posted May 12, 2021 05:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Do you find it stronger than your Moon or Venus Sign?!
Did you only find it “active” before or after being married?

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posted May 13, 2021 04:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Astrogirlie:

-Im a scorpio rising, 7th house in taurus. I definetley can relate to it a lot more than my venus (aries), (I do relate to my venus a bit, however, I tend to want a thrill out of my relationship here n there but not frequently lol), my moon is in taurus, so that's that. I can pretty much relate to the whole "taurean" needs in a relationship. even though i'm not married to my boyfriend, I didn't notice much of a difference before or after we moved inn together. My needs and expecations in love have remained the same. (:
, (Also, idk if this even relates to or has to do with this placement but im very shallow ... I hate to say it but I was single since day 1, because I never found any guy "handsome enough"... until found my current boyfriend, It was literally his looks, the way he dressed and polished himself, that made me want to date him. I got lucky when his positive personality traits came out,he's very earthy and since his venus is placed in taurus, im guessing that added to the whole chemistry thing we got going on ) ehh.

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posted May 13, 2021 05:10 PM            

I do want/need a partner who is Taurean. I need stability, security, luxury, sensuality... but I also need quite a bit of Mercury communication and stimulation. So here is proof of my high demands!

posted May 13, 2021 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
I don't think you are shallow. You need to be physically attracted to whoever you date. Otherwise, that's just friendship.

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physical attraction can happen in a friendship lol and a lack of physical attraction isn't necessarily a dealbreaker for other things (in my opinion)

though i wouldn't call her shallow either, i have mixed feelings on the importance of physical attraction myself (i've been with people i wasn't physically attracted to and liked otherwise, but there's a point where it's just not going to happen, and this sounds mean but i can find it easier to move past things if i'm more attracted to someone... because when someone is annoying in a relationship, and they inevitably always are, at least when they're cute they've got something going for them when they've ****** you off. still it's not a dealbreaker for me if it isn't there)

i see it more like any other trait someone could look for that another person can't help, intelligence included, people like to elevate looking for that but some people just aren't as smart as others and it's not a matter of ignorance or something they can learn

people say looks fade so can a person's mind, all works out the same

posted May 13, 2021 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
@dumuzi

it's interesting you say your mom is with your dad largely for material stability bcs I get that about myself... but I have a 2nd house Cap moon so that muddies the waters for me.

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my mother has nothing in capricorn (she's a libra sun, aries moon, scorpio ascendant/venus/mercury, and cancer mars) and it's never been much of a secret that that's how things are

pretty dead marriage but stability and so on

her venus is conjunct neptune and mercury, and it seems like that's more lived out through fantasies than anything

posted May 14, 2021 05:43 PM            

though i wouldn't call her shallow either, i have mixed feelings on the importance of physical attraction myself (i've been with people i wasn't physically attracted to and liked otherwise, but there's a point where it's just not going to happen, and this sounds mean but i can find it easier to move past things if i'm more attracted to someone... because when someone is annoying in a relationship, and they inevitably always are, at least when they're cute they've got something going for them when they've ****** you off. still it's not a dealbreaker for me if it isn't there)

i see it more like any other trait someone could look for that another person can't help, intelligence included, people like to elevate looking for that but some people just aren't as smart as others and it's not a matter of ignorance or something they can learn

people say looks fade so can a person's mind, all works out the same

posted May 14, 2021 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I am not sure. I am a late Scorpio rising, so most of my 7th house is Gem.

I do want/need a partner who is Taurean. I need stability, security, luxury, sensuality... but I also need quite a bit of Mercury communication and stimulation. So here is proof of my high demands!

I don't think I have ever really been able to separate out one aspect of my chart from any other because everything plays a role.

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posted May 14, 2021 05:58 PM            

i don't think you sound stuck up or shallow or anything (pretty sure i saw you once in a guess the ascendant thread from what i remember you're beautiful so i'm not surprised you were popular lol i don't think there's anything wrong with someone seeing that in themselves)

i care about voice a lot too 🤔 i wonder what rules that because i think we may have very different charts, but (and maybe this is mean) if i hate someone's voice i can't even speak to them really lol that's ****** up i know but the weird flipside in my case is if i'm attracted to someone's voice it can make up for me being less than thrilled with the visual

i don't place a lot of value on other people's physical appearances myself, but i think it's ok for someone to be real about what they like and want in another person

i respect your openness about it too, like you're just being real about it and i think that's better than when people try to pretend they don't care about **** to not come off a certain way

that being said though i hope he continues to improve how he treats you, because there's gotta be limits and boundaries it isn't good in the long run to take poor treatment for the sake of having someone

i don't know the situation to judge it but just, look out for yourself ok? like my ex was attractive and it made some stuff easier to tolerate in ways (like i said when they're being annoying you can still go "well you're cute" lol) but it was not a good place to be ultimately

where's your venus? curious because of how specific things you look for are, how's it aspected?

