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posted May 07, 2021 06:30 AM            

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What would you expect to see in a chart of a woman who says with her philanderering husband? And then also blames the other woman for his philanderering ways?

I could think of a few celebrities who are this way.

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posted May 07, 2021 12:49 PM            

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A lot of people stay with spouses who cheated. If they stay, I think they have to go into some sort of denial, or put the blame somewhere else.

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posted May 07, 2021 05:32 PM            

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What was your initial reply teasel?

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posted May 07, 2021 06:07 PM            

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I immediately thought of Libra- keeping the harmony. Or Gemini, able to mentally analyze things.

I am Cap moon, and Scorpio influences so there is no way I would stay.

I would also look at Chiron impacting luminaries? Wounded self image or worth, and potentially debilitated Mars. Harsh Neptune aspects? those are just my off the cuff thoughts.

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posted May 07, 2021 06:42 PM            

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um,we should check Hillary Clinton's chart. lol

Jokes aside, women stay for a variety of reasons.

Some of those reasons are convenience. Many are not interested in sex and if their husband finds his jolly somewhere else, it suits them because they don't have to have sex with him.

Some stay because the man brings in money or prestige.

Some stay because they are afraid of being alone...

In any case, Saturn could be strong in the chart.

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posted May 07, 2021 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
What was your initial reply teasel?

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It was about a family member. I decided that I don’t want to get into it.

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posted May 08, 2021 04:42 PM            

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Why does saturn make someone stay with a philanderer?

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posted May 08, 2021 06:11 PM            

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Saturn can bind two people into an agreement that is hard to break.

Saturnian people are not very emotional. They can be quite calculating and are able to put asides their feelings and look at things materialistically, as in "what's in it for me?"

If they establish there is some kind of material benefit in staying, then it becomes a valid option. As long as appearances are respected. Saturn cares about appearances.

Saturn can also make someone feel insecure about her chances of finding another mate, so she figures out, why leave this one? The devil you know is better than the devil you don't know...

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posted May 10, 2021 12:56 AM            

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Thanks for the reply. What about women who would not stay with a philanderer? I had a friend who married one. She always hoped he would change his ways but never did.

His ex wife would always refer to him as "My lying, cheating ex-husband" yet my friend knew this about him, still married him, then left him 7 months later.

He was wealthy and gave her everything from the beginning, not even a week had passed after they met that he gave her a credit card for her to buy whatever, while he paid for it.

Money was never enough for her. She demanded loyalty and devotion but he would never give it. Started cheating on her 3 months after marrying.

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posted May 19, 2021 10:02 AM            

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Bump!

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