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Topic: Which Moon and/or Venus Sign is most likely to never say “I Love You” to their GF/BF?
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Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 1707
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted May 14, 2021 01:33 PM
  
My Pisces boyfriend recently told me that before me, he had never said I love you to any of his 5 previous girlfriends. He’s an Aquarius Moon & an Aries Venus. ------------------
Cancer Rising
2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
Knowflake Posts: 3475
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 14, 2021 01:42 PM
no idea i have a libra venus and aries moon and i tell friends/family/partners/people who make me momentarily really happy etc that i love them all the timeso probably not that combination lol i mean it all different ways obviously, but i tend to say things like that very freely i know a cancer venus taurus moon who doesn't say it very freely but does say it, he can be sort of cold about it though, which is a bit unusual for me not something i'm used to i had a roommate who wouldn't say it to his gf and vice versa, but idk what either of their signs were his view was that him being there was enough it wasn't necessary to say IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
Knowflake Posts: 1144
From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted May 14, 2021 08:09 PM
Im just waiting for people to say Aqua moon.But Im here to on behalf of one before they start saying us. I (Aqua moon) have no problems saying I love you to people close to me especially my fur baby lol and most def not have a problem saying I love you to my s/o. Strangers or friends is kind of different I dont have many friends actually hehe but I dont think Id be as comfortable. I dont like to use it lightly so I say it to people really close to me. I do feel really shy about it though. But I still say it even if Im shy about it. My cousin is a Pisces sun, Cancer moon and I cant imagine her saying I love you. I dont think I ever really see her have affection towards her husband or even kids. So if a Cancer moon can be this way who knows what shows this! IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
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posted May 15, 2021 12:09 AM
"waiting for people to say Aqua moon."
lol - me too. I'm one and never had troubles saying ILU. I find Sun Pisces (I'll need to look at his Moon/Venus later and update) of the ones I dated, most guarded with that sentiment. For me Scorpio and Cancer, though shelled, very verbose with love speak.
Updated -
Libra Moon, Capricorn Moon and a Capricorn Moon
This was two different men.
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teasel
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2021 01:59 AM
I can have trouble saying it, but I'm rarely that involved with anyone (I'm not a stereotype of my Gemini Moon/Venus, either, I just don't meet that many guys that I'm attracted to, and feel that sort of connection with). It's something I need to work on, because it bugs me when people can't apologize - something that's usually easy for me. I'm most likely to say it when I'm feeling those big warm fuzzy feelings, if I have the beginning of a fever, or I'm just feeling really happy, for whatever reason. I'll tell people how lucky I am to know them, and how happy I am that we know each other. Sometimes I'll hold back, because I know I'll be more reticent again. I even have trouble telling my family that I love them, although that wasn't a problem in the past. I mentioned this (the warm fuzzy part of a fever) to the Taurus, back in 2007, and he compared it to having a glass or two of wine. I don't drink much, and apparently, I don't need to (when I drink, I feel tired and grumpy). I just need to be feeling an extreme emotion, or to be on my way to feeling like I'm dying. This just made me laugh, because I feel like I'm describing my Scorpio ascendant. I’m not cold - I can be too needy, at times, and I don’t like it. I’m just cautious. IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 18445
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2021 02:01 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Dumuzi:
no idea i have a libra venus and aries moon and i tell friends/family/partners/people who make me momentarily really happy etc that i love them all the timeso probably not that combination lol i mean it all different ways obviously, but i tend to say things like that very freely i know a cancer venus taurus moon who doesn't say it very freely but does say it, he can be sort of cold about it though, which is a bit unusual for me not something i'm used to i had a roommate who wouldn't say it to his gf and vice versa, but idk what either of their signs were his view was that him being there was enough it wasn't necessary to say
The first time Sun/Moon in Taurus, Cancer Mars/Saturn said it to me, he said it like, "I love you, you know?" We weren't involved, he just said it one day. I can't remember what led up to it. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1673
From: East India Company
Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 15, 2021 02:18 AM
I believe.... 🤔
Action speak louder than words.
Not a good talker in that business.
Venus Exactly Conjunct Moon in Gemini and it's 2nd House too. 😬IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 18445
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2021 02:24 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Somna7H:
I believe.... 🤔
Action speak louder than words.
Not a good talker in that business.
Venus Exactly Conjunct Moon in Gemini and it's 2nd House too. 😬
I was thinking the same thing, when I first saw the thread.  but I want to be able to say it more. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 3377
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 15, 2021 04:20 AM
I’m Sagittarius Moon, Gemini Venus. I rarely say the L word. The first one I said it to is my boyfriend and that’s after a long time.Instead I’ll say “Love you so much!” to someone I don’t love but just to make them happy. 😅 I guess that’s where our flirtatious reputation comes from. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
Knowflake Posts: 1673
From: East India Company
Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 15, 2021 07:23 AM
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Originally posted by teasel:
I was thinking the same thing, when I first saw the thread. but I want to be able to say it more.
