posted August 05, 2021 10:25 PM            

(Please share your experience seeing this as a key in Romantic couples charts.)

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I know this is less usual; I have read other's say they have Love connection synastry with an involvement with the MC to various energies.

In my situation I've had this too.

It makes me wonder if this could be the MC person is an Inspiration to the planet/luminary person. Or the non MC person feels the MC is their pinnacle in terms of a mate. Thinking higher point in chart for the one - Could this be a "Dream" love. An "ideal mate"?

As well couldn't it be a career/workplace love connection? Looking at this it makes me think "admiration*. Somebody who sees the "other" as fascinating doing "what they do" and shinning. Similar to how a fanboy/fangirl might think of a rising new
(Example) Chef @a huge restaurant has a Sous chef working with them. A crush turning to romantic involvement rooted in admiration?

posted August 06, 2021 02:48 AM            

Imo,the Mc planets or conjunctions represents what the native deems a "high priority" characteristics we want in life(including relationships).Whilst the Ic is the "this goes without saying" characteristics that we take comfort in knowing are an integral part of the person we are drawn to.

In composite, we have Sat/Ura in 10th. This relationship certainly feels "serious"(Sat). This even as it is long distance(Uran).

Most of our talks are very logical/ down to earth(Sat). And ofcourse some unconventional stuff does creep in(Ur) but its mostly to keep each other on our
toes.

In natal, he has Sun in 3rd conj Ic. I have Moon in 3rd conjunct Ic. It goes without saying that we both want talkers. People who'll talk about what is happening within (Ic).

I have Mercu conj Mc. I prioritize communication. It opposes my Moon. Sp perhaps I go to extremes in expressing how I feel?💁🏿‍♂️

posted August 06, 2021 04:19 AM            

What's  your opinion when Sun hits the other's  MC?
His MC hits my Sun. It would be me looking to him as a partner to aspire to be with?
It's a curious one because I think it's  my side, though Sun, isn't it how other's see "you"  - the light? Maybe subtly  he recognizes my Sun (3rd)? (fun)  We do feel our angels. MC, a desire to rise to,. excel to. The happy ever after all. Career,  spouse,  everything other's  see. 

posted August 06, 2021 10:57 AM            

I haven't had it too highlighted in romantic connections for the most part, but I have a (male) friend where we both have our Sun in each other's 10th Houses.

We are both very spiritually and service focused people. Anyways, we deeply admire and respect each other in this area. We also have a boosting affect on each other in this area, and in how we present to the public/larger society. For example, I have written some positive reviews of his books. We have defended or supported each other on a forum and on YT comments.

I guess a bit "cheerleader'ish" in some respects.

But I never underestimate the power of status, authority, and/power to attract people, especially on a physical, body level. There is a percentage of women out there for example, that seem to get attracted to men (or partners generally) primarily based on this factor. It relates back to the Moon and IC and that of home, security, and family, and that a materially successful partner can provide more material security of the latter.

posted August 07, 2021 05:38 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Thank you Aries23Degrees for answering!
You think you had this connection too?
 In terms of romance, then  the energy would be aspire or even "inspiration"?
There's an old song by an American, Chicago, band that comes to mind.

What's  your opinion when Sun hits the other's  MC?
His MC hits my Sun. It would be me looking to him as a partner to aspire to be with?
It's a curious one because I think it's  my side, though Sun, isn't it how other's see "you"  - the light? Maybe subtly  he recognizes my Sun (3rd)? (fun)  We do feel our angels. MC, a desire to rise to,. excel to. The happy ever after all. Career,  spouse,  everything other's  see. 

Saturn/ Uranus,  does it sometimes feel eratic?  (Uranus) All yours/his challenges in the synastry looks like the Glue. Saturn certainly brings stability.  Uranus is what I find as curious.

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That Sat/Uranus mix is certainly a dicey combo to have on the MC. It has the "crazy"(Uranus)/ normal(Sat) effect on our relations.

There are usually disturbances with communication, the inability to reach each other timeously, delays in visiting each other. All veey characteristic of Ura/Sat.

Concerning the MC;I made the mistake once of looking at the MC as a "destination" rather than a manifestation here and now.

An Astrologer pointed out to me that the MC is energy happening NOW.All the chart is happening NOW. Take conscious awareness of the energy right here and NOW.

If the partner's Sun is on your MC, they may enjoy clarity of vision or thoughts with you. Lots of "aha" moments for them.

Maybe you help "illuminate" (Sun) something that they had not known -depending on the sign that's there.

