posted March 23, 2021 06:25 PM            

I feel like this planet in particular is in need of attention as it's likely been the source of a lot of my difficulties regarding Venusian things.

I mean I've been really miserable in that area and suffered a lot in love and financially, and am wondering if anyone has any advice on how to heal this aspect or best deal with it?

posted March 24, 2021 09:04 AM            

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posted March 24, 2021 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am different from many astrologers. I don't think everything can be remedied. I think each person has certain struggles and these remain struggles. They have gifts, too, so can maximize these, but struggles remain. I do think a true relationship with God can overcome a chart but only that.

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Agreed

posted March 24, 2021 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am different from many astrologers. I don't think everything can be remedied. I think each person has certain struggles and these remain struggles. They have gifts, too, so can maximize these, but struggles remain. I do think a true relationship with God can overcome a chart but only that.

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I understand why you might think that, but I would have to disagree. I personally believe in overcoming obstacles, and evolution, rising above things.

A person or people may lack the knowledge or experience to overcome some issue, or not know how to help someone overcome their issues and therefore think there is no way, but I do not think this is the final answer.

I have known many people who have also risen above or changed how they express things in their chart, and even found healing.

posted March 24, 2021 03:24 PM            

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posted March 24, 2021 03:51 PM            

Fast on Fridays.

Make sure all spaces you inhabit (from house to car, down to windows and mirrors of both) are clean, de-cluttered and orderly.

Cease from criticizing others. Such negative thinking helps no one. Before start blaming another and nitpicking them, look at yourself. This is the best thing to put it into practice in everyday life. Should learn how to appreciate others.

If you don’t have a relationship with your mother, start there.

posted March 24, 2021 07:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What have you experienced from this?

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Hmm, I guess dislike of romance, disillusionment with the idea of dating. General dislike of dating anyway. Not much belief in romantic partners in general. Don't get me wrong, I've had some decent relationships, but they never satisfy. I'm kind of like a vulcan in general I guess, and I don't even get jealous. That bothered one of my partners, because he was always jealous, always possessive. For me, jealousy is something to learn to overcome. There are better ways to show care.
Financially speaking, I work my fingers to bone to improve my lifestyle, and yet keep getting blocks and issues thrown at me. I know I could have more opportunities than I do. I have been struggling to realize my dreams for many years for this reason.

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Originally posted by vansio:
Remedy for a weak or debilitated Venus: help more women. Find opportunity to help women. By charity or donation, whatever you can do — do it.

Fast on Fridays.

Make sure all spaces you inhabit (from house to car, down to windows and mirrors of both) are clean, de-cluttered and orderly.

Cease from criticizing others. Such negative thinking helps no one. Before start blaming another and nitpicking them, look at yourself. This is the best thing to put it into practice in everyday life. Should learn how to appreciate others.

If you don’t have a relationship with your mother, start there.

Stick to these steps as the principle of Venusian life and your planet will heal.

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Well I can say I like to fast sometimes, I help women, I love cleanliness and order. I don't really blame or nitpick anyone. I mostly just mind my own business unless me saying something about someone's behavior is called for.

I appreciate and honor others fairly well, though there's always room for more.

As for getting closer to my mom, that's sadly not really doable.

posted March 24, 2021 11:38 PM            

If you feel you have been hurt with love in the past, would you seek therapy until you feel healed or at least better able to experience relationships? Then do that!

Astrology can be such a great tool, but in my experience when we see negatives in our chart, this can hold us back.

If I were you, I would take honest stock of my emotional life, what I look for in a relationship, what my deal breakers are, what I am flexible about. And have my list in hand as I navigate relationships.

posted March 25, 2021 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
OP, if you did not know about astrology, if you did not know your venus was "afflicted", how would you go about life and achieving your goals?

If you feel you have been hurt with love in the past, would you seek therapy until you feel healed or at least better able to experience relationships? Then do that!

Astrology can be such a great tool, but in my experience when we see negatives in our chart, this can hold us back.

If I were you, I would take honest stock of my emotional life, what I look for in a relationship, what my deal breakers are, what I am flexible about. And have my list in hand as I navigate relationships.

There is a pot for every lid. There are people who love polyamory, cohabitation without marriage, long distance relationships, being a mistress and not a wife, celibacy, sexless relationships, there is everything under the sun. Find out what you truly like and claim it!

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I did once try therapy. There wasn't so much "wrong" as I was/am simply a very logically oriented person. I was then told that there's often a connection between having a high IQ and experiencing loneliness and/or depression, sometimes even incurable. I think at this point your advice is probably the best there is then

posted March 25, 2021 06:35 PM            

You have the ability to overcome the blockages here & while those energies will always be there they absolutly are capable of being utilized differently.

If I may throw in my 2 cents, focus entirely on your well being for right now. Don't even make having a relationship an option atm because until you resolve the issues creating low self esteem and other detriment you are just gonna keep bringing in toxic people. In the 6th house maybe a change in diet & routine is in order? Maybe you are being asked not to put so much focus into how society judges your status based on your job position. I have a friend who started working for a company as a temporary janitor making 11 bucks an hour. He busted his butt, did a good job was confident and friendly. He did this for 6mos while supporting his wife and 2 kids. After 6 mos he was offered a FT position with a higher ranking & more money. That was less than 8 years ago and he now supervises like 50 people or something and makes 80k a year cause he put in the time and effort.

I'm just saying in a nutshell that it sounds like you are being asked to make you priority #1. You deserve to be treated with the same love and respect you show. You deserve to be financially secure, no one should have to worry in this regard. There is so much real things out there to worry about.

In the 6th maybe getting a pet would be beneficial? I am so much happier having my doggie, she helps out alot. Good way to socialize with others.

Idk, just throwing a few things out there.

I'm going through that in a sense. I don't want a guy taking care of me. I wanna make my own money. I've got my own ambitions and my own agenda. I've got my own thing going and there is really nothing more important to me. A man isn't going to make me feel fulfilled. Plus emotionally I am not available so I am not even open to it.

I've suffered from codependency after my marriage. Even though I was the one who ended it I still subconsciously felt like I needed a relationship to be happy that took several years to reprogram.

I'm sorry if none of this helped, I mean well. I just want us all to realize our true potential.

Squares are parts of the chart that are meant to turn into trines. Learning this lesson is a gift you will carry with you in your soul for eternity so its totally worth the effort to overcome.

[EDIT: I edited this post because I misread some of the details initially sorry.]

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posted March 25, 2021 07:12 PM            

After all, those squares loosen, and eventually move into forming sextile and trine relationships, as evolving over time.

Plus, Progressed Venus would eventually move from the natal 6th into your "Marriage relationship based" Progressed 7th?

Depends on the 'speed' of the planets involved.

Sextile and trine from Pluto to Venus could bring Obsessions. Neptune to Venus could attract Romance.