shop, the person at the next table strikes up a conversation, and then next thing I know they’re asking me to take dictation for them while they compose a letter, or trying to teach me to play the flute or convert me to their religion or interview me for their YouTube channel or some random-a$$ thing like that. 🤷🏼♀️ Sometimes it’s hilarious, sometimes just perplexing. IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 1185 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 23, 2021 03:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: people think i'm flirting all the time, i do sometimes by accident or like joking as a reflex, but it does get taken seriously more often than i'd like but honestly so does just me being friendly, it's kind of terrible, very hard for me to just have friends and have sex or love just never come up which kind of sucks honestly people are also really touchy with me, like ive had a lot of people tell me **** like it's abnormal for just coworkers and such to hug or cuddle up to you or hold hands etc but i never thought anything of it because it's always been a thing 🤷♀️ i have all the aspects you listed except my moon is conjunct descendant not in the 5th, only have a 5th house planet in placidus (pisces jupiter) this is my chart:
I think it really is the Libra influence and the 1st house Venus. Libra can be very charming without trying to. They also do seem very approachable.
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SimplyLuna Knowflake Posts: 660 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted February 23, 2021 06:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: people think i'm flirting all the time, i do sometimes by accident or like joking as a reflex, but it does get taken seriously more often than i'd like but honestly so does just me being friendly, it's kind of terrible, very hard for me to just have friends and have sex or love just never come up which kind of sucks honestly people are also really touchy with me, like ive had a lot of people tell me **** like it's abnormal for just coworkers and such to hug or cuddle up to you or hold hands etc but i never thought anything of it because it's always been a thing 🤷♀️ i have all the aspects you listed except my moon is conjunct descendant not in the 5th, only have a 5th house planet in placidus (pisces jupiter)
Im not sure what's giving this impression either. My friend and I also have Jupiter in Pisces as well! Maybe it's a combination of these... aspects then?
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SimplyLuna Knowflake Posts: 660 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted February 23, 2021 06:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Classic for Venus in Gemini.
lol, yes I can vouch for one.The other may not be because of her Moon in 8th in cap. Mars square Saturn
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Somna7H Knowflake Posts: 1751 From: East India Company Registered: Apr 2018
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posted February 23, 2021 07:05 PM
People never take me as Flirty. Event though I have Venus Conjunct Moon in Gemini 2nd House. Poor thing is I have Saturn Conjunct Mars Conjunct Pluto in 5th.IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 23502 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 23, 2021 10:10 PM
Magnetism depends on how we're feeling, and how others feel around us, I think. Some people have "it" whatever that is, but I think it depends on synastry or attitudes, for the most part. People sometimes think I'm flirting when I'm not, but I don't think it happens that often. I have a Moon/Venus in Gemini, and am an Aries with Scorpio rising. I can have that British "stiff upper lip" thing that Graham mentioned in another thread, but I'm just very shy, and can be very "proper" when I'm unsure. IP: Logged |
placidus_flamingo Knowflake Posts: 155 From: Oakland, CA, USA Registered: Nov 2020
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posted February 24, 2021 12:01 AM
I do it without thinking, often. But I'd guess that's more to do with being chronically undersexed than astrology 😅IP: Logged |
FireVirgo Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Registered: Mar 2018
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posted February 24, 2021 12:59 AM
Immediately when I read your title, I thought Libra rising. In both my male & female friends, I feel like it’s so easy to misread their intentions. I always wonder if they realize that? Or are they just subconsciously acting agreeable (and flirty) to make sure people find them “likeable”.IP: Logged |
kani Knowflake Posts: 1185 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 24, 2021 04:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Magnetism depends on how we're feeling, and how others feel around us, I think. Some people have "it" whatever that is, but I think it depends on synastry or attitudes, for the most part. People sometimes think I'm flirting when I'm not, but I don't think it happens that often. I have a Moon/Venus in Gemini, and am an Aries with Scorpio rising. I can have that British "stiff upper lip" thing that Graham mentioned in another thread, but I'm just very shy, and can be very "proper" when I'm unsure.
Agreed. It must be a synastry thing, something individual you have with the person you find magnetic. I do think a friendly demeanour and a positive aura do appeal to many people, though. It makes them feel good to be around that person and that is why they gravitate towards them. Other people are attracted to the brooding, mysterious type and others don't find almost anyone magnetic. IP: Logged |
GalacticCoreExplosion unregistered
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posted February 24, 2021 01:17 PM
Some people are almost universally attractive. My full brother has early Virgo Venus and Mars, cusping Leo, closely conjunct and closely conjunct early Virgo Rising cusping Leo, Sun in Libra, Moon in Scorpio, pretty strong Jupiter (Sag Jupiter in 4th sextile ASC/"chart ruler" etc), and many people find him attractive. It's a combination of various different things. He is physically/facially unusually attractive, he is charming, warm, friendly and positive (something he was born with, but consciously honed as well both in childhood and when in sales), has past lives of positive, influential leadership, and has a good balance and integration between Yin and Yang energies within. He has had a couple more fully lesbian women tell him that they'd consider going to the other side for him. It was probably a good thing he did not incarnate into a tall body (he is a bit shorter than average), because it would have been even more intense. I think if he was with anyone other than his twin soul whom he is intensely, intensely attracted to and deeply, deeply loves, he'd be somewhat the type to be tempted to go outside of his marriage. But with her, he loves and values her so much that he wouldn't put their relationship in jeopardy. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 166584 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2021 06:09 PM
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problematique Knowflake Posts: 106 From: Registered: Jan 2021
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posted December 27, 2022 02:42 PM
gemini placements + leo placements. very openly witty and flirty. they even want to come off that way, they want attention (women especially).cancer + scorpio placements are flirty but not in a "in your face" manner. they're wise and know what they're doing, especially cancerian women. libras aren't flirty at all. they're too serious and diplomatic. IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1048 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted December 28, 2022 09:06 AM
I vote Libra. A friend of mine is straight up Capricorn (Sun, Mercury, Venus, Uranus, Neptune, Saturn), but Scorpio rising. She is very much not a touchy person, but she has Libra moon and flirts without even trying. To look at her chart she has all these reserved (and standoffish) planets and aspects, but here she is - way out there in the world charming the pants off of everyone!She will offer to come over to your house, clean, paint your walls, do your laundry, help you move, babysit your kids, make you dinner... all in your first time chatting with her! And, she means it too. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 8160 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 29, 2022 11:41 PM
I have Sedna conjunct my Mercury. I am kind of like a siren with my voice, even just typing online sometimes. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2760 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted December 30, 2022 12:43 AM
Moon/Venus aspect. Even the square comes across as flirty when they don't necessarily mean it to. IP: Logged |
MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 7026 From: ทѳ૨τђ ทѳ∂૯ ♓ Registered: Nov 2016
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posted December 30, 2022 04:25 AM
I looked back and my Sun, moon aren't considered as flirty, maybe there's more to flirting nature than signs and main players. I think maybe BM Lilith could be at play in flirting for some. If you have her aspect your first house or possibly Neptune or Venus it might trigger a flirtatious nature I would think. I'm accused of being flirtatious, I have her trine my asc.. she's in my Leo 8th. Flirting might be her tamer side of seduction? Idk. It's a thought. Maybe others can look at their bml and what she's doing in their natal. IP: Logged |