posted July 30, 2021 08:49 AM
I think there can be different reasons for people to stand out and draw attention. But my first guess would be that it is related to the Ascendant and/or Midheaven as these are highly visible. Leo and Sun are often associated with grabbing attention and being very noticable. So a Leo Ascendent/Midheaven or Sun in H1/H10 especially when conjunct to Ascendant/Midheaven, will most likely get noticed.
A more obsessive type of attention could be related to Black Moon Lilith. Lilith is associated with the dark side of our personality and behaviour that is considered outside the norms of society. I've read in several forums that having BML in H1/H10 might generate unwanted attention. The closer to Ascendant/Midheaven the stronger the energy.
It could also be related to H7, the House of the Other. But to be honest I find this a very difficult House. Either we project the energy of this House and the planets in it unto the other or it is how we behave in 1 on 1 relationships. Either it is the energy we are attracted to or it is the energy we attract. I haven't really figured this out yet.
@WhiteBirds: I'm sorry to see that you had such a difficult childhood. I hope you're doing much better now. When you look at your Midheaven (MC), what sign is it in and what planet is closest to it?