posted May 14, 2021 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
@Astrogirlie

i don't think you sound stuck up or shallow or anything (pretty sure i saw you once in a guess the ascendant thread from what i remember you're beautiful so i'm not surprised you were popular lol i don't think there's anything wrong with someone seeing that in themselves)

i care about voice a lot too 🤔 i wonder what rules that because i think we may have very different charts, but (and maybe this is mean) if i hate someone's voice i can't even speak to them really lol that's ****** up i know but the weird flipside in my case is if i'm attracted to someone's voice it can make up for me being less than thrilled with the visual

i don't place a lot of value on other people's physical appearances myself, but i think it's ok for someone to be real about what they like and want in another person

i respect your openness about it too, like you're just being real about it and i think that's better than when people try to pretend they don't care about **** to not come off a certain way

that being said though i hope he continues to improve how he treats you, because there's gotta be limits and boundaries it isn't good in the long run to take poor treatment for the sake of having someone

i don't know the situation to judge it but just, look out for yourself ok? like my ex was attractive and it made some stuff easier to tolerate in ways (like i said when they're being annoying you can still go "well you're cute" lol) but it was not a good place to be ultimately

where's your venus? curious because of how specific things you look for are, how's it aspected?

regardless though glad you found someone who you love, i think pushing yourself to date someone you don't want and settling is a terrible thing to do for you and the other person so i think it's good you didn't do that

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posted May 14, 2021 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Astrogirlie:
-The whole voice thing is really big for me, I tend to really like the sultry lively but reassuring voices. idk if that makes any sense lmao but idk im guessing it might have to do with our mercury/3rd house?? I have them both placed in aquarius.. my mercury is both trined to m venus and my NN. And as for my venus its placed in Aries, squared to Lilith and NN .... Ive seen your posts and replies on here as well ,Actually youre one of the few whos replies and posts i notice a lot on here the most, your username is one im really familiar with hah. i forgot what your chart looks like but im sure we do have big differences lol
appreciate your advice as well!

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i have a 3rd house stellium that has mars, neptune uranus (my uranus and mercury are trine) and a mercury-venus aspect (sextile) my mercury and northnode are trine but my moon is on my northnode/descendant(aries) and venus is opposite

i don't have a specific voice that i like necessarily, though i do like for people to sound soothing in some way

calm voices i guess is what does it

it's such a huge thing for me that i can't even sit in a room with someone who's watching it's always sunny in philadelphia because of charlie's voice lol it sets me on edge and bothers the **** out of me

posted May 15, 2021 05:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
my mother has nothing in capricorn (she's a libra sun, aries moon, scorpio ascendant/venus/mercury, and cancer mars) and it's never been much of a secret that that's how things are

pretty dead marriage but stability and so on

her venus is conjunct neptune and mercury, and it seems like that's more lived out through fantasies than anything

her reality is the taurus descendant in that manner

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posted May 15, 2021 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Astrogirlie:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Dumuzi:
[B] physical attraction can happen in a friendship lol and a lack of physical attraction isn't necessarily a dealbreaker for other things (in my opinion)

though i wouldn't call her shallow either, i have mixed feelings on the importance of physical attraction myself (i've been with people i wasn't physically attracted to and liked otherwise, but there's a point where it's just not going to happen, and this sounds mean but i can find it easier to move past things if i'm more attracted to someone... because when someone is annoying in a relationship, and they inevitably always are, at least when they're cute they've got something going for them when they've ****** you off. still it's not a dealbreaker for me if it isn't there)

i see it more like any other trait someone could look for that another person can't help, intelligence included, people like to elevate looking for that but some people just aren't as smart as others and it's not a matter of ignorance or something they can learn

people say looks fade so can a person's mind, all works out the same

- Ive been friends with really kind men before, with really great personalities BUT i could never date them because they just weren't "handsome enough", in my opinion. These where men that a lot of women also wanted but they never met my standards (physically speaking), I dont mean to sound mean :/ or stuck up or whatever because im really not, its just when it comes to "dating" i can be very specific. I'd rather date a handsome piece of s*** guy over a really kind guy with a great personality but thats not good looking any day. Idk why. I also don't mean to sound self centered or whatever, but Growing up i was very popular, and many men chased after me, but none of them had what i physically wanted. one didnt have the correct high cheekbones, another didnt have the correct height, another didnt have the long curly hair i wanted, CLEANLINESS and a man who took care of his hands , eyebrows, feet. I was looking for a specific nice voice, this was hard for me to find... i turned down many guys until i came across 1. It was instant physical attraction the moment i laid eyes on this man. I didnt care that he was a jerk to me for the longest time, all i cared about where his looks. within time, he started changing though and has been better to me. I fall in love with this man more n more everyday...

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posted May 15, 2021 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
8th house cancer mars? I would look to this too. Cancer mars can be squirrely, and in the 8th there could be some attempt to gain from others? What do you think?

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yeah had to look, i'm more used to her vedic chart, 8th house cancer mars

posted May 17, 2021 03:26 AM            

scorp rising
venus in 3rd conjunct urnaus and neptune