If the sign is Gemini on the MC, you may (for instance) articulate something from a perspective that brings great clarity to the Sun person.A sort of "lighbulb" comes on. And they say "yes. I see it so clearly now." Etc.

I used to wonder why a Moon in Cap friend of mine would say "I never saw it like that" or "wow.I never thought of it that way" etc.

And that's because his Moon on my MC was having its inner thoughts/feelings articulated in a way that made them more tangible and clear.

posted August 11, 2021 08:56 PM            

Last big 3 relationships had late Pisces or early Aries Sun conjunct my MC

posted August 14, 2021 01:33 PM            

We met through work, but that's about it, work doesn't play much role in our relationship.

I also wonder what on Earth it could mean.

My Eros is conjunct his MC even more tightly.

posted August 19, 2021 09:59 PM            

With 1st, 4th, and 7th it is not only very strong, but also very personal, and often more emotional in nature.

But as these comes in pairs of axes, it can be hard to separate them, because whatever is interacting with the MC is simultaneously also often interacting with the IC, especially when talking about conjunctions and oppositions (the most powerful/affecting aspects).

I'll give an example. I knew someone whose late Aries Sun, earlier Taurus Mercury (ruler of their chart), and Taurus South Node conjunction was conjunct my MC, and conversely their Scorp N. Node was conjunct my IC.

We shared a direct past life together in very ancient, pre history Egypt (I think, since I know I've had a life there, and I had a dream about observing her life there, and when we first met she said she felt she was the incarnation of an Egyptian self), and in that life, I had a lot of power, status, and influence.

I was a priest and she a priestess. I think part of her initial attraction to me in that life was because I did have a lot of power, influence, and status. In the dream I had about observing her past life, she came from native Egyptian royalty (I was originally a northern immigrant and initially rose from humble beginnings), and was somewhat concerned with such ego based stuff, at least initially (until her spiritual regeneration, which past I had helped a lot with as a guide/facilitator figure).

Well when I met her in this life, I had none of that, and she had not gone through a regeneration. However, she continued that general pattern by getting involved with a man that is somewhat high up in her sex cult group, a man also twice her age (and I thought I was perhaps too old..).

I think that astro. synastric pattern quite probably relates to that past life dynamic. She did seem initially to respect and consider what I said, until I became too pressing and intense.

posted August 19, 2021 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Crazy that I came across this thread. I was just pondering why I end up in relationships where the man always has their sun on my MC or near that angle.

Last big 3 relationships had late Pisces or early Aries Sun conjunct my MC

I always thought it had to do with my 7th house being ruled by saturn but there could be more to it.

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I wonder if the MC can be a hookup zone for some. Similar to the 4th. Around roots or home. They may meet childhood neighbors or those friends to family. MC for you might be your trigger. Pisces can be a persuasive sign too. A rather difficult one to ignore. They are mesmerizing in their way.

posted August 19, 2021 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Karma30:
In my current relationship my venus is widely conjunct my bf's MC (I'm NOT attracted to his 'social status' but i'm pushing him towards his goals) while he has his Ceres PERFECTLY conjunct my MC.
Any ideas?

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posted August 19, 2021 11:35 PM            

I had a relationship with someone where we had moon conjunct asc dw. Initially, very strong pull...but the insecurities reared their ugly heads and meddled with the beautiful energy generated by the angle aspects. Even to this day it is underlying energy. We both feel it. It is up to each person to reconcile that Discomfort. You know what I mean?

I think you will find a level of frustration with these synastry aspects if you are more “in tune” with yourself...because most of the world is not.

posted August 19, 2021 11:45 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
I wonder if the MC can be a [b] hookup zone for some. Similar to the 4th. Around roots or home. They may meet childhood neighbors or those friends to family. MC for you might be your trigger. Pisces can be a persuasive sign too. A rather difficult one to ignore. They are mesmerizing in their way.

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I would not label them as hookup aspects. I was with my ex husband for 18 years so it was definitely more than a hookup. But I think what you may be hinting at is what draws you to that person. And we were drawn to each other for sure. However our relationship became incredible stale.

posted August 19, 2021 11:59 PM            

And I'm very sorry. For your loss.

posted August 20, 2021 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
I thought it sounded bad, I apologize. I don't know what it could be called maybe a matchmaker? I didn't mean it disrespectfully.

And I'm very sorry. For your loss.

He was not a good effect for you but he may have taught you, the way you absolutely *should be and not be treated*.

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Oh no! No disrespect taken at all! Please don’t apologize..we are all just learning from each other here.

Maybe it is more of a matchmaker aspect. The mid heaven represent our public self or so it says after all. I seem to attract or be attracted to those types anyway.