Everyone know you have the power to do so.
So just say it and give more light into this darkness. IP: Logged |
charlie
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 15, 2021 07:55 AM
I’m not overly fond of saying it. Or I can say it once and when I do, I REALLY TRULY mean it! On the other hand, if I sense that the person I’m with try to pry it out of me, he’ll get the exact opposite. I won’t say zip and feel suffocated instead. Cancer Venus 11H square Uranus, conjunct Saturn and opposite Moon. Cap Moon 5H IP: Logged |
Amoranthaniela
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: europe
Registered: Dec 2020
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posted May 15, 2021 08:42 AM
Pisces 11th house. I believe actions speak louder than words. I'm very particular about how and when I say it. All of the outers are aspecting my moon, too.IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
Knowflake Posts: 3475
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted May 15, 2021 09:09 AM
quote:
Originally posted by teasel:
The first time Sun/Moon in Taurus, Cancer Mars/Saturn said it to me, he said it like, "I love you, you know?" We weren't involved, he just said it one day. I can't remember what led up to it.
with this guy me and him said it to each other for years, but i didn't think he meant it like that, i can't remember how he said it for it to click lol i'm really dumb in that way where it can take a bit for me to grasp how someone means it because in my head i don't really default to thinking anything of it he thought i knew too, and in retrospect i should've but like 🤷♀️ i need things spelled out for me, there's no actions or words that could be mistaken as anything else less serious that work on me i can pick up on a lot of things, but that's a huge blindspot for me he's cold when he's in one of his moods though which i don't like because it can last a bit though we can also argue and make up mid argument and he knows if he can get me to laugh it's pretty guaranteed to be over (he has a leo stellium so i think that's part of it) IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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Registered: Jul 2019
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posted May 15, 2021 12:27 PM
Waiting for people to say Libra or Virgo .😊I could be stingy with it, but I believe I’m the one who nurture relationships anyway. (Mostly, In the middle stage)
Also, I think I might produce emotions so I don’t really need to express them. Give me actions.
I agree they louder than words. IP: Logged |
sis
Knowflake Posts: 615
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 17, 2021 02:58 PM
Moon in Gemini, Venus in CapI say I love yous everyday
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Astra
Knowflake Posts: 1154
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 18, 2021 10:52 PM
I have a moon in Capricorn and venus in Aries. I have never told anyone I loved them except for my parents, though I only love my mom now. Even then, it's very rare for me to say those words. I've had ex boyfriends tell me they love me while their actions say otherwise. To me, talk is cheap. This is why I show I love someone through acts of service rather than just reciting a bunch of pretty words. IP: Logged |
Hemilla
Knowflake Posts: 778
From: State of mind
Registered: May 2015
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posted May 19, 2021 02:32 PM
I have gemini venus and sun, pisces moon, i dont think i can SAY it lolI am not good at expressong love with spoken words as ironic as it is with venus in gemini - but i DO have square between venus and moon, might be reason for the struggle to EXPRESS emotions yikes I can write about it from a detached point of view, but not personal, like if it is about expressing MY emotions it gets hard, but in general speaking about emotions when not affected, i can be deep and descriptive lol IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
Knowflake Posts: 1144
From: California
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted May 19, 2021 07:28 PM
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Originally posted by Hemilla:
I have gemini venus and sun, pisces moon, i dont think i can SAY it lolI am not good at expressong love with spoken words as ironic as it is with venus in gemini - but i DO have square between venus and moon, might be reason for the struggle to EXPRESS emotions yikes I can write about it from a detached point of view, but not personal, like if it is about expressing MY emotions it gets hard, but in general speaking about emotions when not affected, i can be deep and descriptive lol
Do you have your moon in the 12th house? I have my moon in the 12th and it is hard for me express my emotions verbally. I prefer to demonstrate but I force myself to say it because I know some people want to hear it.
Since you have Pisces moon it's interesting you aren't as demonstrative so I wonder if its your house placement
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Hemilla
Knowflake Posts: 778
From: State of mind
Registered: May 2015
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posted May 20, 2021 04:36 AM
My moon rules 12th and is in 8th house in pisces, so its quite piscean and it being in 8th makes sense to keep everything very private Expression of emotions is quite a challange, i feel like it might be ridiculed if expressed to wrong people, and hoq can i know whos wrong and whos right But to be honest it probably steams from childhood, family was fonder of fighting eachother than loving eachother IP: Logged |
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