posted June 08, 2021 02:28 AM            

I ask because in synastries is often said couples with most of trines gets lazy,took eachother for granted,they HAVE TO take action in order to make it work,while harder aspects PUSH people automatically to fight..

Isn't it same for natals? People who have more easy aspects are boring and lead less interesting lifes then people with hard aspects? Less charsima?

Yes,i understand all people have mix of good/bad,but i talk of so many people who DO have most of trines VS people with most of harsher aspects.

What is your opinion? I think the more red chart that person will be more interesting,fun as their life is more struggle so they lead richer lives?
Am i right? Do you know someone with most blue charts that are very dynamics and charismatics as well?

posted June 08, 2021 06:25 AM            

i have a fixed cross, my chart is mostly a big square with oppositions.

even my psychologist told me: "you have so many experiences in life, they shaped you in such a complex way (...)"

my sun and moon are only "positively" aspected. but note that my sun is conjunct chiron and pluto.

main experiences, in some order: divorce/abandonment, moving places all my life, depressed mother, unstable home, neglect, emotional abuse, seeing my mother lose it everyday and one time seeing she was cutting her neck and locking herself in the bathroom, losing all money and home at 9 years old, abandoned at my aunt where i was sexually abused and ignored until dissociation, moving at 12 at my grandparents in a small apartment with no space and privacy until 18 with my mother turning suicidal and extremely depressed, never sure about the future, abusive relationships, no friends since i was always moving places and i was always the new and weird one, almost became a hooker for a big mafia druglord, now during
pandemic mom was allowed to live with my aunt but she beat her and lost her place and will to live again. then the aunt (that ****** me up too in my childhood) called all my family and said my mother is crazy and that she jumped first... my mom is the black sheep and could not do anything

posted June 08, 2021 06:40 AM            

i've experienced a lot of weird **** though both in the spiritual esoteric sense and just life in general

lot of abuse (every kind, for most of my life) and drug addiction and the life that goes with that, seen my fair share of **** too + health issues that have been extremely bad at points etc and so on not worth getting into really

i think the easy aspects in my chart helped me weather it to some degree though, like i'm extremely grateful to have that grand trine with moon-mercury-uranus because it's been pretty integral to dealing with **** that i think i otherwise would've drowned in

@SoulofaBird

posted June 08, 2021 08:44 AM            

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posted June 08, 2021 10:15 AM            

Love her or hate her (i don't care for her), Nancy Pelosi is an example of such a person, with a very hard chart that has Pluto, Saturn, Venus and Uranus square/opposing her scorpio moon. These aspects are not very tight, but they are there nonetheless. She happens to have Pluto trine her sun, so she is very Plutonian.

posted June 08, 2021 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by ilunatique:
@Dumuzi

thank you for the kind words. i see that we share a similar aspect: moon close to north node around 7th house

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you're welcome, that aspect can make relationships emotionally intense and be associated with emotional issues for the individual themselves

@Ami

posted June 08, 2021 12:08 PM            

I feel I have had an interesting exciting full life, I take chances and keep things interesting. I do live my life to the fullest.

My motto is Life is an adventure and the world is your playground.

AC in Saggy trine Venus conjunct Mars in Leo.

I don't know how my life seems to others as I keep a lot about my life to myself since my chart ruler Jupiter conjuncts Uranus falls in the 12th but I was born in the Dominican Republic then at age 10 moved to Miami Fl and in my mid 20s to Colorado, three different worlds/lives, each with their stories.

You must be willing to fall to learn how to fly.

posted June 08, 2021 12:56 PM            

AC trine venus conjunct mars makes it so I pursue what I want and go for it

Saturn conjunct Pluto gives me resilience and stamina and with my saggy rising optimism allows me to get back up when I fall.

posted June 08, 2021 01:09 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I want to add, I don't think experiencing trauma itself makes your life interesting, IMO is how you cope with the trauma and deal with the pain that makes you interesting and unique. Those moments were you get back up are the most empowering moments of your life. Can you create something beautiful from that hardship, pain or trauma?

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yeah i was thinking that too seemed like traumatic **** was being romanticized, but i didn't feel like adding it, glad you did 😁

posted June 08, 2021 01:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
My goodness, Ami.

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This was how I found God though, B, so it was a small thing!

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posted June 08, 2021 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
yeah i was thinking that too seemed like traumatic **** was being romanticized, but i didn't feel like adding it, glad you did 😁

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posted June 08, 2021 01:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This was how I found God though, B, so it was a small thing!

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