posted June 18, 2021 05:28 PM            

2. How long were you guys together?

3. Do you remember how their Venus was/is aspected?

4. Which house was their Venus placed in?

5. Did/does they have any planets in their 7th House?

6. Were/are your Moon or Venus Signs compatible by element or modality?

7. How do they deal with day-to-day life?

8. If you are not still together, why did you breakup?

9. If you are still with him or her, has he expressed his thoughts or an action-plan towards official-engagement, marriage, and family?

posted June 18, 2021 07:05 PM            

1. He pursued me relentlessly. Said he had a years-long crush on me (we knew each other from high school). I was resistant to him at first but eventually thought “why not?”. We had good sexual chemistry and a lively banter. Our conversations were intellectually stimulating (we’re both academics). Seems like he treated me really well, right? Yeah, until I found out he lied to me about being single.

2. 3 or 4 months.

3. Just put his birthday on Astro to check it. He has Venus in Virgo (0°0’09”) retrograde. Conjunct his Sun (1°56a), sesquiquadrate his Moon (1°26s), conjunct his Mercury (1°30s), conjunct his Jupiter (4°41a), quincunx his Saturn (1°42s) and sesquiquadrate his Neptune (0°41a).

4. No idea, because I don’t know his time of birth.

5. Again, no idea.

6. Both our Venuses are mutable (his in Virgo, mine in Gemini) and have a quintile going on (-1°19s). Other than that, our Moons, his in Capricorn and mine in Scorpio, are in a sextile (-1°01s).

7. He has a huge ego and can't handle criticism or defeat. He’s vain. He’s arrogant when it comes to his intellectual capacities (“I’m the best at studying THIS”). He's erudite (has a PhD in Philosophy, appreciates classical music/art/literature). He’s determined, works a lot, always looking to improve himself. All that said, he's not a trustworthy person: he's a liar and a cheater.

8. I broke up with him because he lied to me about being single. He told me he was, and he had no social media for me to “check”. We also ran in different circles at that time, so there was no one who could tell me “hey, that dude has a gf”. During the course of our relationship, I noticed he had some odd behaviors and he was extremely worried about other people seeing us together. That made me suspicious, but I didn’t think too much of it. Then I found out he actually had me blocked on all social media (probably so I couldn’t see he had a girlfriend), and by chance, an acquaintance of mine who happened to know his girlfriend told me they were dating for YEARS and that he had a history of cheating. Well, I confronted him about it, he still had the nerve to lie to my face, I told him to **** off and that’s that.

posted June 18, 2021 08:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
1. What were they like throughout your relationship, and the way they treated you?

2. How long were you guys together?

3. Do you remember how their Venus was/is aspected?

4. Which house was their Venus placed in?

5. Did/does they have any planets in their 7th House?

6. Were/are your Moon or Venus Signs compatible by element or modality?

7. How do they deal with day-to-day life?

8. If you are not still together, why did you breakup?

9. If you are still with him or her, has he expressed his thoughts or an action-plan towards official-engagement, marriage, and family?

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Leo Mars- Cancer Sun and Merc, Gem Venus, Cap Moon conjunct mine

He was a good partner, solid and consistent. But his Leo Mars is unaspected for the most part. He was stingy, until you pointed it out and then he was a diligent worker. But definitely stingy and financially well off but kept it close at hand.

We were together 1.5yrs. His Venus was in Gem, in 11th house, widely opposite Neptune. He is very loyal, not a strayer or cheater at all but also completely in his head and analyzing everything.