posted August 08, 2021 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Since some of that is likely up to free will, and you can't see freewill in a chart, then who can say?

With your 5th House ruler, the Moon, in Leo and conjunct Leo Mars, I'm surprised you don't have an active dating/romantic life.

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posted August 08, 2021 02:58 PM            

Romance and relationships can be overrated. There are plenty of people in these who are miserable.

And there are people that have been single and/or celibate for a long time that are relatively happy.

Point being, that someone or something outside of you can't and won't make you happy and fulfilled.

Maybe your Soul and/or Higher self/Spirit is asking you to become more happy and whole within, before you meet someone that you can share that with?

That's what happened to me. While I did have relationships, before I met my current partner, they were brief, chaotic, and painful. I met her at a point in my life when I dropped the attachment to feeling like I need to be in a relationship to be happy. It was the first time in my life where I was consciously trying to avoid them, to focus working on and healing myself.

When I met her, it was the first time that I was ok with making out with someone and not trying to pursue something beyond that. Basically I was co-dependent for awhile before I met her, and even now, I would say that I'm a recovering co-dependent.

Venus, the ruler of your 7th, is somewhat stressed since she is opposed your Moon Mars conjunction, and particularly very closely opposed the Mars part.

One of the potential meanings of this combo, could be something along the lines of, difficulties and anger with a mother figure, could be unconsciously spilling over into other areas of life, such as relationships. Perhaps you unconsciously project the message of "leave me alone" to potential partners based on that anger and/or difficult connection?