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Topic: I sincerely apologize
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WhiteBirds
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted August 07, 2021 11:50 AM
  
I think the place to vent about adoption is not here. So I want to apologize, from my heart, for having done it. Nor do I think that astrology has answers around this topic of my life. Honestly, I don't hate adoption that much.
Perhaps it is something that had to happen, and it happened, beyond my will, or lack of it, and beyond the decisions that I could make, which were void. I don't know if I can say that I love my parents. After a blow to the heart, it is quite difficult, at least at the moment.
But I can say that I don't hate them. So again, my apologies for all my strong statements regarding this issue. It will not happen again. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 14730
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 07, 2021 12:44 PM
We accept ofcourse your apology!
We hope you continue to start threads and participate as I think you have interesting perspectives and insights! However, I also think you very much need to get a lot out which is understandable and is important you talk through all this but with a professional, a counselor that can hold space for you to process that pain in a constructive way that can facilitate healing. We care and want you to heal and thrive in this life.
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Seraphinesky
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: jupiter
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted August 07, 2021 02:21 PM
OkIP: Logged |
Seraphinesky
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: jupiter
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted August 07, 2021 02:21 PM
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Seraphinesky
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From: jupiter
Registered: Nov 2020
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posted August 07, 2021 02:25 PM
Sorry my internet went nuts
Whitebird i do not kn0w youbutim sure you will work things outIP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 4716
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2021 02:42 PM
WhiteBirds, of course we accept your apologies. Ability to apologize is tied to the ability to self-reflect and to grow instead of being stuck in your ways. I sincerely wish you profound healing, because healing is the best revenge. For me, healing says, I will not allow what you did to me to ruin my life, and make me a forever wounded person, because then you would have won. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted August 07, 2021 03:28 PM
you didnt do anything you need to apologize for in my view but okIP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere
Knowflake Posts: 47
From: The Nether World
Registered: Mar 2021
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posted August 07, 2021 03:59 PM
Ofcourse your apology is accepted. You are obviously going through a rough time right now. I agree with Belage that healing is related to self reflection. This is an important step and in time it will help you to look at your pain in a different way. Maybe you can find a professional that can help you get started with this proces. IP: Logged |
WhiteBirds
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted August 07, 2021 10:06 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
We accept ofcourse your apology!
We hope you continue to start threads and participate as I think you have interesting perspectives and insights! However, I also think you very much need to get a lot out which is understandable and is important you talk through all this but with a professional, a counselor that can hold space for you to process that pain in a constructive way that can facilitate healing. We care and want you to heal and thrive in this life.
Thanks 😊 I'm not going to any psychologist, it really depresses me more. IP: Logged |
WhiteBirds
Knowflake Posts: 324
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted August 07, 2021 10:08 PM
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Originally posted by Seraphinesky:
Sorry my internet went nuts
Whitebird i do not kn0w youbutim sure you will work things out
Thanks for trusting me hehe ☺️ IP: Logged |
WhiteBirds
Knowflake Posts: 324
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted August 07, 2021 10:10 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
WhiteBirds, of course we accept your apologies. Ability to apologize is tied to the ability to self-reflect and to grow instead of being stuck in your ways. I sincerely wish you profound healing, because healing is the best revenge. For me, healing says, I will not allow what you did to me to ruin my life, and make me a forever wounded person, because then you would have won.
Good point. I will surely remember this if I manage to get out of hell. Thanks a lot 🙏❤️
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WhiteBirds
Knowflake Posts: 324
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted August 07, 2021 10:14 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
you didnt do anything you need to apologize for in my view but ok
Oh I think I should apologize 🙈😅
Because I think it is rude to use this forum to spread hate.
This speaks very badly of me. 🥺 IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 19497
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2021 10:45 PM
This forum has seen a lot worse. Don’t worry about it. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 14730
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 07, 2021 10:49 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
This forum has seen a lot worse. Don’t worry about it.
That is one thing I love about you T, you have a big heart and are very forgiving. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 14730
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 07, 2021 10:55 PM
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Originally posted by WhiteBirds:
Oh I think I should apologize 🙈😅
Because I think it is rude to use this forum to spread hate.
This speaks very badly of me. 🥺
You catching yourself says a lot about you too in a very GOOD way, I feel it shows you are an evolved soul, I don't think you meant for it to go this direction, your pain took over bc you need to feel heard and your pain needs to be witnessed so none of us are judging you but I am proud of you for apologizing even though I get were Dumuzi is coming from but I think is good you are apologizing and we appreciate the gesture. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
Knowflake Posts: 3772
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted August 08, 2021 08:25 AM
quote:
Originally posted by WhiteBirds:
Oh I think I should apologize 🙈😅
Because I think it is rude to use this forum to spread hate.
This speaks very badly of me. 🥺
you're going through some **** so you said some **** , it happens how do i put this? i don't think you were right to act some of the ways you've had but you aren't apologizing for the parts of it that i don't think are bad and the parts i think aren't great are the sort of **** that doesn't need to be apologized for because it's a pretty normal reaction to bad **** going on in your life and is what it is the only bit of it that matters is whatever way **** progresses
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Amoranthaniela
Knowflake Posts: 146
From: europe
Registered: Dec 2020
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posted August 08, 2021 10:01 AM
I really don't think you did anything wrong to be honest, but I do think it'd be good if you find ways to let it all outIP: Logged |
GalacticCoreExplosionV2
Knowflake Posts: 197
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Registered: Jul 2021
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posted August 08, 2021 10:26 AM
If you work on self love and loving and forgiving others more, your life will improve a lot, at least within. Speaking from experience on this one, and I didn't have the easiest childhood either. I used to pray to God to change me and make me more normal so that others would like/tolerate me better. Now, I fly my freak flag high bitcches. And much of the time, I really don't care too much what others do or don't think about this self. IP: Logged |
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