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Topic: Anyone else with ASC/Venus/Mars in Cancer find it nearly impossible to let go?
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Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 1728
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 20, 2021 10:52 AM
  
I've had the same crush for 8 years now, and I can't help but wonder if I would ever get over him if we were to breakup. Also, any of y’all really adore babies & toddlers?!------------------
Cancer Rising
2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 8696
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 20, 2021 11:05 AM
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
I've had the same crush for 8 years now, and I can't help but wonder if I would ever get over him if we were to breakup.
So the person you have a crush on you are actually "with"? Wow!!! IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98
Knowflake Posts: 1728
From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 20, 2021 11:23 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
So the person you have a crush on you are actually "with"? Wow!!!
Haha, yeah 🙂 Our mothers have been best friends since 1981, and his sister is my Godmother, so it’s pretty awesome. It was worth the wait! IP: Logged |
kani
Knowflake Posts: 986
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted July 20, 2021 04:18 PM
It does feel that way sometimes (I have moon sq Pluto and a cancer asc) but then my feelings do go away and I wonder what all the fuss was about. In that moment of being all in my feelings I can't imagine not having those feelings. But I guess that is quite a wide spread reaction isn't it? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 8696
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 21, 2021 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Haha, yeah 🙂 Our mothers have been best friends since 1981, and his sister is my Godmother, so it’s pretty awesome. It was worth the wait!
I understand. I have Moon in Cancer. There are people that I still fantasize about from years back. And one actually has Mars in Cancer. I think in water sign world, time is not fixed. As long as feelings exist, it still matters. This even if it's 20 years later. 🤷🏿♂️. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 5134
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 21, 2021 12:50 PM
No. When my boat sails it won't come back. I also don't like thinking about the past; what I did or with whom. Makes me uncomfortable! I much rather live in the now and fantasize about what the future might bring. Cancer Venus 11H IP: Logged |
Pale Blue Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Whatever Forever
Registered: Oct 2020
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posted July 21, 2021 01:12 PM
No.I'm very passionate and devoted when I'm with someone, to the point where it consumes me. But once it's over, it's over. I never look back. I'm also quite good at letting all sorts of things go, even material ones. For example, I don't keep mementos or anything of the sort. I feel like they're just clutter. Cancer Mars and Ascendant here. IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
Knowflake Posts: 459
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Registered: Jul 2017
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posted July 22, 2021 09:14 PM
I find it hard to let go of my love ones (family, friends, significant others, sometimes coworkers), if I haven't give it my all. I hate I can get attach because I know it would end. Trips, vacations and activities too!Sometimes I have to learn what I did was enough. Grieving is okay when relationships ended to move on. It's like I live in the past. The older I get the more I look back. With ppl Ive dated, I only like to keep the memories and wisdoms. There isn't any feelings left. I adore babies/toddlers then they poop or scream lol IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 3575
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted July 23, 2021 03:01 AM
Really, Cancerians are so attached? My guy has Mars/Jupiter in Cancer, Moon conjunct Pluto and Venus conjunct Saturn. People said he’s devoted and serious in relationships but sometimes I wonder….IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 5134
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 23, 2021 05:23 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Really, Cancerians are so attached? My guy has Mars/Jupiter in Cancer, Moon conjunct Pluto and Venus conjunct Saturn. People said he’s devoted and serious in relationships but sometimes I wonder….
I really think it depends on their moon, seeing as that’s the ruler of Cancer. I have a Cap moon so attachment for me is a foreign subject. IP: Logged |
vansio
Knowflake Posts: 1859
From: the outskirts of Delphi
Registered: Dec 2017
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posted July 23, 2021 11:27 AM
lol ^ Charlie 🤜🏽🤛🏽 🤷🏽♀️ IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 3575
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted July 23, 2021 12:41 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I really think it depends on their moon, seeing as that’s the ruler of Cancer. I have a Cap moon so attachment for me is a foreign subject.
He has a Libra Moon. IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
Knowflake Posts: 459
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Registered: Jul 2017
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posted July 24, 2021 01:20 AM
Hikaru, what's his 2nd like? Maybe it's his Pluto/Moon fear of displaying attachment? My ex has that and liked to push me away. Is that him?Im asking because I have a Libra moon. But my Cancer is in 1st and 2nd. With Cancer in 2nd, I find familiarity a security. Added with Moon opposite Venus. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 3575
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted July 29, 2021 12:44 PM
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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Hikaru, what's his 2nd like? Maybe it's his Pluto/Moon fear of displaying attachment? My ex has that and liked to push me away. Is that him?
His 2H is Capricorn and the ruler is conjunct his Venus. The house is empty except PoF on 2nd cusp.
He would go from sweet, loving, clingy to detached and like pushing me away (but he always denies it)… then back to sweet/loving again. IP: Logged |
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