posted July 20, 2021 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
In your experience, which Ascendant, 11th House cusp sign(s), or 11th House Planets, would incline one to never allow someone they don't know follow them on social media? And maybe even have very minimal followers (50-200)?

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That's my case.

I'm a Cancer Rising. 11H cusp is Gemini, and my Venus is there. 10H is Taurus and my Sun is there (conjunct my MC).

posted July 20, 2021 06:40 PM            

6th house sun, I have it conjunct Chiron, Mercury, and Ceres. I’m not an influencer, I don’t need everyone seeing whatever I post. Sun rules my MC.

posted July 21, 2021 03:15 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
@Teasel, I was going to ask if you think it is your Scorpio aspect?

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posted July 23, 2021 12:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Laylay:
Like the above poster I'm an aries rising
Cap 10H with NN and neptune on the mc, uranus, mars & venus also in 10th
Aqua 11H with sun, mercury and saturn.

I am uuuultra private on social media. I dont even have my real name on fb, will reject a friend request if I dont know them. I barely post. I only use it to follow, not be followed. Same with insta.

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I’m wondering what makes a person be this way? I have this person following me which is a relative of mine… I followed her back so to “reciprocate” however she didn’t accept it.

She watches my stories regularly which confuses me. Like why would she care that I follow her back?

posted July 23, 2021 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I’m wondering what makes a person be this way? I have this person following me which is a relative of mine… I followed her back so to “reciprocate” however she didn’t accept it.

She watches my stories regularly which confuses me. Like why would she care that I follow her back?

Also, several other relatives of mine do follow her… so it’s not like she doesn’t want family members following her… it’s confusing I’m just wondering why a person would be bothered to have someone be in their business if they’re in my business. Maybe you can help me understand this 😁.

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posted July 24, 2021 10:43 AM            

It has something to do with my Cancer sun ex. When we broke up, I kind of like running away from him. The first 5 years I felt like I was haunted so I closed my contact only shared to my family and closest friends. I didn't have any social media only an account that allowed us to chat with the members (my colleagues). I had also been stalked by Cancer sun, my junior and he got my chat account I didn't know from where. He often send me a message like, "I've watched you from... " or "I saw you..." or "you are wearing... " without him ever tried to talk to me in person and he didn't reveal his face. It was creepy and scary.

I started having social media when I had graduated from college and got used to make it private because stalkers left me a trauma.

The peak I closed all accounts and started using instagram 'till now privately because my husband's ex quietly stalked me and copied my activities and styles.

I'm not a type that follow back someone, if friends that I feel safe request to follow me, I accept, but it doesn't mean I want to follow them back because I usually use my Instagram account to looking for some inspirations. I like my feeds fill with inspiration than someone's life, unless it is family members. I don't curious or envy about other people's life, like, mind your own business type of a person I am. I like blocking stalkers (if it is a friend, I don't mind too) because I want them to live happy without being a shadow in other people's life or maybe they should find someone else.

Sagittarius ASC, conjunct Saturn/Uranus, trine Moon/Jupiter, sextile Mercury.
Scorpio Pluto 11th house.

posted July 25, 2021 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Laylay:

The most honest answer I can give from the way I personally can be is that I'm very curious about people. I'm curious about their life and what they're doing but I dont want them to know anything about me.
Sometimes its curiosity sometimes it's a bit of envy. I know that sounds kinda stalkerish but perhaps shes curious or maybe jealous and follows you to look at your life whilst hiding yer own from you for that reason.
This to me is a pluto thing though.
Pluto is my dominant planet. It's in the 8th in scorpio and it's not well aspected. I get investigative with people and im secretive of my self. I want to know everything about them and hide everything about me. But only with people I'm curious/envious of.
This may not be the case of your relative but the above I wrote is why I'm like that :/ dont judge 😂

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I’m not judging lol but perhaps start liking yourself more. I’m not saying you don’t, but those people you envy may just as well feel the same towards you (just maybe not in a Plutonian way).

This relative of mine, although I dunno if the reason for not accepting me is the same as your reasoning… she is very attractive and definitely more socially vibrant or “comfortable” socially than me. Which to me is always a source of insecurity almost and can’t understand why anyone would envy other people if they’re doing perfectly well in their social life. I dunno if that makes sense.

I actually understand you to an extent, I feel like my mom is that way. For some reason she envies people a lot (she will never admit it with her Scorpio Mars, just give excuses as to why she’s not as talented or capable of doing certain things cuz of specific people that can do it way better). When I know for certain that people like her a lot and maybe even envy her.

posted July 25, 2021 04:40 AM            

One aspect in Cyber Threat Analysis involves asking the question What are the Capablities of People That Want To Do Harm On Me?. What Vulnerablities Exist For That To Happen?. Adding certain people and the connections between them can be considered one of them.

I know it sounds bad, being the inqusitve Gemini that I am If I can't find information or access certain accounts the next best way is to find out people that may be connected to them. You can still gain some access if there tagged.

I'm fairly certain that most of the US Capital Hill Rioters were apprehended that way.

It starts with that dumb retired fireman, Robert Sanford that took part in the riot who is clearly distinguishable on camera...followed by everyone else connected to him getting caught afterwards.

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Off topic, I think i've mention this many times before lindaland is still using http instead of the more secure https.

Make sure you don't use the same password for lindaland as your other accounts, it is the weakest link.